How big is usually painful for anal?

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  1. soccerfanatic

    soccerfanatic New Member

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    I'm not sure if this has been asked before, I should imagine it has with the number of members here, but I'm curious as to how large the LPSG ladies, or gay men, would take in that manner without it being too big and causing them pain or damage?

    I've always thought anal looked like fun, I'm a virgin so I wouldn't know, but I'm just curious as to whether I'd be able to try it or if I'd be better off sticking to the front region?
     
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    Well Spank, most any size can be painful if it's not done with some care. First off the person who is to receive has to be into it. If they are concerned with your size or afraid you might hurt them in some way their mind will probably make it come true!

    Biggest key is for both parties to be relaxed, take it slow and work up to it. Have lots of lube on hand and use your fingers, toys, etc. to open things up. Having seen the pictures of your size in another thread here most anyone except maybe those with a lot of experience are going to have some pain taking you, at least to start with. Your a big boy! :)

    For me based on your picture, your probably right in the range of what I consider "comfortable", sized right for many hours of fun. I'd bet if you pursue this you'll find plenty of folks that are open to such pleasures with you.

    Have fun!
     
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    agreed! anything big enough to be felt....ha/ha...can cause pain. relaxation IS the key, no matter what size. And I've heard of women taking in pretty large ones. I've only ever experienced my husbands, whom I would consider average.

    You should give it a try though, as it seems to be pleasurable for every man I've ever talked to about it.
     
  4. soccerfanatic

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    I want to, women don't seem as keen though lol :(
     
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    Not that I speak on behalf of women, but this is worth a look. (NSFW, though):

    http://www.mikkelsenfilm.dk/qt/numsefilmen.mov
     
  6. Imported

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    emma_anal_slut: Well, I can only speak for myself, but I find being buggered by a man with a large penis much more exciting than one with a smaller one. Notice I say "exciting". In other words, it's not only about physical sensation, it's psychological. In fact I think most women who relish sodomy do so for psycho-sexual kicks -- it makes them feel sexy, exotic, wanton or whatever.

    I have always been kind of "anal erotic" and I had been anally screwed by, say, half a dozen "average" (5-7") cocks before I met my current boyfriend. You might find this difficult to understand, but it was both painful and enjoyable. I can't explain it, but "hurts so good" would be an appropriate expression.

    My current boyfriend is about 9 inches and very fat (his cock that is!). I decided there was just no way I would ever be able to take that monster up my pooper. However, when he finally buggered me it was magical. He penetrated my rectum more than an hour and a half into sex, and my that time I was so relaxed, turned on, well-lubricated, well-rimmed and well-fingered that he just sort of slid effortlessly up into my bottom. It wasn't in the slightest bit painful. In fact my most painful anal session came from an old boyfriend who was tiny but just sort of jabbed away at my asshole with no thought for me.

    My advice is, if anal is painful, you don't need a different sized cock, you need a different (more understanding and sexually expert) lover.
     
  7. Imported

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    NineInchCock_160IQ: Just sticking a pinky finger in your ass could be painful if you don't do it right. On the other hand, if your partner is willing, or better yet, desirous of having something up his/her rectum, if you use copious amounts of lubrication, experiment to find the best positions, and work your way up to the bigger stuff... you can fit practically anything up there. Just be careful about what you put in 'cause sometimes you'll be hard pressed to get it out. I work in an Emergency Department of a hospital and can attest to that.


     
  8. Imported

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    NineInchCock_160IQ: Some evidence of my previous post, courtesy of the infamous goatse.cx (mirror site since the original has long since been taken down)

    enjoy!

    http://goat.cx/



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    Cute, mindseye. Makes you wonder if guys really don't listen or if it's that women don't speak male.
     
  10. Imported

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    LeahCat: I think the girth is the killer with anal. Still, I say that but if Im with a partner who gets me relaxed enough and turned on enough then those considerations fly out the window.

    Personally I love anal (in conjunction with some other stimulation) so Im not the hardest to convince lol. However, what Ive found - thanks to one wonderful ex- was that not every girl can do anal in the same way. If Im not on my side then it doesnt matter if he's 5 inches or 12, it's not going to happen.

    Also found that was a great way for me to control depth etc whereas in other positions you can be at the mercy of someone who isnt so finely tuned to how fast is too fast and how much is too much.
     
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    As a bisexual, I have both given and received anal. The biggest I have had in me was close to 7" in girth. I took my time and it did hurt, but I took it. I am 6" in girth and I have had anal with a lot of men and women who thought I was too thick, but I took my time and got them loose enough that when they took me, there was little or no pain.
     
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    I've never given (nor recv'd) anal. Have come close, but found zero takers.

    Wot's it like (Monty Python impersonation working)
     
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    Well, if you're into Monty Python, you could always put spam in there while getting rimmed.
     
  14. philberttrw

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    Ewwwww...

    Bad taste, Jonb, pardon the pun ;)

    To answer your question, faceking, it's fab. I wouldn't give it up for anything! I will interrupt a meeting with the Pope if my bf walks in the door with a woody in his pants... The sensation of being penetrated is incredible, and difficult to describe, and speaking from a personal standpoint (and not offense meant to any lady readers...) anal insertion feels better than vaginal, for the one doing the inserting. Tighter, warmer... I love it.
     
  15. jonb

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    Well, then you can fuck a lumberjack.
     
  16. Imported

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    NineInchCock_160IQ:
    I want to, women don't seem as keen though lol :(
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    I think the difference here is that men who try this do so because they want to more often than not, and women often try anal only to please their partner. I don't have much personal experience, but at least from the things I've read and the people I've talked to, anal sex can be an enjoyable experience for both sexes, you just have to have the right attitude and it helps if your partner knows what they are doing. I once had a link to a great article online written by a woman who enjoyed anal sex about how to go about trying this yourself, unfortunately I've lost the link. They had a great article at the same site about performing cunnilingus. and it's hard these days to find relevant information online about sex just by doing searches because you have to wade through a billion stupid porno sites.

    Here's some books at amazon for anyone who's interested:

    I've purchased this book before for a friend, and it was an interesting read:
    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detai...=glance&s=books

    and they have one for men too:
    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/157...7649998-1496054

    this one I haven't read but it gets good reviews too:
    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/094...7649998-1496054
     
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