How big is TOO big?

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  1. Imported

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    Blackstar2004: Like,
    I think my new girlfriend is afraid to have sex with me, because of my *hefty package*. How do I get her to loosen up?
     
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    Trackers: With lots and lots of lube, lots and lots of foreplay, and it is always good to talk dirty, and to say how much you like her.
     
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    One_Hung_Low: Size is relative to the object it is equated to. For example, 4 1/2" is big compared to 90 pound woman. 10 1/2" is small compared to a 350 pound woman. It is possible to find your perfect fit, but you must tear up a few vaginas and get lost in a few canyons before you find the dream girl.
     
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    Not true. The depth or width of a woman's vagina has nothing to do with her weight or build. Some slight women can accomodate larger penes than some large women. Also, if you "tear up a few vaginas", then you're doing it wrong.
     
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    Donk: DMW is absolutely right about this. (And, unlike him, I can speak from experience :))
     
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    gigantikok: foreplay foreplay foreplay... and lotsa foreplay.

    Get good at it, and she'll get loose enough!
     
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    One_Hung_Low: Oh, did I say vaginas? I meant the other hole!
     
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    AnonyMs: you are still out to lunch, my friend...
     
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    yo how big iz yo dick? truth is man there lotta women that wont lemme tap em cuz of my size. Take it damn slow man an dont have the lite on too brite or they tripp out n shit and open her up lil by lil. She gonna holler n screem n shit but once u get yo head in u be cool. holla back son
     
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    bluefrogtool: it couldn't be your eloquent bedside manner could it? ;)
     
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    jayjay: This could be a mental block, if your girl loves you enough then I am sure she will give it a try at least.
     
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    tripod2004: It's all down to individual sizes. Some people have big dicks, some small. My partner is 9'' and i've never had a problem. It's just how you're built.
     
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    JimEllsworth5: [quote author=Blackstar2004 link=board=sex;num=1059752783;start=0#0 date=08/01/03 at 08:37:23]Like,
    I think my new girlfriend is afraid to have sex with me, because of my *hefty package*.  How do I get her to loosen up?[/quote]

    You can try a lot of foreplay and plenty of astroglide coupled with some pot or other relaxing drugs. But in the end it all depends on how well you both fit together. If you're too big and she's too small it's just not going to work.
     
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    Faircrest: [quote author=JimEllsworth5 link=board=sex;num=1059752783;start=0#12 date=03/29/04 at 15:19:21]

    If you're too big and she's too small it's just not going to work.[/quote]

    That is pretty much the long and short of it. no pun intended. :)
     
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    cebe: I've had a very bad experience with a woman who want me to fast (she was too exited? me too), so my advice is : go slowly, use good lube, and let her to lead the game, on top of you for example. After a few times, the things will go themselves. Good (f)(l)uck
     
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    bigbebop: well my g/f can take mine some what
    (13.8x9.5)
    i hope i'm not to big
     
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    JimEllsworth5: How much can your girlfriend take?
     
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    zaneblue: I was going to link, but then I thought better of it. Here's a recent thread on a board I frequent, might be helpful.

    lilida
    I have only had sex for a year and with the same person. My bf is a bit large and my "V" is on the small side. I went to my Dr. to see if there was any problems and she said that I was normal, yet I still get a pinching sometimes burning pain from the friction accompanies by soreness. We have tried different positions, tons of foreplay,toys,and oral. Sometimes the oral even hurts.But I still have the pain of being tight.And because of the pain I don't get an orgasam and he feels bad that he can't please me and I feel defective because I can't have one.It seems to cancel everything out. Can my birth control be causing the problems? I don't know what else to do

    zaneblue
    Are you using lube? In this situation you should be using huge amounts of lube. You may also consider getting a dildo of approximately his size and stretching yourself on your own for a bit every day.

    MKGAL
    I have had similar issue. Lube is defiantly a great place to start. Get a good one like Astroglide. The KY Jelly of old just doesn't cut it.
    I found that I reacted to the pain so that might be part of your issue too. You might find that you tighten up and you might even find yourself bracing for the pain. Try some relaxation techniques. Do Kegel exercises to strengthen you muscles in your V. You will problely notice a difference if you try these items. It might take some time so don't get frustrated if you can't learn to relax right away.

    lilida
    I use a special one that doesn't have any sugars in it. And it's still painful after entry.

    lilida
    Sorry, I meant to say that by having one without sugars in it helps prevent the on set of yeast infections. I'm allergic to the sugar and it is also good for folks who are diabetic and can't take KY or Astroglide. That totally made a great imprvement, but as far as the pain goes...still a problem.
    Thanks

    pinky
    It is possible you may have a little vaginismus. Regular stretching, especially prior to intercourse, with a vibrator or dildo would be the key to resolving vaginismus.

    lilida
    I thought about that, but I wasn't sure since my Dr. said that I was normal and healthy. I think I might re-read my Berman and Berman book tonight. It's not easy when you have a small hole trying to fit a big stick...porn has it all wrong Thanks Pinky!
     
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    btrelll: [quote author=JimEllsworth5 link=board=sex;num=1059752783;start=0#12 date=03/29/04 at 15:19:21]

    You can try a lot of foreplay and plenty of astroglide coupled with some pot or other relaxing drugs. But in the end it all depends on how well you both fit together. If you're too big and she's too small it's just not going to work.[/quote]

    Hahahahahha

    You're a dick on so many levels
     
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