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A lot of you here know that my partner of 15 years passed away last month shortly before Christmas. Since then things have been both financially and emotionally difficult.
I had to take on a housemate to help with expenses and such, so I placed an ad on Craigslist, little did I know it would be a similar story to my own. He was down on his luck and had a situation with work and such and had nowhere to go, so I took a risk and got him here to my home. 15 years ago my partner took the same risk with me.
He is mostly straight, which is fine with me. My cat really likes him, which is a good sign, she likes very few people, she's my human detector LOL.
We did fool around the morning after he arrived here but nothing since, I gave him a blowjob.
In many ways he reminds me of me and I am taking on the role of Bruce(my partner who passed) he is like a big kid in many ways, but we seem to getting along well, he works most of the day so is not home for about 12 hours a day. I know I am in an emotionally vulnerable state right now but I have developed some feelings for him, all feelings are very real, however they may not be valid and in many ways because of certain behaviors of his towards me I sense he has developed some feelings for me. I have not told him about these feelings. He is recently divorced. And comes from Northern Georgia. What really struck up a lot of these feelings for me was my cat hopped up onto his lap in the recliner and sat there for over an hour much in the way she used to do with Bruce my partner.
I can't say I am falling in love or anything like that, but these aren't exactly lustful feelings. He's got a lot of issues as do I, but in the end things are working out. I just don't want these romantic feelings to get in the way of him being a housemate and a friend.
It's a strange situation but I am glad I was there to help him much in the way Bruce helped me 15 years ago and now he has a place to call home, much in the way I did 15 years ago
I had to take on a housemate to help with expenses and such, so I placed an ad on Craigslist, little did I know it would be a similar story to my own. He was down on his luck and had a situation with work and such and had nowhere to go, so I took a risk and got him here to my home. 15 years ago my partner took the same risk with me.
He is mostly straight, which is fine with me. My cat really likes him, which is a good sign, she likes very few people, she's my human detector LOL.
We did fool around the morning after he arrived here but nothing since, I gave him a blowjob.
In many ways he reminds me of me and I am taking on the role of Bruce(my partner who passed) he is like a big kid in many ways, but we seem to getting along well, he works most of the day so is not home for about 12 hours a day. I know I am in an emotionally vulnerable state right now but I have developed some feelings for him, all feelings are very real, however they may not be valid and in many ways because of certain behaviors of his towards me I sense he has developed some feelings for me. I have not told him about these feelings. He is recently divorced. And comes from Northern Georgia. What really struck up a lot of these feelings for me was my cat hopped up onto his lap in the recliner and sat there for over an hour much in the way she used to do with Bruce my partner.
I can't say I am falling in love or anything like that, but these aren't exactly lustful feelings. He's got a lot of issues as do I, but in the end things are working out. I just don't want these romantic feelings to get in the way of him being a housemate and a friend.
It's a strange situation but I am glad I was there to help him much in the way Bruce helped me 15 years ago and now he has a place to call home, much in the way I did 15 years ago