- emu,
exwhysee said:I met my best friend when we were both in 9th grade. He would sleep over in my dorm room with me, we had similar hobbies, had a lot of classes together, etc. Looking back on it, I fell head over heels in love with him by the end of 9th grade. Through the rest of high school, we remained friends most of the time, the exception being when my feelings were so strong I couldnt deal with it...in which case I withdrew from hanging out with him...and eventually I missed him too much and befriended him again. We remained friends through college, I attended his wedding, and he named his first son after me.
At no time did I ever cross the line and make a move on him. Did I sneak a peek at his dick? Hell yeah...but I think I did it discreetly. Did I ever want to make a move on him? Hell yeah...but he was straight I that would have been wrong. Would I do anything today if he asked? Maybe...but he is married now and very faithful...and I respect that. Over many years, we have had some psuedo sexually charged times...like when he got an erection in running shorts, when he admitted he could empathize with my bisexual feelings, and when he agreed to take nude pics of me. Still, he never initiated anything, and we never crossed the line.
Everyone has different sexual perspectives, and sometimes I think the forbidden fruit fantasy runs rampant among gay guys, but if a person is truely a friend and you respect them, then I dont see why you would want to be disrespectful to them.
that now that is fuckin sexy as shit.
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