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I just started seeing a guy, and it’s going great. He’s super cute, smart, and sexy. He’s uncut though, and unfortunately for me, that’s an immediate turn-off.
This dynamic killed the vibe tonight after a great date once we started to hook up. I didn’t tell him why, but he noticed that I suddenly couldn’t get hard anymore.
I don’t want to be like this. I want to enjoy his whole body as it is. I realize the issue is MINE, not his, and I feel like it’s my responsibility to get over it. I’m at a loss for how to fix it though. Do I need therapy? Should I tell him, and ask him to work with me, or should I keep it to myself while I try to work on it - somehow?
Has anyone experienced something like this? How did you get over your physical response and learn to love your partner’s body? Whether it was about cut/uncut or some other thing that threw a wrench in your attraction. Thank you.
I don’t want to be like this. I want to enjoy his whole body as it is. I realize the issue is MINE, not his, and I feel like it’s my responsibility to get over it. I’m at a loss for how to fix it though. Do I need therapy? Should I tell him, and ask him to work with me, or should I keep it to myself while I try to work on it - somehow?
Has anyone experienced something like this? How did you get over your physical response and learn to love your partner’s body? Whether it was about cut/uncut or some other thing that threw a wrench in your attraction. Thank you.