How can I desensitize my Penis

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  1. fourincher

    fourincher New Member

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    Hi Mates.

    I'm uncircumcised, and I'm wondering if theres a way to desensitize my Penis head (with out circumcision) Naturally.

    I enjoy the pleasure I get from an uncut cock, but sometimes, it just causes me to cum too fast (sometimes i come in about 15mins). see the thing is, my girl likes it hard-and-fast. and that will usually bring me over the edge.

    I find its my frenulum and the glands that comes in the way.

    is there any way to desensitize it? Will exposing the head over a period of time help?
     
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    i think start and stops usually help with that
     
  3. fourincher

    fourincher New Member

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    I've tried that. But the stops wont really really help. I can stop for 15mins.. but as soon as I get back into some action, I will blow my load in less than 5 minutes.
     
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    Keep your foreskin retracted as much as you can during the day/night. Normally, during puberty, the foreskin shortens enough that the head gets exposed automatically during erections and this causes head to be exposed for much of the night and thus mature into a pleasurable device that is not over sensitive.

    When the foreksin is long, this doesn'T happen, and the glans retains its boyish oversensitivity which can hurt if you stimulate it too much (or make you cum too fast).

    Another way to deal with it is to think of Margaret Thatcher naked on a beach during a cold/rainy day.
     
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    How old are you and how long (and how often) has this been a problem?
     
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    The fact that you can hold for at least 15 minutes means that you are not as sensitive as you think. In fact I would say that you are rather normal. In your age I could "finish" just by prolonged kissing and rubbing.

    Otherwise, SirConcis gave you the answer. Foreskin retraction is the only safe and natural method to achieve what you want. It may take time though, but it worked for me. Now I have my glans covered again with the foreskin because, after many years, the de-sensitization was just too much.
     
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    I know there are some desensitizing lubes and certain desensitizing condoms...

    leaving the glans exposed would do the trick probably,

    or like you said you could always get cut as a permanent solution, that takes away alot of sensitivity...

    I don't understand why would would want to be less sensitive than you are?...

    A few random Questions:
    How old are you?
    where were you born?
    have you ever wondered why you were not cut?
    How big are you?
    Pics?
     
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    Is desensitizing your dick healthy thing to do in the long run? I don't know bro, I don't want any chemicals on my dick, that can possibily be harmful in the long run.

    I've heard of guys and girls using desensitize creams for anal and it did more damage in the long run.

    I know about being uncut man. You got to find the right lube and learn how to touch your dick every so often, so it can use to feeling sensations.
     
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    While you are fucking, think about something else momentarily. If you break the consentration it will help you lasti longer. Also vacuum pumping will desensitize you cock head.
     
  10. fourincher

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    To answer you guys,

    Well my girlfriend is pretty satisfied and says it doesnt bother her (altho sometimes I can go till 40mins). But I still want it to last a lil bit longer :tongue:

    Im 25 this year, and was born in Singapore. I think that explains why I'm not circumcised. Parents are chinese, so we do not have the 'practice' of circumcising our childrens. Altho I know a few who had them done.

    Im on the small side. Slightly shy of 5 inch in length, and 5 inch around. (told my mates this and they said it was a box. 5x5 lol)

    My Penis curves upwards. Will try to upload some pics. I just need to find the cable for my darn camera. :tongue:
     
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    tape back your foreskin for a while and wear boxers.
     
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    Well, as other people has said, wear your foreskin back as much as you can. For several hours at a time, and then as you get used to it for a day or two at a time.
    I also used to lash the exposed glans with a leather strap or paddle. Yes, really!
    That takes courage, though!
    Very enjoyable and desensitizing, which has all sorts of pleasant consequences.
     
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    well the thing is, my foreskin is pretty long, and If I pull it back, it will somehow retract back covering the glands. =

    What tape are you suggesting?
    I tried surgical tape... doesnt work..
    I tried plaster...doesnt work.. cant even get round my dick
     
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    Just learn to control it, alot of the delaying cream may stop you from cumming to fast but it will also delay any pleasure you get from getting laid.
     
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    All the advice here is....right on target.

    Like hitting the nail on the....head.

    Ok, for me, it is the simple trick of "Use it more often". I don't mean whoop calluses onto the bastard, but making it less sensitive will work through this.

    Also, take baby oil and work your....wang with it. Again, it softens up Ye Olde Cock, and let's Mr. Foreskin make your life easier. And...stretch your cock from time to time, go smack it around on a door handle, whatever, the point is to get it toughened up a bit. Foreskin will stretch, retract, and all that, but the more you play with your favorite toy and weapon, the more it will do what you want.

    As pointed out above, as for "too fast" and sex, I like to think of either Star Trek episodes.....or Chocolate Cake (old Porn joke). I think it was Peter North who said that in a porn movie one time. ("Just think about Chocolate Cake, man!")

    None of these are overnight fixes either, it takes time, and patience.
     
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    Check the KY section of you pharmacy, there is stuff to help you delay you ejeculation because it desensatizes that area.
     
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    From a circ'd but restoring guy - a nice problem to have!

    This is not meant to be condescending in anyway - but perhaps you could improve your technique in slower thrusting styles so that your girl will like it better.

    Be creative, use your entire body to express passion not just your dick - don't limit thrusting to your hips. Make slight positional changes to alter thrusting angle to stimulate differently. By rhythmic but alter tempo - perhaps provide the hard and fast technique but only for short periods of time. Alter thrusting to different depths.

    There are many, many ways to make slower love making more sensuous. To me, sensuous sex leads to more intense climaxes (not to say that towards the end it is not fast hard - sometimes that is good too).:biggrin1:

    Good luck!
     
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    Fifteen minutes sounds respectable to me. Isn't that longer than average? If you are younger, do it again. And again. You will go longer each time. As you get older it will take longer so you shouldn't do anything about it now.
     
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    Thanks for the guide guys. Really appreciate it :biggrin1:

    Well I've read around that most guys can last like 45 mins? not sure does that include foreplay or not.

    I've read around that being small, usually you will thrust harder, and therefore come more quickly than bigger men. Is this true?
    If i circumcise my penis, how long would you reckon i could go?
     
  20. Sapien

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    Don't even think about circumcision - believe me, you don't want to go there. What is the point of being able to last longer if you lose significant pleasure sensations for yourself. I am sure the 45 minutes includes foreplay. As others have said 15 minutes of vaginal sex is quite normal.