I'm old fashioned - I always assumed I will pay for the meal, and have done it willingly. I have enjoyed the many dates I’ve had over the years and have received many hours of delightful fun and a lot of loving gratitude from my dates.
My present gf spends an awful lot of energy and money on clothing, shoes, hair, nails, jewelry and keeping herself in superb shape. She is always immaculately manicured and beautifully presented. She always looks absolutely stunning. I glow with pride to have her at my side. Paying for the meal is small beer. Besides, I can easily afford it.
However, she has invited me out for dinner and paid the bill on a few occasions - a gesture that I appreciated very much.
When I discovered how much time, effort and money she expends to achieve this immaculate presentation to be with me I gave her a monthly allowance so that she didn’t need a second job to cover her expenses. Subsequently, I have given her an investment portfolio, which she now manages, and which has made her financially independent. It has been the most rewarding and delightful investment I’ve ever made. She’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I treasure her. She’s a goddess to me. No amount of money can make up for the joy, love, happiness, thrill of life that she brings to the relationship. :smile::biggrin1: