How Big is Too Big?

[slurper_la]

Just come to me. I'll take any size cock!

atta boy!!!!

:tongue:



(me too) :smile:

 

[dc46064]

By your note you seem very young, since you just started having sex. Sex is not something that is done fast, I hate quickies. Funny things you hear on here about size. A ass can take a fist, it will take your cock. Take your time, alot of ass play. Tongue, fingers ,(inserting and streching) toys, then your cock. Go to a Gay book store and get a book on ass play. With that cock and read that book, you will be dangerous!

 

[julie8]

The bigger the better, I always say....

 

[20Unknown20]

The bigger the better, I always say....

Then I think you will enjoy it around here, Julie!

 

[rbkwp]

Well i hope this is not just a Xmas wish on your part.
It has not happened to me as i dont have a 9 inch Thick.

I usually give up and leave them disappointed, cuddle or bottom myself.
But now I'm seeing a guy who is 100% bottom and it happened again!

I think thats the key...i do think your partner has got to assist 110%
Not just your job to 'get it in'
Cant judge by your post as to how much experience you have/have not had
You dont mention that you lose your Hardon, so i dont see how its not working
If your both 'keen as' somethings gotta give .. obviously your lack of trying' in this case.
Surely your partner can help out by 'sitting' on it.. for starters
I better shut up .. as i am getting mightily frustrated..ha
Perseverance & Patience my dear man ..you either want it to happen or not..
Cheers and GOOD LUCK
enz
-try and make it a NY resolution .. to achieve

 

[B_willy5904]

Size has never been stopped me in fucking an ass, or taking it up mine. I have been fucking my wife in the ass for over 25 years. I am bigger than you are and thick, after all these years, I still have to take my time and have patience the first time I work my cock into my wife's ass for the evening. And lots of lube.

I recently started fucking a guy that has the biggest cock that I have ever seen. The first time he fucked me he followed 2 of my buddies and I thought there was no way. He is so thick that my hand can not wrap all the way around that think thing. But he took his time and it was incredible. My wife enjoys having him fuck her ass after I fuck it, but what drives her crazy in DPing both of us. If a guy knows how to swing a big cock the sex can be great, if he doesn't it can be disappointing.

It just takes time, lube, and experience. Unlike real estate it not about location, but time, time, time. When I fuck a new partner in the ass for the first time, it sometimes take me 25-30 minutes to get my big cock fully penetrated into my partner. Keep on trying and follow the advice that you can find all over this site; most of the advice is very good.

 

[Saaga]

I rubber up, lube up, and push against an impossible entrance.

He used poppers, I used a cock ring. Both of us horny and... u know.

Wow, what a special encounter.

 

[B_ILIW]

you could try using a few fingers to loosen the anus out a bit, before you stick it in there.

start with one, two, three, even four to get him accustomed to your size.

 

[Viking_UK]

Rubber up, lube up and push just won't work if you've got any kind of girth at all. No wonder it's hurting the guy. You've got to loosen him up first and that takes time and effort.

It sounds like you haven't had much experience with anal. Rushing it is the worst thing you can do. Lube, patience, more lube and lots of ass play is what you need.

I'd suggest that you get someone to fuck you so you'll know what it feels like. In my book, that's one of the best ways to learn how to be a good top.

 

[deano-uk]

Well mate, I know when I took my first he was quite thick, and i just wanted to sit on it and try as I did, after a lot of kissing and cuddling, said there is no way thats gonna go in me.

He said it will, there's no rush, so after about another 15 or 20 minutes, and him rimming me, and massaging my hole and plenty of lube, and me kneeling on the bed, he slowly went in, first was argh argh, but he took it real slowly fraction by fraction, after about another 15 minutes i said are you all in, cause i could believe he would get it all in, he said yeah, feel.
When I reached around and he was in right to his balls, he wasn't massive but 7.5 and thick, which is still on the big side. - it took about another 10 minutes or so before he started fucking me, but then, I was really loving it..
(All these timings sounds like I was there with a stop watch LOL )

But work with your man, girl whoever, and you will get there, but true to say, I am mainly top now, but have learned a lot from that experience and take it slow and let your partner make the pace..

 

[D_Eddie Withagun]

Wow, what a special encounter.

The way I wrote that, I can see why it sounds like we never warmed up.

but we did. we did a lot of 'foreplay' including rimming and prostate massage.


I've had a few poeple asking to see my cock. I don't mind showing off. Am I allowed to post a link? (I am new here)

 

[TomCat84]

I'm gay, 9 inches, thick, and uncut. I've been sexually active for a year and in that time, for the life of me, I could not get my cock into a hole.

I rubber up, lube up, and push against an impossible entrance.

I usually give up and leave them disappointed, cuddle or bottom myself.
But now I'm seeing a guy who is 100% bottom and it happened again!

He used poppers, I used a cock ring. Both of us horny and... u know.


Has this happened to you? Did it when you started out and you learned how to get passed it? I really need help. thanks.

You could try with me! :biggrin1:

 

[art]

Too big is when you get turned down for sex.

 

[D_Leighlily Liddletitz]

I'll let you know when I find out

 

[D_Bodacious Appetite]

My last gf couldn't even get my head in and I don't even think I'm that thick so idk

 

[D_Leighlily Liddletitz]

how big are you?

 

[D_Bodacious Appetite]

bout 8.7 length jus barely over 6 girth