Originally posted by alwaysthere@Mar 4 2005, 07:15 PM
Last night, my brother and I were watching tv.
Now my brother really isn't anything like me.....
PS: sorry for the LONG post.
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Firstly, don't apologize. It is a very thoughtful and sensitive post, and I bet it has been good for you to write the details at length.
Your brother sounds a very angry person, and it seems that he is very disappointed in himself.
However, I think a good sign is the way he treated you last night-giving you a hug I mean-and in the morning.
Don't be scared by crying in such a situation: it showed your brother that his attitudes do affect people. Maybe it was the first time that he has experienced some empathy.
You have changed him by the way: he has said he won't talk in his prejudiced way around you. And then this may not be around other people either: maybe he will stop thinking like this altogther. See, the Power of One!
But yes, I do hope your future coming out experiences will be gentler.
All the best to you from
zzorus