How can you be 99% straight, 1% gay?

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I have had some Homosexual thoughts in the past and I can appreciate the beauty of some males.
Maybe there was a time when I would have considered myself up to 10% gay.
The thing that returned that to 0% was once I was with my girlfriend in a hotel which had 4 porn channels including 1 gay one. We were both curious so we watched it for a while, the thing that struck me was how limited gay sex is, there aren't that many positions possible, there are less things to play with and men don't have the orgasmic excitement of women, I found it extremely boring and a turn off.

Like you say Daverock, I am extremely open minded so I am curious to chat with homosexuals on this site and find out more about what turns them on. I have learned some interesting things which I will use in future (How to deep throat - If my next girlfriend can't do it, I will know how to teach her) but I understand your point of view, there must be something about women that turns you off completely too.
 

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"^ why wouldnt you be up for it if you are turned on by looking at a cock
you probably are just letting what society says about messing around with another guy get in your way"

Please correct me if I am wrong, but my gut tells me the purpose of this thread (instead of just being curious about how "straight" men can say they're anything less than 100% straight) is to have a way for someone gay to "prove" to guys who say they are straight that they actually are gay. Lots of gays are like this because they don't want to feel lonely in that 3%-10% of the population. Get over it, guys that say they don't wanna have sex with other guys really don't wanna have sex with other guys.

My 10% is from a time in my past when my encounters were 100% men. I lost my virginity with a man and continued on that path for about 9 years. Woke up one day and realized, hey, i'll never get married continuing down this road, so I quit. No, wasn't that easy, but I made the transition. I remember all about the sex I had with those men (about 25-30 in all maybe) and realize how unfulfilling it all was and how sexually fulfilled I am now having sex with my wife exclusively. Does it mean that someone like Mark Wahlberg doesn't turn my head or even get my cock hard? No, but I don't dwell on that, don't jerk off to it. Now I just have a great appreciation for the male physique, especially pecs, and cocks also.
 

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I did my percentages based on how Alex did his percentages. If I was going to have sex 100 times, I would pick 100 women. I can honestly say I do not have an interest in having sex with other men. That's just me I suppose:shrug:
 

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One CAN be 100% one way or the other, but with some individuals that may fluctuate over time to allow for some variation I think, I am 48 and have never had anymore interest in putting my dick in a female than I have of putting it in a horse. If a person says 99%:1% either way, they are just saying it is very unlikely they will ever have the other kind of sex, but they do not rule it totally out as I do.

I like women, I can love them as both sisters and friends, but I just am not turned on by them, same as with horses. I have been with a few females, mostly because I was young and EXTREMELY horny and had no other outlet except to masturbate, and hell, they practically raped me.

But, I would never have chosen it, I did not enjoy it, did not want to touch them, other than to get the rocks off and leave. If alcohol had not been involved even those few times would never have happened. I suppose had I answered the poll back then I would have said 90% gay and 10% straight. But, in my deepest being I am a gay man and happy about that. I did not choose it, but I would choose it if I could.

So, maybe that answers also the question of how a 100% straight man can fuck a guy and yet maintain he is 100%. It sounds illogical, yet I still believe I am 100% gay. As far as emotional ability to be attracted to a person I am only attracted to guys, so that while I might have had sex a few times with females in the distant past there was NO chance of anything further happening, not even a second encounter.

I think the 100%'ers are part of the reason there is so much friction about sex, we are seen as rejecting the other side without any consideration of their views. But, I do not dislike anybody based on their sexuality, if they are cool with me I am cool with them. It is the threatening macho hets that think it is OK to publicly use terms like faggot as derogatory that piss me off. Or, the women that are so hateful because they are rejected by men that prefer other men.

There are places where life is mostly gay, but straight men and women are welcomed into every gay bar I have ever been into, you cannot say the same for the other side. Unfortunately I live in a region where the nearest gay venue is over 250 miles.
 

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I think a sexual experience with another guy is okay with me, if a girl is involved. If you and a friend hook up with a lady and your plumbing gets smooshed together in the act, and maybe you even like it, that's not gay -it's just sensation. Skin on skin, and the price of admission. Nothing you think about much afterwards. This happened to me in Daytona Beach years ago, and I'm still friends with the guy and we're both still straight.

