how can I make sex more pleasurable for myself?

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I have a very thick cock and lots of stamina. I like to fuck for at least an hour or more. however I have a recurring problem when I have sex. my problem is that because my penis is so wide either the girl can barely take it or she climaxes too quickly and gets sore too fast.
I've only been with one woman who had the right size vagina for me and she was the only one who could get me off. it's almost to the point where sex seems like a waste of time for me and I am only being used.
what can I do about this or will this always be a problem for me?
 

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Communication with your partner. Unless you have some ridiculous abnormal wale penis, you're just gonna have to find ways to pace yourself AND your partner. Babies come out of vaginas....weighing pounds and whatnot. So I'm sure, with the right preparation and patience, you can make it enjoyable for both parties envolved.

That is....unless you're one of those "just stick it in the hole and pound on it 'til I'm satisfied" types... then you're just gonna need a pretty "plump" and "experienced" woman who can take a bunch of that kind of play....
 
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Holy FUK!!! U poor STALLION!!! How many studs like U suffer like THIS? Or THIS often? Have u tired other partners (genders, species...yikes or not?) I cannot evn IMAGINE the 'downside' possessing an XXXtremely GIRTH CHUBBY...altho, sounds like 1 fuin' AWESOME slab u possess, mate!!! What about toys (sleeves, fleshlight--hear GREAT stories, altho, GET that it's NOT 'the same' as warm, INTIMATE contact!!!--etc.)?
 
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One hour of intercourse with any sized penis is too long and most women will get sore if not bored. Ideal intercourse time for most women is from 7 to 13 minutes, and most women regard 3 minutes as better than 30. I have a 6.5" girth and I aim to come anything more than 7 minutes and ideally around 10 minutes. Anything more than that and I get sore and my partner also gets sore.

Comments about babies and vaginas are not helpful because labour is involved in dilating the vagina to give birth whereas sex relies merely on sexual arousal.

I didn't need anyone to tell me that my ideal time was around 10 minutes; I worked it out for myself decades ago. The time statistics I quote above came from studies conducted some five or six years ago. I have spoken to many women about sex, and regardless of large girth the women I spoke to didn't like it when men went on and on and on.

Ulitmately the best sex comes when you are in tune with your partners likes, dislikes and her mostly unspoken responses to your actions. Keep your eyes open and keep aware of what's going on and how she is reacting.
 
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Holy FUK!!! U poor STALLION!!! How many studs like U suffer like THIS? Or THIS often? Have u tired other partners (genders, species...yikes or not?) I cannot evn IMAGINE the 'downside' possessing an XXXtremely GIRTH CHUBBY...altho, sounds like 1 fuin' AWESOME slab u possess, mate!!! What about toys (sleeves, fleshlight--hear GREAT stories, altho, GET that it's NOT 'the same' as warm, INTIMATE contact!!!--etc.)?

it's ok but the downside is that I can't cum in these small petite women because they get off 3 times before I can even get off once then she is done with me
 

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I sort of have the same issues with many of the guys I fuck. In no way am I swingin Moby Dick, I'm 7.75 x 5.5 but my issue is that I enjoy long deep sessions. I can't do quickies and I'm not trying to beat it up and pull out... Well not all the time. 15 - 30 min is a waste of my time and I might as well beat off and have a Coke and a smile. An hour is about right for me. I've noticed that many guys however can only go about 20min and then either it gets too intense or they can't take it anymore.This doesn't mean that I want some nelly cum dump with no walls left but damn can we have a session that's longer than your typical porno clip?