How can you be 99% straight, 1% gay?

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  1. CALICOCK

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    im new here i noticed people have sexual ratings next to their username

    how can you be 99% straight and1% gay? just curious :confused:
     
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    Like you, I assume they are curious. :rolleyes:
     
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    That is exactly it.

    They are just numbers... a person may enjoy the idea of jerking off with guys... not gay... maybe be married but curious about other dicks.. not gay...

    It is just random numbers. to express how people feel.:biggrin1:
     
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    i think its just so interesting to note that sexuality is so fluid
    and alot of it is really cultural

    i think all people are atracted to the same sex somewhat
     
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    Calicock is exactly right. There is same sex attraction to some degree in both males and females. There is no such thing as being 100 percent straight or gay. Ask yourself if you don't have a warm feeling for someone of your own gender. Of course you do, even if it is only a fraction of one percent of your orientation. Calicock has opened a good subject for discussion.
     
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    I heard of a guy one time who accidentally let a cock fall into his mouth. Though not particularly interested in sucking it, he liked the fellow personally and thought "ah well.. while's it's hard and here I may as well get the nice man off".

    That would constitute 99% straight 1% gay.


    (You bring up the precise reason I don't answer that profile question. Percentages, in sexual terms, vary like the weather I've discovered)
     
  7. dong20

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    I probably am too, over the years my right hand (~1%?) has frequently had contact with a male in an overtly sexual sense....:tongue:
     
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    I just assumed it meant that every 100th person you slept with would be someone of the same sex . . . guess that's just me getting all literal again! :wink:
     
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    I also think some people might have been afraid of offending gay members of the board. They might think it seems like a rejection of gayness if you say you are 100% Straight!!!!!!. Sorta like saying I am 100% 'Merkun as if anything else would be shameful.
     
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    That is actually how I calculated my percentages, disturbingly. :rolleyes:
     
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    For me, the 1% gay that I put down indicates my slight curiosity and my interest in cocks. I like looking at other cocks but then I think all men do - find me one who doesn't. It is part comparing, part interest, and part an attraction to taboo.

    I know that I am straight and have never, and will never, have a gay experience - but I couldn't say that I was 100% straight for the above reasons!:confused:
     
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    ^ why wouldnt you be up for it if you are turned on by looking at a cock
    you probably are just letting what society says about messing around with another guy get in your way
     
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    I'm sure that's true for some guys. But for others I really believe it's not. I put 1% straight in my profile to represent an appreciation of female beauty and being open-minded:rolleyes:. It's not likely I'll ever be sexual with a woman again. While it's true there is no pressure on me in this society to stop me from having sex with a woman, it's still the way I truly feel. Why couldn't the same be true of some straight guys?
     
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    For me it's very simple. One of my best friends, who also happens to be my cousin, is gay. We grew up together, and during puberty, when we were both trying to figure it all out, we both experimented. I guess each of us was trying to convince the other that "my way is best", but what it really did was give each of us a clear read on what our orientation was.

    The beauty is, both of us can appreciate what the other finds attractive, or sexy, or hot, even though neither of us is inclined to change. So for me, it's 99% straight, 1% gay - and for him it's 99% gay, 1% straight. (Yes, we've discussed it.)
     
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    You must be joking.

    As far as me, I should probably put something more like 60/40 but I'm now committed with and living with a man and I don't fuck women anymore so I just put 1%. I'm a Kinsey 4.
     
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    Ah yes.. I agree Sorcerer. That ever-popular fear of offending homosexuals.... I experience it nearly daily. :rolleyes:
     
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    Great question!

    There is a difference between your sexual orientation and your sexual preference. Although they are used interchangeably,

    One's sexuall orientation is defined as the gender to which you feel more attracted to on a physical level. Some people believe themselves to be more heterosexual or homosexual. When a person has difficulty seeing himself as more heterosexual or more homosexual, the term "bisexuality" may enter into the picture. The Kinsey Institute uses a continuum to help a person express his sexual orientation. Nothing is "set in stone". It's an uninterrupted line on which there are two extremes on each end (purely homosexual, purely heterosexual). The problem is that no one can truly be at the exact end on either side of the scale. Why? Because any tiny sexual thought or desire triggered by both genders will land you somewhere in between the two extremes. Yes, some men are very heterosexual, while other s are very heterosexual. But, the tiniest thought by a very heterosexual man (he thought this one dude was hot as fuck in this one gangbang) will not allow him to be 100% heterosexual. It would be the same case for a very homosexual man who has a "natural" thought of fucking a woman he saw in a porno. Thus, sexual orientation involves all sexual feelings/thought one has in relation to both genders.

    However, sexual preference is sometimes defined by the gender with whom one chooses to have sex with in reality. In relation to sexual preference, I believe that one can be around 99 % gay and 1 % straight and vice versa. I still would not say 100% because there is always a chance, albeit very, very small for some, for someone to have sex with either the same or opposite gender.

    Finally, I reckon that 99.9% is fine in either category. But, in any case, I'd avoid 100% because of extremely slight risks and "tiny"/rare thoughts.
     
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    There it is. Personally I am not interested in having sex with a man. Probably never will. I am actually very heterosexual, but Being here and now gives me the chance to be curious. For example, I think bigbull has an absolutely beautiful cock. I like everything about it. I even find myself admiring the color. Well, there it is. Don't feel even a little bit gay after saying that. Don't want to go fondle it or have sex with the guy, but isn't it liberating to be able to feel that, and say that, and mean it and not be even a little bit ashamed? I'll go ahead and give myself a percentage just because I'm there.
     
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    I think, for the most part, the 1%-ers are just KIDDING!
     
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