I recently had an encounter with a man who was about 12 x 7.5. The sex was fantastic, until it came to anal. He got about halfway, before I asked him to stop. I think my fear that he would 'break' something made it more painful. So, I'm wondering is there a way for me to accomodate his desire for anal. Is there some technique I can try? From your experiences, what works best? A woman's point of view or experiences from encounters with women would be especially helpful.