How big is considered big with a twist ; )

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  1. 8by6swingin

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    I was reading some of the threads here about "How big is big" and it got me to thinking If girls were polled on how big is big only using different sized dildos not what guys who lie told them what do you think the answer would be?

    My guess I will bet most girls would probably say 7 is pretty freaking big
    8 would be Pornstar/Huge ect
    9 would probably scare the hell out of 99.9 percent of women
     
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    I think if you go to a sex toy shop you will see what most women would consider big by looking at how many are what size. The most popular size is what most women would consider big enough. But that doesnt mean they couldnt enjoy bigger- especially when attached to a man they are attracted to.
     
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    I agree with that Statement PM. My point was that in the other threads there was a lot of arguing over what was considered big and the first thing that came to mind was if you ask a woman what is the biggest theyve been with most will say oh 8 9 or 10. But if you were to actually show them a 7inch Dildo not telling them how big it was and ask them which was bigger the guy or the dildo I think most would say the dildo.

    Point is to women 7 is pretty F-ing big
     
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    Possibly true. It's all about eye illusions. If a guy is huge but he's a big guy with big hands holding his dick, his dick would look a lot smaller than it actually is. Well, sometimes.
     
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    I agree with you as well eyescream But the optical illusion part wasnt what I was refering to really.

    Basically all the people saying 7inches isnt big are crazy

    Show a girl a 7inch dildo dont tell her how big it is shes probably gonna say its huge biggest shes seen.

    BUT if you were to ASK her shed probably say shed been with much bigger without seeing actual 7 inches in her face.

    My point measurements get inflated which is what makes people think 7 isnt big.
     
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    Sorry. I don't think my 7" dildo is "big". But that's just me. I have friends who think anything more than 6" is "scary". I think they are crazy. Again, that's just me.

    Not sure this is really the right forum to get an unbiased opinion.
     
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    No it's not just you, lol I've been in the same situation. Some of my friends were buying dildos and thought that 6" was just too big or big enough and it didn't quite cut it for me. Heck, they thought I was the crazy one.:biggrin1:
     
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    That's me... I'm 6'4" and can easily palm a basketball my hands are so big. So when I hold my wiener it's not terribly large looking... Then a woman sees it up close and is always surprised at its size. It's a flattering experience for me. :)
     
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    8by6, I think what you say has some validity. Whether it be wishful thinking, deception in pornography (read: the internat at large), exaggerating partners, etc. people seem to overestimate size. While 8"x6" appears to be the golden rectangle of the cock world, a real confrontation with a member of such proportions can be "scary" and problematic.
     
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    I will try to find the article this is in but apparently 6 inches tends to be the size with the best sales figures.
     
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    You can check out this online sex toy site: Dildos - buy dildo sex toys

    They have quite a few different-sized realistic dildos with reviews and ratings. Note that the length listed for a dildo is usually the overall length and may include a handle or suction cup base, but this site gives the dimensions for girth and insertable length. You can also visualize the dildo life-sized, but note that you may need to adjust the image magnification depending on your monitor and screen resolution. This site makes it very easy to do so, so that you can actually take measurements off of your monitor screen as well.

    Of course, female opinions will vary quite a bit for a dildo of any given size and this site does sell some enormous ones. I found a couple that seemed to be almost exactly my size (insertable length 7.25", girth 5.6"). Some of the responses given by women in the reviews included things like "not for beginners", "it took me two months to get up the nerve to try it", "too big for anal", and "huge".

    And have never considered myself all that big, and to hear some around here speak, some might consider me a midget.
     
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    Why wouldn't the 6 quite cut it? I suppose the longer dildos are thicker, if that's what you mean?

    In any case, I thought vibrators were more popular than dildos, and size doesn't matter with vibrators if it's only being used for clit stimulation.
     
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    Damn I widh I hadnt seen that lol

    Yea I didnt mean to single out women Same with a guy you ask him to point to the dildo thats his size then ask him how big he is I bet you the figures are wayyy different lol
     
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    OMG- just spent an hour fantasizing with this web site. Thank you!
     
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    I was watching a british documentary.. unfortunately I can't remeber the name.. where women were given clay and ask to scult the perfect penis. The average was around 7", I'm not sure about the girth.. maybe around 5.5", but I'm guessing. And if you also look at top selling dildos, they're usually 7" x 5.5".

    Some may not consider this big, but the average woman seems to gravitate to penis and sex toys around that size.
     
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    Maybe this is why most women I'm with describe my dick as 'perfect'? (which I never believe, I always think of it as them being nice)

    I'm just a bit bigger than that in each direction.
     
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    they need a couple inches to hold onto
     
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    The british guy who did the BBC documentary is named Lawrence Barraclough. The documentary is a hoot and you can watch it here: Penis Size Insecurity by Men | Watch online for free | documentary-log.com

    This is a full-length documentary. The part where he asks the girls to mold their "ideal penis" is about a third of the way through. I agree they look to be about 6 1/2- 7 inches in length but fairly girthy, 5 1/2" -6" I would say, and one even thicker.

    It takes a while to watch this but it's pretty interesting and funny.
     
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    interesting convo.. my husband and I were talking about this last night..I wanted to measure him (it had been a long while and I couldn't remember) and he of course agreed. At a not all the way hard state he was 7 by 5.25 . Seems much bigger in person and I've used lots of big toys (Big Sex Toys . . . Reloaded! ..mmm) and he has even fisted me. I think part of the things is that lots of toy places do count the suction cup/balls like a pp stated (I love the sites that post insertable but even then sometimes it is a surprise when it gets here) and also there is such a difference is measuring technique. I too have been shocked at what some gfs say are too big at the toy store, but I've found I can handle a bigger toy better than a penis (maybe because sex can be rougher), although I haven't tried a super huge one lately:)

    eta...I didn't realize that was the same website..funny..they have great customer service:)
     
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