How can i enlarge my anus for more comfortable anal sex?

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My anus is fairly tight and often find it painful to even put my finger up there without feeling a little bit of pain (or burning sensation). I have done anal before and have enjoyed it, but not I have not been sexually active in months. I want to enlarge my anus so the initial part where the toy / penis enters won't hurt or be as stressful as it is now. As soon as something enters and begins to stretch my anus, I tense up and my anus tightens

What can I do to enlarge my anus overtime? Any techniques or exercises? Will butt plugs work?

Serious help appreciated.
 
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It’s really as simple as practicing with any toy of your choice on a consistent and frequent basis. You can’t let months go between penetration and expect good results.
I always suggest the anal trainer kits that typically have three graduated sizes of plugs. Use lots of lube and take your time.
Have fun.
 
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the anus stretches on it's own. You're talking about the anal sphincter. Try a muscle relaxant
 
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Lube.
The object should be warm.
Lube.
Start small and be patient.
Lube.
As mentioned, relax. You should be having fun, not anticipating pain.
Lube.
Stop the moment you feel pain, back off, and relax. Often the next attempt won't hurt.
Lube.
Work your way up to your goal. Time is your friend. Patience.
Lube.
 

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Lube.
The object should be warm.
Lube.
Start small and be patient.
Lube.
As mentioned, relax. You should be having fun, not anticipating pain.
Lube.
Stop the moment you feel pain, back off, and relax. Often the next attempt won't hurt.
Lube.
Work your way up to your goal. Time is your friend. Patience.
Lube.

Outstanding advice.
 

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Lots of great advice here. I’d also suggest that when you do have anal sex with someone next, @missjunexoxo, you should begin in cowboy position, so that you are in control of the pace and depth of penetration. Once your anus starts relaxing more and you’re enjoying the thrusts, you can then enjoy other, more submissive positions
 
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Lots of lube and relaxation. Start with small toys like a butt plug of maybe an Aneros. When you're with another guy, sit on it so you can control things until you get relaxed enough, then move onto your back, or knees and let him go to town on you.
 

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It's not your anus, it's in your head. You need to learn to relax. I can't stress this enough. Find someone with whom you are comfortable with and also someone who is knowledgeable about massage and getting you to relax. Good luck.
it is the head- thats right
it is the mindset, not the sphincter
 
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Get an assorted sizes of plugs and practice. Lube !
Begged to thing you can do is practice and learn to relax! When I first started I preferred small dicks 5 inches or so. Now I love taking a 10 inch dick with no problem!
 
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