Hot co worker with big bulge

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  1. montana101

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    I just started woring with this guy in march. He is a fun guy and very talkative. He wears sweet pants a lot and his bulge is very nice to look at. He is a straight guy, with two kids however he talks about his sex life with me more and more. Each week we work together he is either talking about his dick or how amazing at sex he is.
    So my question; is he just a guy that likes talking about sex or is he sending me messages?
    He knows I'm gay but is playing this strange big brother bonding/ feeling my body thing.
    I wanna fuck him
    What can I do?
     
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    You make the first move, and see if he really is what he say he his, dick wise. How about happy hour? If he knows you're gay hint at how he would easily be hit on by other gay guys. Of course implying you. Be as free as he is in talking about sex. M2M.
     
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    He could just be very open about personal stuff. He could also be very horny and for some guys sex is just sex with a man or woman.
     
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    becarefull some guys just liking talking/ bragg about sex,
     
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    If you like your job I say leave him alone unless he comes right out and says "let's play." Dipping in the company ink is mostly always a bad idea with bad consequences. Is his dick really worth losing your comfortable working conditions or even worst, livelihood over?
     
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    Let him talk your ears out, well maybe until you guys are super close, just to be on the safe side. Sexual Harassment, and hostile workplace and all that good stuff is all over work nowadays. :)
     
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    He knows you are gay, you think he is straight, see how he reacts when you wear tight trousers one day...I think that should sort things out rather nicely! If he reacts to your cock and talks on about it, then I think he can be had!
     
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    What you can do is be thankful that you have someone at work that you enjoy working with, who also is level headed enough to have an open discussion about sex with you, without judging you for being gay, even though he is straight.

    Build a friendship with him, and get sex outside of work :smile:
     
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    I'd say just stay the friend he thinks you are... go ahead and admire his package and heat coming from it...but wack off alone at home thinking about it... but don't make a move on him. Now if he tries to unzip your pants and or touches your dick or ass and wants to play, then that is different. Just don't misread signals when he is talking about his dick... men do that....
     
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    From experience, take it easy with co workers. It's all good talking dick and sexcapades as long as you do not
    Offer to do anything to or for him personally.
    Nothing wrong with the next time he brags on his cock for you to say, "looks like you are packing man, how
    Big is that monster". If he throws out a big number, just laugh him off and tell him you would have to see it to believe it. Another thing, next time he brags on his sexual abilities just say dude. Im pretty good myself, I can deepthroat and make your eyes roll back. Dilemma wide open then.
     
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    have him over, serve drinks. watch porn, he will show it all
     
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    Omg...I'm in culinary school and I've befriended a few guys that do this very exact same thing! It is sooooo annoying... I appreciate the comaradery, but its just too much sometimes. Especially the physical touching of me... its almost kinda like they are subconsciously leading me on... and then when I initiate the first move, they get all defensive and say "Heeeeeeey, woooooooh there... what are you doing?" ... In my head, I'm saying "I'm trying to finish what you started" LOL...

    I totally feel your frustration. LoL
     
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    If the touching makes you feel that you're being hit on, tell them to knock it off. Believe me, it's better to nip it in the bud.

    I'm not a prude or uptight by any means, but after a really bad experience at work, if this stuff continued after I said something about it, I'd view it as sexual harrassment and treat it accordingly. And no, I'm not a dick or an asshole.

    Don't let 'em fuck with you dude, no matter how good the attention feels.

     
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    Let him be your fantasy but I would not let it beyond that point. Don't mix business with pleasure as you have much to lose if things go sour.
     
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    Knowing what he knows about your sexuality and also aware that you fancy him

    I strongly believe he is using his charms to try and get one up on you- some guys are like this and the minute you make a move it will be like WOAH WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING and that will be the end of your freindship- I have seen it happen in the workplace all too often

    Next time he brags about sex talk about how good you are at giving head and the size of your own dick or how a mans arse is tighter then a womans or sommat totally stoopid like that- and leave it at that- dont make a move on him
     
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    I'd say enjoy it. He sounds like fun to have around. I'm with Countryguy. Plus,if things are meant to happen then they will.

    Enjoy his friendship.
     
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    I can only advice on two routes of action, whichever suites you:

    Take him to the local gym and when in the shower, drop the soap in a convinient direction and let your bum face his cock, and then take a clumsy step backwards and make contact, and as confusion erupts, try to grope him while pretending that you are trying to gain balance. Then the game is on.

    Or:

    Ask him to help you fix something in the bathroom (at your workplace). When he goes out to check what it is, point into the toilet, and when he bends over, drag your pants down, pull his down and force your penis in/against his ass. If he is game, then he is game. The worst that could happen is that he rejects you. Or beats you up and calls the cops.

    Okay, there is one alternate route: commonsense. And perhaps just be open and tell him that you think he is hot and make an offer (perhaps jokefully) that if he ever crossed the boarder (sexualitywise) then you would be his. Perhaps there should be some beer involved and it should come casually and be burried in conversation short after, and then if he is on to you he might follow up on the hint. I dunno. But be careful.
     
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    Yeah, I think some straight guys really like the comradery they can get with gay guys. Someone they can openly talk about their love of there own dick and sex in general with.

    But I don't think they are thinking of it as sexual with the gay guy they are talking to often. Which can lead to some bad misunderstandings. I would just follow suit and talk about how awesome your cock is or your sex filled weekend was.

    That said, I had a really good night with a 'straight' friend once which started with talking about fucking our girlfriends at the time + a six pack = a fun night of messing around.
     
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    I only see him 5 days a month.
    He is super hot and super straight.
    He had talked about the pics on his phone and anothet co worker had seen it.
    I'm gonna hint about seeing it next time I see him.
    He is to come to my place help to me with some things I might try something then.
    Next time we are alone at work and he starts the talk again. My plan is to talk a out my sex life (not much there I've only been sexuality activd for a year) and ask him if he has ever messed around a guy. Just to see how he reacts
     
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    I only see him 5 days a month.
    He is super hot and super straight.
    He had talked about the pics on his phone and anothet co worker had seen it.
    I'm gonna hint about seeing it next time I see him.
    He is to come to my place help to me with some things I might try something then.
    Next time we are alone at work and he starts the talk again. My plan is to talk a out my sex life (not much there I've only been sexuality activd for a year) and ask him if he has ever messed around a guy. Just to see how he reacts
     
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