How can I become hung?

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

It’s been many years and I still can’t shake it. Been to therapy several times. And I’m technically not even small…I’m in the average range so it can be so much worse. I’m just so sad that at this rate I’m stuck being average until I die.

Big dicks have such a power over me. I hate them for having this natural raw power that is God given (unearned). And yet I can’t resist them (im a gay size queen). I hate them because I want to have this big dick power over other guys that love big dick. I want to be praised for my big dick…to feel someone open up with hesitation as I penetrate them deeper than anyone has before and they say “you’re so big”. But no one says that cause I don’t have a big dick. I want to enter big dick contests like here on lpsg (where it seems bigger guys tend to win because that’s what we as guys appreciate more). I want to put “hung” on my Grindr profile so I can pull guys outside my league. I want a dick worthy of appreciation on this very site. I want to see those omg expressions as I reveal my cock for the first time to hookups. I want to feel the pride of knowing that I have a big dick (which is so valued in the gay world).

I mean obviously big guys are happier than average and small….just ask any hung guy “do u want to be average or small” and they’ll say no. Maybe they want to lose an inch but that still puts them in the large category. Dick reduction surgery is almost never done yet so many risk losing the ability to get properly hard in order to get bigger. It just seems so unfair that some guys are born being the envy of so many. Hung gay men are kind of like Gods in a way.

Seems you can do so much to improve almost anything about your body except your dick. And so I’m just left feeling like a lesser race of man compared to hung guys.

I tried doing some penis enlargement exercises a couple years ago and immediately I started having penis problems. I think I stretched it too much. I wasn’t able to pee. I had to go see a doctor about it. I’ve had complications ever since. Ended up my urethra got a stricture that caused peeing and cumming to hurt. Had surgery this week to widen the urethra. Recovering now…it hurts to get hard. And the whole time all I can think is “pleas universe…I just want to be hung”.

Being a size queen doesn’t help. I hook up and date hung guys in order to satisfy my constant craving to tour a big dick. There’s just something about the thickness and length that’s hypnotizing. 7 inches bone pressed by 5 inch girth is enough to do it for me. But I just find it so sad that I don’t have a dick that size attached to me that I can touch when I want and please lovers with. I have to meet someone to have that experience. And sometimes…I even meet hung guys basically just to use them for their dick. In these cases I’m transparent about this basically asking if they’re ok being fetishsized lol which some are uncomfortable with but most seem to love it. I tell them I just need to play with a big one since I don’t have one and they’re happy to oblige. Sometimes I pretend I’m them as I worship them. Of course occasionally I’m attracted to a guy who I actually like him as a person overall as well as the penis and that’s a perfect combo, but that doesn’t always happen.

But playing with big dicks just reminds me of the body I’ll never and makes me feel resentment and that’s not fair. I also think weird things like “Hung guys should share their dicks with less fortunate men since they won the lottery and get to play with their winnings and get validation from society that they’re size is hot while the rest of us just have to deal with being screwed over in the process”. It’s a vicious cycle.

I ramble. Just getting this out there. I’m leaning into being a bottom since I don’t have a dick that’s worthy of praise and fucking someone dominant top style per my standards. But I just thinking while I’m being pounded by big dicks, I wish we could trade cocks so I can top for a change sometimes and get praise

I know I sound selfish. So many have it worse. But I can’t deny my feelings.

Oh and I do wanna get the Phallofill procedure to increase girth someday. And I’m thinking about trying sleeves/extensions/prosthetics but I am worried they may just make me feel silly/pathetic. And I worry lovers won’t look at them as being my actual penis…which I know it wouldn’t actually be but to make me feel better I think we’d need to get in the headspace that they actually are my dick.

Rant done. Open to hear various thoughts especially any new ways to get bigger that I may not have heard of in the past year

 

[jared7577768]

Have you tried pumping? It does very little for length, but you can see impressive (albeit temporary) girth gains. I have a micro penis (just over 3” hard) and an average girth (almost 5” circumference). While I gained very little in length, I was able to pump up to a 7” circumference. It was impressive, but at my length pretty useless (imagine trying to fuck a tuna can, lol!). Believe me, I get exactly what you’re talking about.

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

Have you tried pumping? It does very little for length, but you can see impressive (albeit temporary) girth gains. I have a micro penis (just over 3” hard) and an average girth (almost 5” circumference). While I gained very little in length, I was able to pump up to a 7” circumference. It was impressive, but at my length pretty useless (imagine trying to fuck a tuna can, lol!). Believe me, I get exactly what you’re talking about.

I did try pumping a couple of years ago. For some reason it hurt unbeareably when i pumped it to the the minimal pressure. i complained to the company and they sent me a new one. but that's when i started having issues, i think in part due to extension exercises i was doing. and i haven't gotten back to any of the pumping or exercises since. just had surgery this monday to correct the issue. and i will proceed with caution trying to enlarge again.

sorry you're small bruah. will say though you got me beat on girth!

