How Are You Having Sex During Covid?

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hey all, i've been good and sheltering in place, been tested twice negative for COVID. I haven't touched a girl sadly in over 3 months.

I know people are having parties and hooking up, but i've been afraid to, as I don't want to get sick. how are you guys coping? do i need to just Netflix and Chill indefinitely, till a vaccine is discovered? what's your take? are you hooking up with people? going to parties? what's the hot take on this?

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Our lifestyle group still has parties. In fact last week we had a good size one (7 couples). We have all been tested in at least the past month. All negative. At the party no one was showing any symptoms and i would think being adults one would stay home if not feeling well. Its like having sex at any other time. You have to trust to a certain extent that your partner isn't sick. I say go out and try to have a good time. Unless you have an underlying issue and you do catch it it will probably be mild and you have immunity.
 
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thank you. this sounds like a pretty reasonable answer. i didn't know there was a swing scene in Oklahoma. very cool.

I feel like with all the protests and rioting going on in CA there is going to be a surge. And i think many stores open back up next week here. I just don't think CA can afford to stay closed any more. But you're right. thank you. that sounds like a rational logical way to go. Although i will say i've heard on many fronts that when people get this thing, they can still test positive for months. we still seem to have so much to learn and it doesnt seem to be going away.

Our lifestyle group still has parties. In fact last week we had a good size one (7 couples). We have all been tested in at least the past month. All negative. At the party no one was showing any symptoms and i would think being adults one would stay home if not feeling well. Its like having sex at any other time. You have to trust to a certain extent that your partner isn't sick. I say go out and try to have a good time. Unless you have an underlying issue and you do catch it it will probably be mild and you have immunity.
 
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hey all, i've been good and sheltering in place, been tested twice negative for COVID. I haven't touched a girl sadly in over 3 months.

I know people are having parties and hooking up, but i've been afraid to, as I don't want to get sick. how are you guys coping? do i need to just Netflix and Chill indefinitely, till a vaccine is discovered? what's your take? are you hooking up with people? going to parties? what's the hot take on this?

thank you!
There is an interesting story I read about a male nurse who went to a party where no one was showing symptoms, caught it, and was in the hospital for almost 2 months. He was healthy, fit, and had no health issues. He was 190 lbs before the illness, and 140 lbs when he got out of the hospital. He lost so much weight, and was so weak, that even the most basic of actions were impossible for him.

The moral of the story is that you never know. Even if you are healthy, it might still kick the shit out of you, or kill you. Also, people don't have to have sniffles and be coughing to spread the virus. Having a high viral load, and not presenting, will still allow people to transmit it to you.

Here is the article.

So, I can wait a while longer until things get better. I sat with a family member who went into the hospital for 6 weeks, was intubated, put in a chemically induced coma, and had tremendous weight loss and debilitating weakness afterwards. I would never wish that on someone else, and I certainly wouldn't risk it for myself.

It's just sex. That is what jerking off is for.
 

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thank you for this. yes, i saw this case, a while ago. but good reminder.

i agree. thank you for the pep talk. it feels like peer pressure at times. people are out everywhere. and many seem fine. But those that do catch it, can test positive for months and have lingering life long issues it seems too.

but yes, like you said, with my luck i'd be that one guy that gets it. i just can't risk it now. thank you for the good cognitive advice and therapy. and thank you Pornhub :)


There is an interesting story I read about a male nurse who went to a party where no one was showing symptoms, caught it, and was in the hospital for almost 2 months. He was healthy, fit, and had no health issues. He was 190 lbs before the illness, and 140 lbs when he got out of the hospital. He lost so much weight, and was so weak, that even the most basic of actions were impossible for him.

The moral of the story is that you never know. Even if you are healthy, it might still kick the shit out of you, or kill you. Also, people don't have to have sniffles and be coughing to spread the virus. Having a high viral load, and not presenting, will still allow people to transmit it to you.

Here is the article.

So, I can wait a while longer until things get better. I sat with a family member who went into the hospital for 6 weeks, was intubated, put in a chemically induced coma, and had tremendous weight loss and debilitating weakness afterwards. I would never wish that on someone else, and I certainly wouldn't risk it for myself.

It's just sex. That is what jerking off is for.
 
