How big of a role for masturbating play in your sex performance?

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  1. D_Geaffartson_Glandhammer

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    Hey guys, just wondering, how much does masturbation in your everyday life affect your sex drive and sex performance? I seem to notice when I masturbate the usual 2 or 3 times a day, sex lasts much longer and I'm hornier.. When I don't masturbate for a day or two, sex lasts much shorter and it's harder to get me in the mood. It seems to relax me and leaves me wanting more. In fact I haven't been masturbating everyday for the past couple of weeks and it's been hurting my performance in bed, I should probably get back on that routine! Haha. How about you guys?
     
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    It really depends. My GF likes mutual masterbation, and we often start fucking with a session. I will sometimes wank before sex, so I last longer, and often wank after fucking if I am still horny and her pussy, mouth or hands are tired. If I am not getting regular sex, I will jerk off twice a day, but usually I get a fuck buddy to sort me out.
     
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    It plays a fairly big role.. consider it practice before sex.

    The more commonly you masterbate the longer you'll last during sex is the general consensus, I know mens health just put out an article on it, might be worth checking out for you.
     
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    Right on - this is about the same for me.

    If I am really horny, she also likes to watch me masturbate, and usually gives me a hand. I also like watching her rub her clit.

    To answer the OP, I think I can last longer in sex if I masturbate before hand, and usually keep in the routine if a blowjob is not available that day.
     
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    I've been trying to figure this out for a while. I do believe there is a relationship, but I haven't been able to determine a consistent pattern - perhaps too many other factors are at work. I have found pretty consistently, though, that if I go for a day or two without masturbating, and then go for it, I'll often feel extremely horny during the following 24 hrs, but if I just continually indulge myself, jacking off, say, 2-3 times in a day, I'll find, eventually, that I have no juice left, if you'll pardon the pun, feeling sexually depleted, and will have to take another day or two off to return equilibrium... So lately, I've taken to restraining myself from constant self-gratification so that I don't end up sexually exhausted... I read somewhere that the ideal frequency of ejaculation is 3-4 times per week. I don't really believe there's an across the board "ideal frequency" but I think somewhere in that ballpark feels healthiest to me: where I'm neither building up too much steam or constantly beating off. Also, in my experience, frequent sex takes less out of me than frequent masturbation. Sorry to ramble on like this, but clearly, it's a topic that interests me.
     
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    My BF and I ofter masturbate during sex. Most of the time we start with JO each other then work our way to sex. Whoever is bottoming normally JO as he is fucked. When we abstain from masturbation for a few days before we have sex. It seems to make our orgasms more intense and lots more cum. I normally JO 3-4 times a week and have sex 2-3 a week.
     
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    I have to agree with crappo on this, even though I can't stop from masturbating at least once a day, and preferably all day.
     
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    Like some others here, I've used it as a way of being able to fuck for longer. When younger I used to cum too soon, and often had a wank before I took a girl to bed. In several relationships it became a regular part of foreplay, the females liked making and watching me cum and they got better fucks as a result.

    Lack of doing it to myself never affected my mood, however,
     
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    Plays a HUGE role for me. I can't get enough. Have always been a chronic stroker. Even when I'm getting sex on the regular (which is all the time) or dating (which is rare), NOTHING compares to the pleasure I get from watching porn and taking matters into my own hands :) Yeah. I said it. lol. Only thing that makes it better is good weed and a circle jerk with equally turned on, hung dudes and see who shoots the farthest.
     
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    When younger, I was prone to cumming too quickly. Sometimes in 5 minutes or less. I have found that if I masterbate daily if a good fuck is enjoyed I last a lot longer. I'd estimate 30 minutes longer. Every gal I've ever fucked since doing this has always remarked, "You were quite a man." Sometimes it becomes so long we have to use lube as they dry up before I blast my load.
     
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    Yeah, I am the same way. I like to do it a few times a day and then have sex with my GF. I can still blow a huge load inside her or down her throat. It does help in lasting longer and during normal sex it lasts at least 30 min where as without doing it before its like 10 min or so.
     
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    If sex was an ensemble cast, masturbation would be the Samuel L. Jackson of the film - ya know, the bad ma' fucka who makes shit happen. It keeps everything flowing. Physically, emotionally, and hormonally, I am best when I take time to pleasure myself and feel tapped into that energy.

    Like the OP, I am left wanting more. Nothing better than when a partner/fwb is feeling it the same way and when getting together you make some magic happen. :32:
     
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    If I don't jerk off for days my sex drive diminishes rapidly. I went a month without JO recently and pretty much stopped getting random boners completely. Sex started to vanish as a thought, too. Regular JO keeps the sex drive regular.
     
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