Hot sex streak: tips for bi married dude?

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The wife and I were having pretty in frequent sex. Got really frustrating bc I work out my tension in the gym. Shit ton of sexy dudes at the gym these days and I'm trying to be a good husband. After talking it all out and getting her to finally start taking some more initiative, it was on.
That night when she tried making a move on me, I made her tell me why she wanted my dick. First she was kinda shying off, but I got more rough with it and didn't let her get my cock until she told me how it made her feel good. She said she liked how fat my head was and how she liked getting her clit hard by rubbing my dick on it. She loves his I got a big fat dick and she can feel it get inside her.
It got me so hot and I made her use my dick to make herself get off. Then I fucked her 2 more rounds.
We've been fucking multiple times a day now. Being bi, I sometimes just want that sexual aggression that I like about a dude. Any other things you married bi dudes do to spice things up.
 

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Had a similar situation with my wife. She’s never really been aggressive when it came to sex and it started to become a real issue n or marriage. We too talked and I was told she likes and wants me to be dominate in that area. So, I stepped outside passive role and took control from that day on.

she absolutely loves being playfully forced into different positions along with letting her take control of my cock sometimes and others its hands off. Usually not overly talkative during sex other than the usual arousing sounds and sex talk. Now, after a lot of fore play it’s full on sweat dripping, loud yelling, Motherfuck screaming fucking that gives her multiple orgasms and leaves me completely exhausted, until the next round.

Still imagining my first cock and might have a chance with guy I seen on our walking trail around 6:30 in the morning wearing these really Whitey Tighties.
 
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Glad for you both I am sadly completely opposite to you two, my mrs went off sex after our third child she has been a wonderful caring mother and wife but sex is a no no I am afraid. We used to do it quite often then she said it was uncomfortable so I asked her to suck me off every now and then and then that became a dirty thing to her so I asked her to wank me every now and then until she said she didn’t like doing it so I gave up in the end bought porn VHS back in the day and watched it secretly while she was in bed. Never met or thought about a guy until I had to work in London for a few years commuting on the train Norwich to Liverpool st three times a week. I used to rush for the 5.30 and stand all the way to Ipswich. So I started going for a drink and walking around London quite a pleasant place and easy to get round. One day after work I stumbled across a male sauna, never been to one before and thought instead of drinking I will take a sauna. Went in paid my money £14 in them days got two towels and the guy handed me a locker key and he looked at me and said, “you know this is a gay sauna don’t you” I replied yes of course I do not having a clue what he meant it’s just a male sauna isn’t it!?
off I went got stripped down towel on shower and in the sauna, only one in but it was hot I enjoyed it, shower steam same again a few guys kept on opening the door looking through the steam and closing it not coming in. After another 15 mins showered and went to the loungers to cool down a bit. This is when I noticed the guys walking around some with erections under their towel going into an archway and disappearing for five mins or so before coming back to the showers. Curiosity got the better of me and I had to explore what was going off through the archway so off I popped through and down the corridor turned a corner all a little subjude lighting so you could just see so had to stand a bit and wait for my eyes to adjust to the dim lighting. When they had I noticed locker rooms and cubicles all over with holes in them, this was the first time I had been in a cruising area and I saw a few guys crouching down sucking others off, I was curious but at the same time didn’t know what to do, I sort of froze to the spot. A guy approached me and grabbed me by the crouch and felt my cock which had started to get erect. I was suddenly snapped back to reality I had to get out of here. So I promptly left showered got dressed and out of the place vowing never to go back there again. On the train home to Norwich and that weekend I had time to ponder what just happened to me and the experience I have unexpectedly had.
 
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Sorry to hear of the issue with the Mrs. Grahm123, if you don’t mind I was wondering a couple of things.
1. Is your wife interested in intimacy at all. Is it possible that snuggling, caressing, naked massages could arouse her? Is it medical? Would love to hear someday you’ve found each other and are back to knocking Boots.

2. Has that Sauna experience expanded your sexual desires to know what it feels like to take a Man?

I took a step into a community bar the other night for a beer and was pleasantly surprised at how much fun they were having. It was a small crowed lip syncing to the latest hits while dressed in drag. Had to stay to see who won. Wednesday is Latino night and going to check that out. Wish you the best my man.
 
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She says I spoil the intimacy because I tend to want more than just rubbing her shoulders or massaging her feet I tend or did tend to get wandering hands and want to put my hand down her blouse as I rubbed her shoulders to feel her lovely boobs or a hand up her shirt as I was massaging her feet. Oh dear my fault entirely I suppose.

