How Can I Become A Bull?

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So I've read plenty about cuckolds on here and I've always been interested in the hotwife / cuckold style of situations. But my question is, "How does one become one?"

Unfortunately I don't fit into the common mold of a bull. I'm not a tall, ripped, dominant man with a large member. I'm you're average frustrated chump. Average height and build, average 6" tool, very introverted, and a bit of a beta male. But I love the idea of being a bull for a woman while her husband enjoys the show.

I'm not into humiliating anyone, just pleasing another man's wife. I keep reading from many of the posters that they've been approached to be a bull for couples, heck I haven't even been asked to buy weed! What does the average joe need to change how they are viewed? I'm in the middle of reading "The Game" and "No More Mr. Nice Guy", but how do I move on from theory to practice?

I've thought, because I'm only about 5'8" and have a average penis, that I would be a perfect bull for an Asian couple. Maybe I should learn Mandarin or Korean and start from there?

Curious how others got into the lifestyle,
 
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So I've read plenty about cuckolds on here and I've always been interested in the hotwife / cuckold style of situations. But my question is, "How does one become one?"

Unfortunately I don't fit into the common mold of a bull. I'm not a tall, ripped, dominant man with a large member. I'm you're average frustrated chump. Average height and build, average 6" tool, very introverted, and a bit of a beta male. But I love the idea of being a bull for a woman while her husband enjoys the show.

I'm not into humiliating anyone, just pleasing another man's wife. I keep reading from many of the posters that they've been approached to be a bull for couples, heck I haven't even been asked to buy weed! What does the average joe need to change how they are viewed? I'm in the middle of reading "The Game" and "No More Mr. Nice Guy", but how do I move on from theory to practice?

I've thought, because I'm only about 5'8" and have a average penis, that I would be a perfect bull for an Asian couple. Maybe I should learn Mandarin or Korean and start from there?

Curious how others got into the lifestyle,

I got approached and asked… one led to the next…

Depends on what kinda bull you are to the greater extent, some couples just look for another cock, others for more bdsm style play… lifestyle swingers are a great place to start…
 

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I got approached and asked… one led to the next…

Depends on what kinda bull you are to the greater extent, some couples just look for another cock, others for more bdsm style play… lifestyle swingers are a great place to start…

I guess it's a signal when you are approached to be a bull that you're giving off "bull vibes". That's where many are doing the wrong thing. I think it starts by being an alpha male first, and a bull second. I suppose that's where I need to start,
 

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From what you say about yourself, I don’t think you are a bull material. But you could become one…
And as other said, one led to the next one.
I started with one couple and within 6 months I had 4 couple to fuck with. Every couple has their own dynamics and needs but remember you’re there for her.
 
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Bulled for years, though I've slowed down recently. It all started with my wife's unsatisfied friend who was mired in a sexless marriage. Once you got a reference and some photo/video proof of your skills, it's easy enough to branch out. Probably never easier than it is now.

Learn how to fuck and hold off on cumming too. Any guy with some experience can give a woman some decent sex, but marathon 20+ minute fuck sessions is what a lot of these women and their husbands want, and at least a couple rounds too, and from women have told me guys that can last that long while fucking hard and fast are pretty rare in nature.
 

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Bulled for years, though I've slowed down recently. It all started with my wife's unsatisfied friend who was mired in a sexless marriage. Once you got a reference and some photo/video proof of your skills, it's easy enough to branch out. Probably never easier than it is now.
That's the second time I've heard that. I had an "acquaintance" whose wife's friend husband had sex once a year. So the other guy filled in the rest of the time. Kinda convenient. I suppose it's a nice situation to be in. Though I think that's unlikely to happen to me any time soon.
 

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Learn how to fuck and hold off on cumming too. Any guy with some experience can give a woman some decent sex, but marathon 20+ minute fuck sessions is what a lot of these women and their husbands want, and at least a couple rounds too, and from women have told me guys that can last that long while fucking hard and fast are pretty rare in nature.
Oddly, this is the part I'm best at. I typically have sex for ~an hour. My woman can, after a little warming up, cum over a dozen times and very easily. It's kinda fun. After she cums the first time her pussy is so sensitive, just pushing in really deep and holding it there makes her cum. I think she may have a small pussy :).
 
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I Am a big dude. So I get asked at sex clubs. But different women want different things. Some guys don’t want her to have a man like me.
Unfortunately, I'm not the typical "big dude". In my case, a pair of shoes with lifts in them may help. That would put me at around 5'10". But I could also stand to lose 20+ lbs and start hitting the gym.

I don't know if all guys want to watch their wives fuck a huge man, maybe in some cases it's just a guy they feel comfortable sharing with. I suppose it's different with each couple.

Also, about the sex clubs. I live in conservative cul-de-sac USA and I've never heard of a sex club. My guess is they aren't in the suburbs, but likely in the cities. Not sure I'd even know where to find one. And the other thing, despite my kinky sexual desires, I'm a very intellectual conservative guy. It's hard for me to imagine any of my white collar conservative neighbors into watching me with their wives.
 

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Unfortunately, I'm not the typical "big dude". In my case, a pair of shoes with lifts in them may help. That would put me at around 5'10". But I could also stand to lose 20+ lbs and start hitting the gym.

I don't know if all guys want to watch their wives fuck a huge man, maybe in some cases it's just a guy they feel comfortable sharing with. I suppose it's different with each couple.

Also, about the sex clubs. I live in conservative cul-de-sac USA and I've never heard of a sex club. My guess is they aren't in the suburbs, but likely in the cities. Not sure I'd even know where to find one. And the other thing, despite my kinky sexual desires, I'm a very intellectual conservative guy. It's hard for me to imagine any of my white collar conservative neighbors into watching me with their wives.


Lots of conservatives like it. Also some guys start with guys like you and work up. At first its more let her fuck and average guy. Then they will work up to a huge cock and muscles and whatever
 

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Unfortunately, I'm not the typical "big dude". In my case, a pair of shoes with lifts in them may help. That would put me at around 5'10". But I could also stand to lose 20+ lbs and start hitting the gym.

I don't know if all guys want to watch their wives fuck a huge man, maybe in some cases it's just a guy they feel comfortable sharing with. I suppose it's different with each couple.

Also, about the sex clubs. I live in conservative cul-de-sac USA and I've never heard of a sex club. My guess is they aren't in the suburbs, but likely in the cities. Not sure I'd even know where to find one. And the other thing, despite my kinky sexual desires, I'm a very intellectual conservative guy. It's hard for me to imagine any of my white collar conservative neighbors into watching me with their wives.
I’d also not get caught up in the word Bull… you may not have the bull attributes… doesn’t mean you can’t fuck with swingers….
 

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I live in conservative cul-de-sac USA and I've never heard of a sex club. My guess is they aren't in the suburbs, but likely in the cities. Not sure I'd even know where to find one. And the other thing, despite my kinky sexual desires, I'm a very intellectual conservative guy. It's hard for me to imagine any of my white collar conservative neighbors into watching me with their wives.

I live in a suburban environment just like yours. There's a big swinger house down the street, and I bought my house from a couple who were separating after getting into swinging (one of the potential outcomes of that lifestyle!). So it's here in the conservative areas with white collar lives.
 

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Good luck

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I’d also not get caught up in the word Bull… you may not have the bull attributes… doesn’t mean you can’t fuck with swingers….
Don't you have to be half of a couple in order to be invited to swing? Is having a massive cock and being able to fuck something that swingers want? Do they invite hung single guys along?
 
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