How can I ejaculate faster?

[Chodey]

I'll start off by saying I'm a very horny guy, so "just cutting back on masturbation" isn't really the best option for me. After 2 or so days of abstaining I experience very heavy mental fog, and as a student this state of mind is highly detrimental.

Anyways!

I would like to ejaculate faster because I am really using up a lot of my day on masturbation. My technique is as follows:

I grip the base of my penis with my left hand and squeeze(quite hard) and move up and down with my right hand, I use spit for lubricant and find that using anything that reduces friction more so than spit increases the time it takes me to ejaculate.

By this method, if I haven't ejaculated for 2 days, it takes me about half an hour to finish up. If it had been a single day it can take me as long as an hour, and if it had just been 12 hours or less I'm looking at least 2 hours gone.

What can I do to speed things up? This is simply taking up too much of my day.

 

[mexdude]

well u do quite fine, actually i must start trying not reaching orgasm too fast, as long as u dnt get sore, u should stay like u are now

 

[erratic]

Maybe you're going at it too hard? Try switching up your routine, experiment for a bit. If you find anything that works go with it.

 

[pythonseeker]

I don't know how open you would be to this, but you might want to try a prostate massager to help you along.

 

[unabear09]

stick a finger up your ass and put pressure/massage your prostate. sounds like you've desensitized your dick from way too much pressure and way to firm of a grip.

 

[blondetwink11]

stick a finger up your ass and put pressure/massage your prostate. sounds like you've desensitized your dick from way too much pressure and way to firm of a grip.

While I can speak from personal experience it will increase sensation and in some cases increase speed. But while the steps outlined about are succint, you should do some further research. Listen to your body, be careful, and happy cumming!

 

[SpeedoMike]

experiment...

 

[ncsudude009]

Have you tried it without lube (even spit)?

You don't mention it in your post, but are you on any medications? Some medications can impede your reaching orgasm.

 

[wishihad1]

You might want to stimulate your brain with some porn.

 

[kurios]

Just relax and take your time
If you train the trigger to fire quickly you may regret it

 

[JulieInNaplesFL]

Call me. :biggrin1:

 

[apex1972]

i will call ya. PM number please lol

 

[crescendo69]

Porn can help speed things up, or stories with new fantasies. I have found varying erogenous zones through the years, like my nipples, balls, or places under my balls or even my lower stomach, just above the penis. Explore your body.

 

[Krusader]

i find squeezing my nuts helps a fair bit, so is stimulating my frenulum and my prostate. Hope it helps

 

[MC1000]

It is just like an addiction. The more you do it the more it takes to get the desired effect. It may be time to change. Sometimes it can be as simple as changing your position, standing instead of laying down. Sometimes it means moving on to harder stuff. At 16, 3 beers got you wasted. At 21 it took six. At 25 you had to move to hard liquor, and so on. Our bodies quick adapt to new stimulation. The key to not becoming jaded is to constanly change thins up or to add new tings so the body does not become board. Even small changes can made a big difference. I think this is why sex with some one new is so pleasurable and exciting at first, but looses some of its lusture after a while.