Hotwife / cuckold interest..

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Personally, and I'm just answering for myself, I'd run a mile.

After being a member here for a few years I have seen the same theme play out several times. Man posts asking for help from women as to how he can persuade his girlfriend/wife to fuck another man. He paints the picture as being all about her pleasure... Yet she has told him several times that she is not interested. Post history usually shows this is about his gratification, not hers - she is no more than a prop.

There have been other posters who have managed to cajole their partners into it... and then been completely unprepared for their feelings afterwards. They didn't like it and couldn't get over it.

Don't get me wrong - there are couples who are both on the same page and it's their kink and so it works out great - I'm not judging. It's just not for me, I would be questioning his motives.
 
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I do want to add that humiliation kinks of any sort aren't my cuppa tea. Also, I'm not interested in swinging or being polyamorous or anything like that at this point, either. So. Cuckolding is a no from all perspectives for me, due to the above.
 

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It turns me on thinking about my partner with another man. If your partner expressed and interest about you being with another man, would you? Would you let him watch, listen or hear about it from you?

My husband and myself are into the swing life, over the years kinks and fantasies have become very prominent, altho our meetings are very select most of what people want these days is variations on the cuckold scenario rather than just an old fashioned vanilla swap.
We only role as a couple with couples, that's the rule. With those who want to be cucked it gives me the opportunity to explore my role as a dominatrix which I really enjoy. I take on humiliating the cuck in whatever way he wants but nothing's set in stone, I'll often have sex with the other guy too if he's up for it so it's very variable, kinda keeps it fun and interesting doing different things. Sometimes it might be roll play, cos play, just a straight swap or many other things. I'm obviously talking from the other side here, to answer your question if I was with a man who wanted to watch me with just another guy while he's cucked I would leave his pathetic ass, that's not being nasty I just couldn't be with a guy who's subservient.
 

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My husband and myself are into the swing life, over the years kinks and fantasies have become very prominent, altho our meetings are very select most of what people want these days is variations on the cuckold scenario rather than just an old fashioned vanilla swap.
We only role as a couple with couples, that's the rule. With those who want to be cucked it gives me the opportunity to explore my role as a dominatrix which I really enjoy. I take on humiliating the cuck in whatever way he wants but nothing's set in stone, I'll often have sex with the other guy too if he's up for it so it's very variable, kinda keeps it fun and interesting doing different things. Sometimes it might be roll play, cos play, just a straight swap or many other things. I'm obviously talking from the other side here, to answer your question if I was with a man who wanted to watch me with just another guy while he's cucked I would leave his pathetic ass, that's not being nasty I just couldn't be with a guy who's subservient.
I think my wife being a hotwife is more appropriate, I don't think I could be a sub like that! however I could have fun with my wife in the bedroom. Unfortunately I'm not seeing my kink ever playing out, and that's ok too.
 

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It turns me on thinking about my partner with another man. If your partner expressed and interest about you being with another man, would you? Would you let him watch, listen or hear about it from you?

Been there. Done that. Wrote a blog about it. Years ago. We made it through the experience with more appreciation for each other. More open sexually. More respectful of each other's wants and desires (not necessarily "needs".)

I totally respect everyone's opinions of the "what would you do". A dozen years ago, I would have been of the opinion that sharing sexually with another person is unimaginable. Cuckolding is emotionally challenging and unless you have a clear sense of who you are and security in your relationship before you begin the sexperiences, it could end in disaster and tear your relationship apart.

Also there are many varieties of Cucking and not everyone involved in it is racist. I can see how one might think that but honestly I never look at the color of s person's skin.. Ever.

It is very difficult for someone outside your personal relationship to understand what/why as a couple you do the things you do.

There are a lot of kinks I don't understand. I don't participate in them. But if you want to, and it gets you off, and you and your partner agree (which to me is the secret), then go for it. I always say what happens behind closed doors is no one else's business (as long as it is consensual and everyone is adult.)
 