The sauna opened up a whole new world to me I will continue the experiences if folk want to read more. I posted it as a new thread “ working in London” I am a nudist at home and go about everywhere naked and that doesn’t seem to trigger any thoughts of desire in her, mind you if I looked at my self in the mirror I don’t think I would desire me either, old git grey hair bit of a beer belly, no abs left, in my younger days I competed in three world fire and police games, Barcelona, New York and Canada, Quebec, so training a lot and quite fit if I say so myself, nobody else will?
 

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I will definitely read your thread as I’m genuinely interested in your well being. You seem like a really nice guy. Last question and a suggestion.

How does she feel about herself? Her not feeling she looks sexy can be a buzz kill for women.

like you I competed in City, State, and Nationals. Never made the World Team or Olympics but had a great time trying injuries excluded. Placed all city in cross country and Second in State competition for Martial Arts. Also like you, due to work I put on a lot of weight, and didn’t like what I saw in the mirror either. Not only that but it effected my ability to perform in bed. I decided even over the age of 65 I needed to focus and get healthy again.

in order to accomplish my goal I had to take a serious look at my diet and make major changes to get the nutrition a old man needs to work out somewhat vigorously and maintain what muscle mass we have left. I then focused on the skills and knowledge I have acquired through the years and learn new ones to accommodate my body without injury. With that I was able to achieve my goal within 6 months. Gham123 if you’re still fairly healthy dig down inside that spirit that propelled you as a youth. That never fades and can always be rekindle. Nutti’n but love for you bro!
 
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She is suffering from anxiety and women’s health problems at the moment, she has a phobia about germs and is currently awaiting test results and consultant visits, scans and possible a gall bladder operation all which adds to her anxiety. So she does not feel great about herself just now.
 

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The wife and I were having pretty in frequent sex. Got really frustrating bc I work out my tension in the gym. Shit ton of sexy dudes at the gym these days and I'm trying to be a good husband. After talking it all out and getting her to finally start taking some more initiative, it was on.
That night when she tried making a move on me, I made her tell me why she wanted my dick. First she was kinda shying off, but I got more rough with it and didn't let her get my cock until she told me how it made her feel good. She said she liked how fat my head was and how she liked getting her clit hard by rubbing my dick on it. She loves his I got a big fat dick and she can feel it get inside her.
It got me so hot and I made her use my dick to make herself get off. Then I fucked her 2 more rounds.
We've been fucking multiple times a day now. Being bi, I sometimes just want that sexual aggression that I like about a dude. Any other things you married bi dudes do to spice things up.
Good idea. I will try that and report back. But I have generally found she is too tired and disinterested to even discuss it.
But recent marriage counseling is throwing up issues which I suspect will take years for her to get over. I could die waiting. Better not hold my breath
But on the positive side I have had some fun with fellas which has restored a lot of confidence (lacking after years of rejection). Several Blokes on LPSG have suggested that Cheating is cheating and that I’m a dirty cheater. But they haven’t walked in my shoes. Not all discussions end in your happy ending.
 

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I bought a Sybian and make my Wife watch black men fuck married women in porn, then I eat her pussy while talking to her about taking a big cock and how I would suck on her pussy so that it's nice and wet for him. Then when we fuck I put on videos that turn her on and beg her to let me watch her fuck another man. Drives her nuts and she's a multiple orgasm type gal, she usually has at least five to seven orgasms.
 

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Good idea. I will try that and report back. But I have generally found she is too tired and disinterested to even discuss it.
But recent marriage counseling is throwing up issues which I suspect will take years for her to get over. I could die waiting. Better not hold my breath
But on the positive side I have had some fun with fellas which has restored a lot of confidence (lacking after years of rejection). Several Blokes on LPSG have suggested that Cheating is cheating and that I’m a dirty cheater. But they haven’t walked in my shoes. Not all discussions end in your happy ending.
Yes cheating is cheating but like you in my case where else do I go, resign myself to just wanking every day, get a girlfriend that turns emotional on you and destroys your marriage. No I think guys who see it as a sexual release is helping maintain the status quo’s! And keeps things in order and together. Like to find a LPSG in my area to have the odd sexual release but don’t know how to search for guys in my area who are looking for the same as me? I agree walk a mile in my shoes before you judge! It not all black and white you know out there in the real world.
 

