How can we help (2)

[t0nyi01]

This is from the perspective of an active asking a passive.

What do actives sometime get wrong in the bedroom department? What makes a great active in the sack?

Comments, thoughts & suggestions greatly appreciated.

 

[Rugbypup]

The thought of a guy behind me kinda biting my ears gentle and whispering sweet dominant comments in my ear of ownership and jealosy seems kinda hot to me. lol.

 

[D_Ollyvalle Treegirth]

I am both (actually have more experiecne being active) but am glad to answer on behalf of bottoms.

topmen: It's not taking your time. Most guys need to be relaxated and warmed up...it's called foreplay! Massage, making out, rimmming if you like that......in my opinion, the idea of ramming it in hard and fast exists mainly in porn. In real life, most guys need some slow build-up and time to relax.....then the pleasure will be intense, without any pain at the beginning, which is typical....wait til your guy is literally begging for it....that means he is ready for you. Go slow, tease him, make him want you in all the way before you settle in with all your weight....