How big is too big?

[D_Pancionne Pantswurst]

What size would you consider to be too big to take? Have any of you ladies ever turned down a guy because he was too big?

 

[uknakedmen]

How big is too big?

There is no such thing as 'too big' in my opinion. The bigger the better... no exceptions!

That's the expression I want on my face when someone pulls down their pants. Lol




Oops! Sorry, I didn't realize this was the 'women's issues' forum. I entered the thread from the 'Latest Threads' box on the right.

 

[zaza]

I used to think the bigger the better...no exceptions, until I met my boyfriend. He is probably too big for me. He knows I think that, but he is lovely and sometimes you have to compromise in relationships

 

[RupinX]

I used to think the bigger the better...no exceptions, until I met my boyfriend. He is probably too big for me. He knows I think that, but he is lovely and sometimes you have to compromise in relationships

How big is he?...if I may ask... :smile:

 

[zaza]

I don`t like to post his measurements as I feel that is personal. Prior to him the biggest I`d experieced was about 7inches, which was fine. My boyfriend it quite a lot bigger than that.

 

[RupinX]

I don`t like to post his measurements as I feel that is personal. Prior to him the biggest I`d experieced was about 7inches, which was fine. My boyfriend it quite a lot bigger than that.

Understood. I am also hesitant to post my measurements, so I know the feeling! :smile:

 

[zaza]

Understood. I am also hesitant to post my measurements, so I know the feeling! :smile:

Do you find that women find difficulty accomodating you?

 

[B_Golioth]

all my gfs have had trouble "accomodating" me

my girlfriend at the moment dose try hard to tho

 

[CuteGuyLondon]

anything more than 9 in is way too big to do anything with.. visually its great, but you won't get a lot of action out of it!

 

[ManlyBanisters]

My better(?) half (bigger anyway ) is about 10 / 10 1/2 depending on how well I'm handling him (I've never measure girth so I can't say - on the larger side of normal judging by other lovers) - I find that is about my comfort limit.

I've been with > 11 before and I can have as much fun - but he can't - I guess some bigger guys are used to that but I think a larger guy probably has more fun with a more 'accomodating' partner.

I've never turned a guy down for being too big - I have suggested he use the 'front door only' tho

 

[B_spiker067]

A woman doesn't have to take the full x inches of length. She has to take the girth. So the question is how thick is too thick!!!

 

[TeflonDon]

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Teflon

 

[RupinX]

Do you find that women find difficulty accomodating you?

Yes, pretty much every time. I have pretty much concluded that I won't ever find a woman who can take every inch...but as mentioned below, the biggest issue is girth. It often takes a while to get started.

 

[D_Pancionne Pantswurst]

Some women have thought that I'm too big, although I wouldn't consider myself massive or anything, and anal sex has always been a no go for me. Although I'm sure that there are some women who enjoy anal with a big dick, maybe I've just been with the wrong women!

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

Theoretically no girth a man could possibly be should be a problem, and for me if he's 12 inches it's not all going in, but if he's anything much over average it's still not all going in, so if he doesn't mind that he's never going to sink all his cock in me it makes no difference to me. I like long cocks not because I can take them but because of the aesthetics of them, the feel in my hands and mouth, the look. The average vagina varies in length from 5 and a half inches to seven so the majority of us won't be taking anything huge.

 

[extramedium]

sometimes people 'click' and sometimes no. if you really care about someone, you dont want to see them uncomfortable or in pain, not to mention the fact that you really cant go more than halfway in, so sometimes it's better to move on to someone who is more 'accomidating'. about a quater of the women i've been with, have told me i was too big. i had one girl who thought i'd be bigger, it's just one of the many complexities that comes with relationships!

 

[TeflonDon]

Theoretically no girth a man could possibly be should be a problem, and for me if he's 12 inches it's not all going in, but if he's anything much over average it's still not all going in, so if he doesn't mind that he's never going to sink all his cock in me it makes no difference to me. I like long cocks not because I can take them but because of the aesthetics of them, the feel in my hands and mouth, the look. The average vagina varies in length from 5 and a half inches to seven so the majority of us won't be taking anything huge.

Very true It's all about aesthetics ! Patience will overcome any difficulties :biggrin1: Is the average really 5.5-7 for women? I was of the understanding your average was larger than our average for some reason. Hrm.

*Cheers*
Teflon

 

[RupinX]

Theoretically no girth a man could possibly be should be a problem, and for me if he's 12 inches it's not all going in, but if he's anything much over average it's still not all going in, so if he doesn't mind that he's never going to sink all his cock in me it makes no difference to me. I like long cocks not because I can take them but because of the aesthetics of them, the feel in my hands and mouth, the look. The average vagina varies in length from 5 and a half inches to seven so the majority of us won't be taking anything huge.

Why should girth never be a problem? And may I ask, have you experienced 12 inches before? :biggrin1:

 

[zaza]

Why should girth never be a problem? And may I ask, have you experienced 12 inches before? :biggrin1:

Girth is not a problem for me either, it really deep penetration that is painful.

 

[D_Pancionne Pantswurst]

Girth is not a problem for me either, it really deep penetration that is painful.

What size would be a problem for you in terms of length? What is your ideal girth?