How can I make my bottom cum handsfree?

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Truely from a bottom, its really on the bottom. I have only cum from being fucked a rare few times, and not for a lack of trying. Really ur bottom has to be very into it. The hornier your bottom the better chance. Also, your bottom has to be sensitive to prostate stimulation. If your bottom isn't highly sensitive back there, or if your not stimulating his spot properly, cumming from just you fucking him will be next to impossible.
 
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I'd don't think there is a 'magic position' as such. It's often just luck/chance and combination of circumstances I guess.

I'm a top, and my bf has cum without hands a few times while I fuck him. I just seem to hit the spot on times.
 

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I messaged you this but for anyone else that may jump on this thread and see it: My second bit of advice kinda goes with what immeasurable said. It happens with good luck and a lot of horny feelings.

Best advice I can give you for cumming hands free or sex in general. Don't go into sex with the expectations of making things happen. Go into sex having fun and doing what feels good for the both of you. Odds are if you are having fun, then your bottom is too. As a bottom, for me anyway, half of the pleasure of bottoming is reading the energy, emotion, and pleasure that my top is getting out of having sex.
 

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As a bottom man, I would tend to agree with the statements that were made by Out_n_about. I too feel that you can't go into sex with the expectation that this will be a certain way. You can hope for all in the world that your man will come hands free, and he might (at times), but not all the time. As was mentioned by Immeasurable, you may just get lucky with a position or technique that will get you both there if that is the goal that both of you have. Just be supportive of your bottom-man and know that he will be doing the best he can to please you and make you happy, and that you are both doing the best you can to make each other happy. Maybe you guys will find your hands free bliss. . cheers. . Syl'
 
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I would say, same as Immeasurable. . . when I have been on Bottom and I have cum hands free, or (leaked semen, as a dribble from being pounded), it has been in the missionary position, where my tops' glans was hitting my prostate, as he fucked. Doesn't happen every time. . but when I have , it has been in that position.
 

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In my experience it has been both missionary and when I'm slightly behind my bottom and he is on his side. It really is all about the prostate I've found.

I was 22 or 23 the first time it happened and afterwards I thought "oh, shit! I am THE MAN!". Then I found out the guy was a sex addict and figured he likely did it all the time with just about anyone. Every time it's happened since then it has been with someone I'm in a relationship with and usually after we've been together for a while. So I am not "THE MAN", I've just been the right man for two of the guys I've dated.
 

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I've cum handsfree from getting fucked before. I wouldn't say it was the best sex I've ever had, but it certainly was the most overstimulated sex I've ever had. There is such a thing as too much orgasm
 

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As a dominant top, I have found that it is about the prostrate being massaged a lot with deep strokes, also it is about the foreplay beforehand, I believe that if a set the stage with with the excitement, and build his desire up, he is more app to cum hands free, especially when I fuck hard, and make him my pussy!
 

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cI dated a guy who used chastity devices to increase the chance of prostate orgasm. The chastity denies the bottom of cumming any other way. As such, the pressure in the prostate builds up. It can swell allowing the top to find it. So prelong, cum denial does help allot stimulate the prostate to increase prostate movement.

It also depends on intimancy, communication, foreplay, and overall sex desire for the other.

Missionary is the best position.

Overall, the bottom has to know who to push their prostate down to the top. Also, you have to just release and let it happen when it happens.
 

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I have cum hands free while being fucked, i like to sit and massage prostrate first. But in my younger days, I came just by the motion of being fucked. amazing feeling, absoluty over the top orgaisim.
 

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So true..some bottoms can do it more then others. Either way, communication between top and bottom is important. Also tops, do tend to have to have some type of skill also. A top who doesn't care for get his bottom off cannot do it. A bottom who doesn't know how to relax cannot achieve prostate orgasm.
 
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With an upward curve, cowboy position should get you rubbing against the prostate.

Otherwise, don't forget the position doctors prefer for prostate examination; bottom on his side with knees tucked up.
 

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I cum handsfree almost every single time I get fucked...IF I am into the guy and he knows what he's doing. If I'm just going through the motions and I'm not enjoying the sex, it isn't going to happen. It's a pretty amazing feeling and the other guy is usually really turned on by it happening. The past couple of times it happened, I was riding cowboy and ended up shooting him in the face. :)
 

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I alway try and get my bottoms to cum hands free, most of them do, it's about the foreplay beforehand and the teasing my cock on his hole, I usually eat ass for a long time and tell him how I am going I fuck him deep and with my meaty 8"er, then when I do start fucking I usually massage his prostrate with my cock head over and over again! His ass will open up to take my whole cock, then I continue to talk to him as I fuck him deep! I last a long time, so most guys cum when I am just getting started! My cock has been trained to fuck pussy and ass, I fuck at least every day! I have my gf and two married guys serving my cock now! They both cum hands free!