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Part of the reason I'm so thoroughly attracted to my man is because I know him as well as I do. I know that he wouldn't want to watch another man fuck me, and he knows I don't want to be fucked by other men.

What turns Me on is knowing that he wants to be the only man inside me. He wants his penis to be the privileged appendage which gets to enter my exquisite pussy. It turns me on knowing that other people would love to fuck me, but they CAN'T. I can be a bit conceited and admit it.

He makes me feel special by only sharing his body with me, and wanting to be the only person I share my body with. It gets me so fucking wet...
 

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Part of the reason I'm so thoroughly attracted to my man is because I know him as well as I do. I know that he wouldn't want to watch another man fuck me, and he knows I don't want to be fucked by other men.

What turns Me on is knowing that he wants to be the only man inside me. He wants his penis to be the privileged appendage which gets to enter my exquisite pussy. It turns me on knowing that other people would love to fuck me, but they CAN'T. I can be a bit conceited and admit it.

He makes me feel special by only sharing his body with me, and wanting to be the only person I share my body with. It gets me so fucking wet...

This makes me happy for you !!! ::heart: Not only does this post drip with adoration for each other... it's just fucking HOT!
 

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Been there. Done that. Wrote a blog about it. Years ago. We made it through the experience with more appreciation for each other. More open sexually. More respectful of each other's wants and desires (not necessarily "needs".)

I totally respect everyone's opinions of the "what would you do". A dozen years ago, I would have been of the opinion that sharing sexually with another person is unimaginable. Cuckolding is emotionally challenging and unless you have a clear sense of who you are and security in your relationship before you begin the sexperiences, it could end in disaster and tear your relationship apart.

Also there are many varieties of Cucking and not everyone involved in it is racist. I can see how one might think that but honestly I never look at the color of s person's skin.. Ever.

It is very difficult for someone outside your personal relationship to understand what/why as a couple you do the things you do.

There are a lot of kinks I don't understand. I don't participate in them. But if you want to, and it gets you off, and you and your partner agree (which to me is the secret), then go for it. I always say what happens behind closed doors is no one else's business (as long as it is consensual and everyone is adult.)
thanks for the insight and well said! I myself have never seen the cuckold thing a racist and never would; for someone to think it's racist only shows how narrow minded some people are. Cuckolding will probably never happen in my relationship and as much as I want it.... that's ok! I can honestly say that if my partner wanted this life style there is no way in hell I would pick her man for her, that would be her choice as well as his/her race. I personally enjoy interracial porn but that's my kink nothing negative against any race.
 

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Part of the reason I'm so thoroughly attracted to my man is because I know him as well as I do. I know that he wouldn't want to watch another man fuck me, and he knows I don't want to be fucked by other men.

What turns Me on is knowing that he wants to be the only man inside me. He wants his penis to be the privileged appendage which gets to enter my exquisite pussy. It turns me on knowing that other people would love to fuck me, but they CAN'T. I can be a bit conceited and admit it.

He makes me feel special by only sharing his body with me, and wanting to be the only person I share my body with. It gets me so fucking wet...
I hear you, when I see guys checking out my wife it turns me on! :)
 

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A quick Google search proves that cuckolding does in fact have racist a connotation.

That's doesn't mean YOU are absolutely a racist too, it's just a simple truth that shouldn't be denied.

Information is the biggest weapon we have against bigotry.
 

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A quick Google search proves that cuckolding does in fact have racist a connotation.

That's doesn't mean YOU are absolutely a racist too, it's just a simple truth that shouldn't be denied.

Information is the biggest weapon we have against bigotry.
A quick Google search proves that cuckolding does in fact have racist a connotation.

That's doesn't mean YOU are absolutely a racist too, it's just a simple truth that shouldn't be denied.

Information is the biggest weapon we have against bigotry.
noted... thank you :)
 

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If my man wanted to see me with another man then one condition would be that I find the other man. Then I tell my man goodbye. If he does not care to be exclusive then I will allow him not to be. That's not my thing, however.