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Yes cheating is cheating but like you in my case where else do I go, resign myself to just wanking every day, get a girlfriend that turns emotional on you and destroys your marriage. No I think guys who see it as a sexual release is helping maintain the status quo’s! And keeps things in order and together. Like to find a LPSG in my area to have the odd sexual release but don’t know how to search for guys in my area who are looking for the same as me? I agree walk a mile in my shoes before you judge! It not all black and white you know out there in the real world.
Mate, many women clam up after giving birth, most think they've done their job and that's it. The sad thing is they don't understand that guys have a sex drive that needs satisfying so even the refusal to give a blow job or toss him off can feel like sexual rejection.
So a guy is left with either being unfaithful, finding another woman or a whore, but wanking doesn't give the same satisfaction. Now in the sauna you saw a few glory holes so f you are really sexually starved and need release maybe an anonymous sucker would relieve your tensions.
Or you could seek out a cock sucker who would service you and your needs in a discrete manner.
Now while technically it would be cheating (as Bill Clinton claimed) it would give you the outlet you require on your terms, sucking or being tossed off. A willing mouth to suck you and swallow, soft hands to stroke you to climax. Only thing is it would be another guy.
 

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Mate, many women clam up after giving birth, most think they've done their job and that's it. The sad thing is they don't understand that guys have a sex drive that needs satisfying so even the refusal to give a blow job or toss him off can feel like sexual rejection.
So a guy is left with either being unfaithful, finding another woman or a whore, but wanking doesn't give the same satisfaction. Now in the sauna you saw a few glory holes so f you are really sexually starved and need release maybe an anonymous sucker would relieve your tensions.
Or you could seek out a cock sucker who would service you and your needs in a discrete manner.
Now while technically it would be cheating (as Bill Clinton claimed) it would give you the outlet you require on your terms, sucking or being tossed off. A willing mouth to suck you and swallow, soft hands to stroke you to climax. Only thing is it would be another guy.
Yes I am in full agreement with you, whilst I would love to feel a wet warm pussey gripping my cock once again as I fucked her it’s not going to happen I don’t need the emotional stress of an affair. Getting guys to suck me is still cheating I know but it’s a way of finding a sexual release and the happy medium. Alternative is to go celibate and give up sex altogether like an alcoholic who needs to give up drink as the temptation of just one more sets them off again down the wrong road. I have experienced sucking guys and them returning the favour and I really enjoyed it, I just need to find a FWB as they say in my area!
 

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Yes I am in full agreement with you, whilst I would love to feel a wet warm pussey gripping my cock once again as I fucked her it’s not going to happen I don’t need the emotional stress of an affair. Getting guys to suck me is still cheating I know but it’s a way of finding a sexual release and the happy medium. Alternative is to go celibate and give up sex altogether like an alcoholic who needs to give up drink as the temptation of just one more sets them off again down the wrong road. I have experienced sucking guys and them returning the favour and I really enjoyed it, I just need to find a FWB as they say in my area!
As a guy who sucks loads of married guys cocks I don't feel they are being unfaithful, my youngest guy is 28, like you three kids and sex off the table. We chat, he feels relaxed, I suck and he cums, I swallow and we chat more.
 

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Thanks you must be a good buddy for him to rely on and with benefits what more does he need. I am also pleased to hear you seem to have a friendship also, you chat, have sex then chat some more, not just a what bang thank you man see you next time I am in the area. It tends to make it more real, sensual and takes the dirty old man out of the picture if you get what I am trying to say?
 

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If you would suck older guys I need to drop in to say hello next time I am in Bournemouth for a naked social, I enjoy getting, if possible, with like minded guys to socialise in the nude and if anything pops up just deal with it and carry on as they say.
 
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Thanks you must be a good buddy for him to rely on and with benefits what more does he need. I am also pleased to hear you seem to have a friendship also, you chat, have sex then chat some more, not just a what bang thank you man see you next time I am in the area. It tends to make it more real, sensual and takes the dirty old man out of the picture if you get what I am trying to say?
Any time you want to cum you're welcome as they say, Norfolk might be a bit sparse on the gentleman service routine. He came to me on recommendation, very shy the first time but then opened up. I enjoy the time we spend together as well as the rewards from his body and while it might seem a bit one-sided I do sometimes have a climax myself especially on one of the days he's hornier than usual.
 

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If you would suck older guys I need to drop in to say hello next time I am in Bournemouth for a naked social, I enjoy getting, if possible, with like minded guys to socialise in the nude and if anything pops up just deal with it and carry on as they say.
Popping up always gets my attention, naked popping up even better, popping up twice a bonus.
Age never been a problem and I always suck to completion
 

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Well I believe it should go both ways, both parties need to get what they need out of a relationship as long as it consensual and all that. Do you provide a service to a few guys then, you have a regular supply so to speak coming to you.
 

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Thanks you must be a good buddy for him to rely on and with benefits what more does he need. I am also pleased to hear you seem to have a friendship also, you chat, have sex then chat some more, not just a what bang thank you man see you next time I am in the area. It tends to make it more real, sensual and takes the dirty old man out of the picture if you get what I am trying to say?
Sounds like the way it should be.