 

[Evenflow618]

I really think you are over thinking the large size bro. I think you need to do more kegels and be happy with what you have. There is nothing powerful about a large penis. Somebody with a large penis isn’t going to solve world hunger or cure diseases because of their penis size. Go have sex and stop watching porn

 

[elklindoxxx]

My partner and I go with other couples and there are guys who are bigger than me and those who are smaller than me.

So stop comparing yourself to others....nobody cares about how big your dick is. The only thing that matters is that everybody gets off.

 

[jbf78]

So no Quantum Erection

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

I really think you are over thinking the large size bro. I think you need to do more kegels and be happy with what you have. There is nothing powerful about a large penis. Somebody with a large penis isn’t going to solve world hunger or cure diseases because of their penis size. Go have sex and stop watching porn

On gay hookup apps all u gotta do is name/tag your profile “hung” and have pics confirming your huge and be incredibly average on all other counts. You will score guys totally out of your league and you don’t have to reciprocate. And some will keep coming back for more. I’ve learned this from two of my hung exes. That is power. That is what I want. I am incredibly dedicated to the gym and I’ve done all I can to get the body I want… I know that I’m dedicated enough to getting a large cock if there’s just a way to do it.

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

I’m 5.75 X 4.3 bone pressed. How can I become hung?

I wanna put “hung” on my Grindr profile so I can score better hookups

 

[magnificent10]

On gay hookup apps all u gotta do is name/tag your profile “hung” and have pics confirming your huge and be incredibly average on all other counts. You will score guys totally out of your league and you don’t have to reciprocate. And some will keep coming back for more. I’ve learned this from two of my hung exes. That is power. That is what I want. I am incredibly dedicated to the gym and I’ve done all I can to get the body I want… I know that I’m dedicated enough to getting a large cock if there’s just a way to do it.

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[danake1]

It’s been many years and I still can’t shake it. Been to therapy several times. And I’m technically not even small…I’m in the average range so it can be so much worse. I’m just so sad that at this rate I’m stuck being average until I die.

Big dicks have such a power over me. I hate them for having this natural raw power that is God given (unearned). And yet I can’t resist them (im a gay size queen). I hate them because I want to have this big dick power over other guys that love big dick. I want to be praised for my big dick…to feel someone open up with hesitation as I penetrate them deeper than anyone has before and they say “you’re so big”. But no one says that cause I don’t have a big dick. I want to enter big dick contests like here on lpsg (where it seems bigger guys tend to win because that’s what we as guys appreciate more). I want to put “hung” on my Grindr profile so I can pull guys outside my league. I want a dick worthy of appreciation on this very site. I want to see those omg expressions as I reveal my cock for the first time to hookups. I want to feel the pride of knowing that I have a big dick (which is so valued in the gay world).

I mean obviously big guys are happier than average and small….just ask any hung guy “do u want to be average or small” and they’ll say no. Maybe they want to lose an inch but that still puts them in the large category. Dick reduction surgery is almost never done yet so many risk losing the ability to get properly hard in order to get bigger. It just seems so unfair that some guys are born being the envy of so many. Hung gay men are kind of like Gods in a way.

Seems you can do so much to improve almost anything about your body except your dick. And so I’m just left feeling like a lesser race of man compared to hung guys.

I tried doing some penis enlargement exercises a couple years ago and immediately I started having penis problems. I think I stretched it too much. I wasn’t able to pee. I had to go see a doctor about it. I’ve had complications ever since. Ended up my urethra got a stricture that caused peeing and cumming to hurt. Had surgery this week to widen the urethra. Recovering now…it hurts to get hard. And the whole time all I can think is “pleas universe…I just want to be hung”.

Being a size queen doesn’t help. I hook up and date hung guys in order to satisfy my constant craving to tour a big dick. There’s just something about the thickness and length that’s hypnotizing. 7 inches bone pressed by 5 inch girth is enough to do it for me. But I just find it so sad that I don’t have a dick that size attached to me that I can touch when I want and please lovers with. I have to meet someone to have that experience. And sometimes…I even meet hung guys basically just to use them for their dick. In these cases I’m transparent about this basically asking if they’re ok being fetishsized lol which some are uncomfortable with but most seem to love it. I tell them I just need to play with a big one since I don’t have one and they’re happy to oblige. Sometimes I pretend I’m them as I worship them. Of course occasionally I’m attracted to a guy who I actually like him as a person overall as well as the penis and that’s a perfect combo, but that doesn’t always happen.

But playing with big dicks just reminds me of the body I’ll never and makes me feel resentment and that’s not fair. I also think weird things like “Hung guys should share their dicks with less fortunate men since they won the lottery and get to play with their winnings and get validation from society that they’re size is hot while the rest of us just have to deal with being screwed over in the process”. It’s a vicious cycle.

I ramble. Just getting this out there. I’m leaning into being a bottom since I don’t have a dick that’s worthy of praise and fucking someone dominant top style per my standards. But I just thinking while I’m being pounded by big dicks, I wish we could trade cocks so I can top for a change sometimes and get praise

I know I sound selfish. So many have it worse. But I can’t deny my feelings.

