How Can I See My Own Erected Penis And Feel Confident With My Size?

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hey folks, i am looking for help for me and maybe for others as well: how can i build up more confidence and self-esteem about having the erected penis size that i have? How can one stop the mindset of constantly thinking it's too short and too thin and not getting jealous of bigger guys?

as you can see in my pictures i am a very sexually active guy, i like to compare my dick with other guys and i don't hide it in public situations such as saunas, lockers etc. despite the average size that it is. but lately, in a picture that i posted this week it doesn't even look so average to myself anymore and my thinking goes: "nice picture, great body but the fully erected penis looks so small!" it appears strange to the eye that it's not much longer in the picture and it kind of makes me feel unlucky and sad that on that big blue sky there's such a visual gap of nonexistent size. i guess this is what most people think (poll) when they see that pic.

but when i see so many extra large dicks like on here i ultimately get this feeling that my erected penis is too small which leaves me kind of unhappy and unlucky. this is why i posted it in this forum as i feel some real jealousy over much bigger hung guys. any suggestions for me and others on how to really feel better about my size? how can you make me feel for real "my dick size is totally irrelevant"?

nb: this call for support is strictly not intended to fish for sph, thanks for truely respecting. if you feel uncomfortable to answer on this thread, write a pm thanks.
 
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My best buddy is a lot smaller than you and he is totally comfortable with his dick. In fact over time he has become proud of his dick. It’s possible to achieve that through lots of edging. You’ll start to focus completely on the pleasure your dick gives you instead of external factors which you can’t change anyway.
 

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My best buddy is a lot smaller than you and he is totally comfortable with his dick. In fact over time he has become proud of his dick. It’s possible to achieve that through lots of edging. You’ll start to focus completely on the pleasure your dick gives you instead of external factors which you can’t change anyway.

THAT is a very smart and strong apporoach, respect for this convincing suggestion! Please let him know :p
 
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hey folks, i am looking for help for me and maybe for others as well: how can i build up more confidence and self-esteem about having the erected penis size that i have? How can one stop the mindset of constantly thinking it's too short and too thin and not getting jealous of bigger guys?

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Well, you could re-read the advice given to you in your multiple threads on the exact same topic.

For instance, this one, or this one, or maybe this one. This thread looks promising as well. There are 360+ other threads of your own creation, so lots to choose from.
 

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someone just wrote to me in a PM:

Any size dick can have an orgasm. Enjoy having orgasm. Then enjoy being naked in sauna and locker rooms. The more people we see naked the more we see what normal is. Every guy should feel comfortable naked and free from judgement of their body and balls and penis

So be sure your dick may not be standing out for the obvious reason, he is still standing out for some, even if we don't think so ourselves.

Concentrate less on what you think, more on the fact that people are sexually attracted to you, they go for your smaller dick because they want to!


Wow, so nice - thank you man, this is a great view on how to better deal with size issues
 
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