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Bryce, how did the cleaning turn out? If he did a good job and you can no longer see or smell the stain, call him and compliment him on the good job. You could always suggest: "Would you like to join me for a Starbucks (beer, cocktail, etc.)?" I'm sure that the guy would be thrilled to hear from you.
 

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I hope this doesn't break any rules...

I haven't rung him yet, but I decided to Facebook-stalk him (flame me if you want :frown1:...) and his profile was unlocked!

I wasn't lying when I said he was good-looking. He's the one in the middle. But he looks a little younger than I thought I think... How old do you think?

I need to think about what I'm going to say when I ring. :cool:
 
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Yes, he is good looking. No worries with facebook. His profile would not be unlocked if he were worried about people looking for him or checking him out.

What to say? Follow up on the cleaning service first. If the problem still isn't solved to your satisfaction, ask what else can be done. If the service was good, tell him that he eliminated the problem and thank him for it. See what kind of feedback you get.

Then I'd ask him to go grab a beer with you.
 
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Yes, he is good looking. No worries with facebook. His profile would not be unlocked if he were worried about people looking for him or checking him out.

What to say? Follow up on the cleaning service first. If the problem still isn't solved to your satisfaction, ask what else can be done. If the service was good, tell him that he eliminated the problem and thank him for it. See what kind of feedback you get.

Then I'd ask him to go grab a beer with you.

sdbg, did you see my post about the text I sent him? I think when I ring him (in about an hour) he will be expecting talk about more than the sofa. :cool:

The sofa pretty much just smells like perfume at the moment from the cleaning. So I'm not sure if the smell is completely gone, or just being masked.

If you think there's no privacy problem I might as well post another pic... He is a gorgeous man, and sexy fur! (I hope the girl is just a friend) Getting so horny right now. :biggrin1:
 
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I say relax. he's probably feeling just as you do. if you want to step lightly, have him meet you somewhere for lunch or dinner, coffee, or some non-threatening activity. if you feel stronger, invite him to your place to talk about sofas :)biggrin2:), have a beer or lunch/dinner, watch a football game, or whatever. in either case, see how things progress. hint: what he wears can give you some idea of what's on his mind.

enjoy... and keep us posted.
 
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This poor lad is probly having sleepless nights right now. He summoned up the courage to come back to you for the "paperwork" and show you his abs...

I think you should put him out of his misery. Call him.
 
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Dude, if you actually look like that photo in your profile, then everyone is coming-on to you all the time whether they k ow it themselves or not. All you have to do is say yes.
 
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UPDATE.

Alright, I phoned my cat pee cutie last night as he requested. The conversation started off a little awkward, him asking about the sofa and whether it's any better. I said at this stage it smells alright, but the cleaner smell is still quite strong.

He seemed a little nervous, and I have the impression that perhaps he doesn't have a whole lot of experience with men. But the whole conversation he was sweet as a button and it was great to hear that deep but soft voice again.

I changed the topic and told him that I texted him because I thought maybe he was hinting at something when he was at the house. He laughed kinda bashfully and said that yes he was, but then chickened out to actually make a move. Then he said from the contents of my home he thought I was a cool guy. Not exactly sure what he meant by that.

I told him he shouldn't have been nervous and that anybody would be stoked to receive a compliment from a nice guy like him. Then I asked if he would like to meet in-person again. He said that he's leaving town for 5 days on Saturday but that he was free tonight (Friday night here) if I was. I suggested a bar (not a gay bar, but one where a few gays do frequent) that I discovered a couple weeks ago. He said he'd never been there, but knew where it was. Anyways meeting tonight at 7:00.

On second thoughts I'm not sure if the bar scene on a Friday night is going to be very conducive to conversation... but it was tonight or otherwise next week apparently. Maybe I should see if he wants to go to a coffee shop instead once we meet.

I'm still pretty much unaware as to what his desires are - just a fuck or something more. I can't express how sweet and genuine he seems to be, and I don't think I want to rush in to fucking straight away... Damn I'm getting a little wound up. :D

I guess I will update later tonight/tomorrow with what happens... Wish me luck.

P.S. No I didn't tell him about this thread. :p
Might as well put up another photo from his FB since I've already started invading his privacy. Look at that face!
 

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I hope things work out for ya....damn hes a biscuit! It would be kinda funny down the road if you all got together because of cat pee lol.

A biscuit? Haha, never heard that saying before. But he is delicious aye.

Why not simply lift your shirt too?
That might be all the confirmation he needs? LOL
Good Luck and Please keep us posted!!! ;-)))

I was thinking about doing that when he was on the doorstep, but I still wasn't sure if I was misreading the situation completely. :rolleyes:
 
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He is cute but however I would not post his pic here without his permission.

I agree. He may not want people to know his status or something. It's one thing where on facebook when people post pics they know the context of their picture. But posting it on this site, someone might see him or he may end up finding it later then it would be creepy. Think of doing a job and someone likes you and starts posting pictures of you online in some niche site.