Oh and I do wanna get the Phallofill procedure to increase girth someday. And I’m thinking about trying sleeves/extensions/prosthetics but I am worried they may just make me feel silly/pathetic. And I worry lovers won’t look at them as being my actual penis…which I know it wouldn’t actually be but to make me feel better I think we’d need to get in the headspace that they actually are my dick.

Rant done. Open to hear various thoughts especially any new ways to get bigger that I may not have heard of in the past year

For girth there are pumps, fillers, jelqing you can get/try. These have been talked about extensively so I won’t try to highlight pros/cons about them. Suffice to say imo pumps and jelqing are likely to yield the best natural girth.

Length can be a bit trickier as those methods focus more on girth. For length you really do have to stretch. I think you’re accurate in your assessment of overdoing it before. Remember it’s a marathon not a sprint. The phalosan forte is one type of stretcher that actually has clinical trials that have been reviewed. It won’t be overnight but if you stick with it, you can add some length. You’re highly unlikely to go from something like 4” to 8”+ but if you’re 5.5 now, it’s not inconceivable to achieve 7 in time (again imo).

All of these things require dedication and time. You need both or you’ll never go anywhere. If memory serves there’s a forum called Thunders Place that has a lot of PE info. Sadly most of this is “bro science”. For me I’d stick to the phallosan, a good pump, and some jelqing. Just remember you wouldn’t go to the gym for the first time and try to squat 500 lbs.

 

[Floodwater]

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Luv the gray pubes

 

[Sammyt767]

Lose some weight if you weigh a lot, I lost a half inch (7.5) gaining weight to 215 from 175.

 

[manhood2025]

I’m 5.75 X 4.3 bone pressed. How can I become hung?

I wanna put “hung” on my Grindr profile so I can score better hookups

Man, I won’t sugarcoat it — you’re on the smaller side. I feel your pain, though; I’ve been laughed at and rejected before for not being well-endowed. I started using SizeGenetics and have been at it for a while now, aiming to eventually reach 17 inches.

 

[BigPosersBulge]

I am too lazy for pumping. I just do it on a fuckdate with others. But if you do it very regular, it will help you a bit.
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[malakos]

Man, I won’t sugarcoat it — you’re on the smaller side.

Eh... no. If those stats are entirely accurate, then his penis is solidly average, not under it.

 

[Cum4myCock]

Hey man, I wouldn't worry too much about the size of your junk... at the end of the day there are people out there that would find your size very appealing. As far as enlargement goes... surgical or otherwise... there's always the chance of injury leading to faulty EQ. I say it's better to be 5.75 X 4.3 with 100% hardon than 7 X 5 with only being able to achieve 80%. I hope you find it in yourself to appreciate what you have, because it's on the top side of average.. and that is good. Life's too short to be so focused on something you may never be. Your dick is good. I promise.

 

[jackleg]

you are bigger than most......

 

[gyroball13]

I’m a size queen by necessity: I’m a 6’3” chubby dude and a lot of that weight is in my ass, so anyone smaller than average just is NOT reaching my hole. That being said, with my vast experience of being a fucking slut, I can very confidently tell you seldom do men who have a big cock know how to actually fuck, they rely on their size as a crutch to make up for having absolutely zero stroke game.

This was true of one of my old fuck buddies, a HUNG young DL black dude who was the fussiest little bitch (hated getting lube on his hands, wouldn’t lube up his own dick, no foreplay, etc.) and thought he was God’s gift to gay men; literally the only reason I kept him around as long as I did was because he lived like two blocks away from me. Keep this in mind because should you magically get your wish of having a huge cock, unless you know how to fucking use it, you’re just going to end up a huge disappointment.

On the flip-side, my two favorite tops are both average sized dudes but my GOD, I never leave without having my brains thoroughly fucked out of me. The first guy’s a bear with a talent for ripping at least three orgasms in a row out of me, and this is not hyperbole, literally every time we hook up. The second dude’s a tall femme hunk who has the stamina and strength to fuck me in any and all positions he likes for hours before he decides to cum. Aside from them, some of my best fucks have been with average sized dudes because they know what the hell they’re doing. It all comes down to quality over quantity.

You’re not hung, but you are bigger than most guys, actually. Don’t take this for granted because you’ve already hurt yourself due to your dissatisfaction with what you’ve got. Keep this up and you’ll end up doing something that might cost you your dick in its entirety, man. Learn to use what you’ve got!

 

[curtain_swoosh]

i meam its clearly bothering you, look into enlargement surgeries that are available

 

[nate9696]

I am going to be 100percent honest, a man's penis is not like womans breasts that can "easily" enlarged. I know it's easier said than done but be happy with what you have, pumping will give you temp girth gains and maybe a tiny bit of length. If you pump everyday for years it might give you an inch or so in length according to some people here.

As you said in your original post you tried to do stretching and did damage and had to have surgery to fix it. According to your measurements you are definitely in the average bracket. Remember this site is LARGE PENIS support group, all the huge cocks live here! This site warps everyone's perception of reality of cock size. I am 6 by 6 and wish I was longer but it's what it is. Don't go crazy bout it and obsess about it there ain't much men can do to have a bigger cock.