How can I dirty talk/be verbal better?

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looking to spice up my hookups more by getting better at dirty talking. What do guys like to hear from their bottoms? Right now, only thing I really do is moan and sometimes say that he's so big or that he feels amazing or whatever.
 
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Someone gave me the following advice for dirty talk: Tell them what you're going to do, tell them what you're doing and ask them how they like it, tell them what you just did to them and ask them to describe it.

I'm gonna fuck you so hard.

I'm fucking you hard now, how do you like that? want it harder?

I fucked you hard, didn't I? Tell me how hard I fucked you. Does your hole feel sore?
 

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Can only speak from personal experience, but I also love it when a guy tells me how / what he feels or what he wants (rather than just standard porno"oh fuck" "oh fuck yeah" "You're so big" etc.)

e.g " That dick's going so far up me, it feels fantastic". "Please man, cum in me". "I can feel your cock swelling up inside me", "That feels so fucking good - you're gonna make me spurt", "Fuck me slower - I want to feel every inch going in", "I can feel your balls hitting me" "I can feel you stretching me" "I can feel your cock head rubbing inside my ass" etc gets me off.

I know that still sounds like bad porn, lol, but a genuine in-the-moment "oh yes" as I slide in is SO much hornier than a rehearsed "oh your dick is so big" etc.
Also love it when a guy begs for a dicking or to lick or (gently) bite their neck while we fuck, but that's probably just me ;)
I might be a top but I like knowing how a guy feels when we fuck and they're enjoying it!
 

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I think the best way is that you should use no more than 3 words at a time. For every word over 3 you run the risk of sounding stupid or cheesy.

If you don't like any words, stick to versions of these 4 sounds in appropriate volume to what you are doing: ugh, ogh, arh and mmh.
 

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looking to spice up my hookups more by getting better at dirty talking. What do guys like to hear from their bottoms? Right now, only thing I really do is moan and sometimes say that he's so big or that he feels amazing or whatever.
I am a good verbal top and love a hot bottom that is verbal. I ask questions and love a real response - it's like hot communication. Asking: do you like it? you want more? ready for it harder? If it goes into a more aggressive place (it should haha I love to be aggressive AND passionate most) then It is hot to use some names (hot fucking slut, etc). I think if it's sincere and both guys are turned on that dirty talk is amazing.
 
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My best verbal experience: A few years ago I had a boyfriend for a couple of years and we had amazing sex always. On our second date we had full sex and I fucked him and he came hands free, not touching himself. It was so hot. I asked him a few dates later if that was normal for him. He said: no never before but you fuck really good and your dirty talk was what did it. He had loved dirty talk in porn (me too) but had never had it in real life. We got really good at talk during sex naturally.
 

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looking to spice up my hookups more by getting better at dirty talking. What do guys like to hear from their bottoms? Right now, only thing I really do is moan and sometimes say that he's so big or that he feels amazing or whatever.
Its funny but i dont like dirty talk while having sex, lol too me it feels soo cheesy anything; now some things might naturally come out in the moment and thats okay but i prefer to not force it and prefer my partner to do the same.