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I've just been jerking off alone at home. Sorry to say. Don't want any physical contact with anyone at this point.

Local grocery store visit once per week when they open 6 AM in my small town of 5000. Maybe two other shoppers in there at that time. At this point, I am laying low until this shit blows over.
 

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yeah me too. I'm the first one in the store at 6 am. back home by 6:10 AM. thank you for this feedback. glad i'm not alone.

I've just been jerking off alone at home. Sorry to say. Don't want any physical contact with anyone at this point.

Local grocery store visit once per week when they open 6 AM in my small town of 5000. Maybe two other shoppers in there at that time. At this point, I am laying low until this shit blows over.
 

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There is an interesting story I read about a male nurse who went to a party where no one was showing symptoms, caught it, and was in the hospital for almost 2 months. He was healthy, fit, and had no health issues. He was 190 lbs before the illness, and 140 lbs when he got out of the hospital. He lost so much weight, and was so weak, that even the most basic of actions were impossible for him.

The moral of the story is that you never know. Even if you are healthy, it might still kick the shit out of you, or kill you. Also, people don't have to have sniffles and be coughing to spread the virus. Having a high viral load, and not presenting, will still allow people to transmit it to you.

Here is the article.

So, I can wait a while longer until things get better. I sat with a family member who went into the hospital for 6 weeks, was intubated, put in a chemically induced coma, and had tremendous weight loss and debilitating weakness afterwards. I would never wish that on someone else, and I certainly wouldn't risk it for myself.

It's just sex. That is what jerking off is for.

Someone I knew caught it and actually beat it.

The problem was, the virus did so much damage to his lungs it killed him after the fact.

People who don't take this seriously are playing a deadly game. As bad as I want to dig my dick into some pussy and get my cock sucked til it goes numb, I can wait til things cool off.
 

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sorry to hear about your friend. that is a powerful story. yeah, this thing swings a wide gamut. on one side of it, i have friends going out, partying and fucking every weekend, apparently because the state says it's ok. And i feel like I'm missing out. And then stories like you mention, where someone gets it and loses their life. it's pretty terrifying. and with my luck, i dont want to take any undue chances.

i appreciate you sharing your story. this steels my resolve to stay in. thank you.



Someone I knew caught it and actually beat it.

The problem was, the virus did so much damage to his lungs it killed him after the fact.

People who don't take this seriously are playing a deadly game. As bad as I want to dig my dick into some pussy and get my cock sucked til it goes numb, I can wait til things cool off.
 
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I haven't had sex since the whole pandemic disrupted everybody's lives.

A girl I'm talking to told me she's taking a Covid-19 test this week. I had mine too—negative—and if she's also negative, we might make plans to see each other.
 
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hey all, i've been good and sheltering in place, been tested twice negative for COVID. I haven't touched a girl sadly in over 3 months.

I know people are having parties and hooking up, but i've been afraid to, as I don't want to get sick. how are you guys coping? do i need to just Netflix and Chill indefinitely, till a vaccine is discovered? what's your take? are you hooking up with people? going to parties? what's the hot take on this?

thank you!

My household has been in lockdown, I'm married so actually been having a lot more sex than usual and in any case we always fucked at least twice a day before the lockdown.
We were pretty active in the swing community but apart from the very start of the lockdown where we had some friends staying with us anyway we haven't had any other couples over, I'd be lying if I said I wasn't missing our fun meets.
 

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yeah me too. i haven't seen anyone since. but some girls i'm talking to are getting tested this week. so we'll see.


I haven't had sex since the whole pandemic disrupted everybody's lives.

A girl I'm talking to told me she's taking a Covid-19 test this week. I had mine too—negative—and if she's also negative, we might make plans to see each other.
 

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yeah me too. i haven't seen anyone since. but some girls i'm talking to are getting tested this week. so we'll see.

Fortunately, getting tested where I live is free and the result came back after only a day.

As long as she hasn't been to a place where there's a chance of getting exposed to the virus, then I would say that the risk is fairly low (or even non-existent) for either of us.
 

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I wonder if any voyeur/ exhibition kinks have been somehow deepened by this forced isolation? Amy Poehler was on with Seth Meyers the other night and was joking about that very thing... but I’m thinking there’s got to be some folks out there who feel more empowered by the quarantine.
 
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