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So went out partying with friends and was spending night at buddies place as I was too drunk to drive
When we got to his place he suggested we go in the hot tub
I told him I didn’t have a swim suit and he said we‘ll just go naked
We’ve been friends a long time and seen each other naked so it was no big deal
We chilled naked in the hot tub and had a few drinks and chilled ( nothing sexual )
I found it very liberating and a cool bonding experience. I didn’t find it weird at all
Anybody else have a similar experience?
 

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I finished building a hot tub a couple of months ago and use it most weekends. My neighbor has taken an active interest and gave me some assistance with the final assembly, so I invited him to use it when it's warm- the heater is wood fired so I expect he can see the smoke. We are good mates and often share a beer together during the weekend and help each other out with projects.
First couple of times he turned up after I had finished my soak, then the next time he turned up while I was in the tub and I invited him to join me with a beer and he did so. This happened a couple of times over the next few weeks and it was during these conversations we discussed his youngest son- he certainly had the idea his son was gay but wasn't certain. Over the next month we discussed the matter and it became clear to me that he was curious about his son's interest, so playing devil's advocate, I suggested he do some research online. The next week he thanked me! for my suggestion and asked if I had ever thought about sex with guys. Yes, I admitted, and added that it was a total out-of the-blue surprise to me at the time but I couldn't deny my response. His comment was that he couldn't deny his response either after what he had found online...
 

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Yes nudity is very freeing. I think it makes people more open in their feelings as they are literally not covered up, which ignites the willingness to share. Nudity is sexual a lot of times for most people as that is usually the only extended amount of time people are naked together. Growing up nude and being nude with friends many times I experienced non-sexual nudity as well and it's great to just let it all out there and not be looked at sexually in that moment. Definitely liberating.
 

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So went out partying with friends and was spending night at buddies place as I was too drunk to drive
When we got to his place he suggested we go in the hot tub
I told him I didn’t have a swim suit and he said we‘ll just go naked
We’ve been friends a long time and seen each other naked so it was no big deal
We chilled naked in the hot tub and had a few drinks and chilled ( nothing sexual )
I found it very liberating and a cool bonding experience. I didn’t find it weird at all
Anybody else have a similar experience?
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You have already asked this question in the Ask a Straight Man forum.
Yes, and only straight men can answer his question there. Maybe the original poster wants a broader spectrum of responses, which can happen in this forum.
 

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You have already asked this question in the Ask a Straight Man forum.
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Let's not get in the habit of policing the threads; please and thanks.

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I am not going to report anything anymore, there is no point to it, I will sit back & let this site become a chaotic free for all.
 

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I love the freedom of nudity, and am often naked around the house during the day. I also like the feeling social nudity brings to me, and can never understand the 'towel dance' some men go through in the gym locker room. One of my favourite venues is a gay spa where I often enjoy the company of naked guys in hot-tubs, saunas and steam rooms. Yes, I admit that sometimes the experience is a prelude to sexual activity, but that happens upstairs and away from the spa. There is an incredible sense of freedom and relaxation in a hot-tub when naked. It's the one time when I can forget all the craziness in this world.