jorpollew
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Don't try to set anything up. I think if the two of you just enjo each other's company, then eventually something will click and happen.
I think you get more information from just talking, listening and picking up clues. Do you guys spend many hours hanging out together? Is it easy to find excuses to be together? What personal things do you talk about when you're together?
Forget trying to find a movie. Hey, just watch TV. A couple of hours of channel-surfing can really initiate some new topics to discuss. While watching sports, comment on an athlete's physical stats, or make a joke about some beef/cheese-cake bodies you'll see on a reality show. You can really pick up a lot when you listen to someone who's just relaxed and talking freely.
Also, touching is important. Shoving, pushing, punching, bear hugs, slaps on the back-- they're all forms of how guys safely touch each other. While you're watching tv, a movie or doing playstation, pay attention to ANY touching contact. And any kind of horseplay or light wrestling is always a good way to get a few cheap grabs.
My advice: just observe, listen and pick up the clues.
I think you get more information from just talking, listening and picking up clues. Do you guys spend many hours hanging out together? Is it easy to find excuses to be together? What personal things do you talk about when you're together?
Forget trying to find a movie. Hey, just watch TV. A couple of hours of channel-surfing can really initiate some new topics to discuss. While watching sports, comment on an athlete's physical stats, or make a joke about some beef/cheese-cake bodies you'll see on a reality show. You can really pick up a lot when you listen to someone who's just relaxed and talking freely.
Also, touching is important. Shoving, pushing, punching, bear hugs, slaps on the back-- they're all forms of how guys safely touch each other. While you're watching tv, a movie or doing playstation, pay attention to ANY touching contact. And any kind of horseplay or light wrestling is always a good way to get a few cheap grabs.
My advice: just observe, listen and pick up the clues.