I'm not going to vote or say much since (1) you don't do it for me (being straight has that effect) and (2) I'm probably the last person that should be giving advice on confidence, but here's a tip: put all of your pics in your gallery here. That way, there's a link to your pictures from all of your posts (like where it says view gallery under my Chewbacca avatar), and people can vote/comment on them individually.
Welcome to LPSG, though.