Check it out -if a lady wants to go, maybe you and another dude, you can't let one, lousy dick get in the way. It's like no way at first, then you both focus on the girl and it's all about getting off with her. Wish it was just you and her, but it isn't.

Some dudes are all about the m-m-f 3-way, and that might be a little gay. If you can't get off without another dick present, maybe then you're 1%.:wink:
 

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Aquaman said:
I think a sexual experience with another guy is okay with me, if a girl is involved. If you and a friend hook up with a lady and your plumbing gets smooshed together in the act, and maybe you even like it, that's not gay -it's just sensation. Skin on skin, and the price of admission. Nothing you think about much afterwards. This happened to me in Daytona Beach years ago, and I'm still friends with the guy and we're both still straight.

Oh thank GOD! I was concerned about your sexual identity. Do you kiss when you see each other now or just shake dicks? :tongue: Sorry. I can't help myself.

Some dudes are all about the m-m-f 3-way, and that might be a little gay. If you can't get off without another dick present, maybe then you're 1%.:wink:

Are some dudes all about that?

If so there's light on the horizon.
 

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Originally Posted by Daverock
Interesting discussion nice to hear differing views and people being so honest. My own response of 100% gay was from a sexual activity point of view and nothing to do with appreciation of a nice woman. I can appreciate a sexy female but would never sleep with one as only men turn me on.

Gisella said:
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Stronzo said:
Are some dudes all about that?

If so there's light on the horizon.

Seems like it. Some guys are always talking about tag-teaming some skank in a club, every time you're hanging with them. They're like 'aw come on, she's fucking hot', which makes you look like a pussy for passing on it. Maybe once or twice you double a chick with the same dude, but after the second or third time, it's weird.:confused: My little asshole opinion, i guess.
 

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Every chick isn't a skank, sorry. Hasn't every body been a skank a least once -I have? :confused: Sometimes people are just skanks, and it doesn't mean they're any less deserving of good treatment. I call them as I see them.
 

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Aquaman said:
Seems like it. Some guys are always talking about tag-teaming some skank in a club, every time you're hanging with them. They're like 'aw come on, she's fucking hot', which makes you look like a pussy for passing on it. Maybe once or twice you double a chick with the same dude, but after the second or third time, it's weird.:confused: My little asshole opinion, i guess.

"Look like a pussy"? :33: Well since you like them so well why would you mind looking like one?

And as for the overt interest in tag-teaming perhaps it's just their instinctive homosexuality kicking in. I say it is.

Aquaman- you have the most amazing constrictions/restrictions about how you categorize sexuality. I'm fascinated. Does this system really work for you? I mean do you actually meet women?
 

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"Look like a pussy"? :33: Well since you like them so well why would you mind looking like one?

And as for the overt interest in tag-teaming perhaps it's just their instinctive homosexuality kicking in. I say it is.

Aquaman- you have the most amazing constrictions/restrictions about how you categorize sexuality. I'm fascinated. Does this system really work for you? I mean do you actually meet women?
Man you hit that nail on right on the head :cool:
 

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Stronzo said:
"Look like a pussy"? :33: Well since you like them so well why would you mind looking like one?

And as for the overt interest in tag-teaming perhaps it's just their instinctive homosexuality kicking in. I say it is.

Aquaman- you have the most amazing constrictions/restrictions about how you categorize sexuality. I'm fascinated. Does this system really work for you? I mean do you actually meet women?

Sorry I couldn't get back to you sooner. I was out nailing some skank.:cool:
 

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I like to look at a penis, but the thought of touching someone elses repulses me. That's the 1%, it's a visual thing. My saying 100% straight is just wrong. That's my definition and how I explain my choice for my percentages.
 

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Wow. It is a thread back from the dead. Or undead, I guess, so that we can peer into the fascinating world of the Skank DP. (Amazing who gets the skank label in this situation, isn't it?) Seriously, however, if this thread demonstrates anything it is the continuing revelation that sexual identity and sexual behavior have only the most casual causal relationship. It is astonishing what can be, and routinely is, rationalized.
 

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0%gay gives you 0 interest from the gays at lpsg!
1%gay gives you the attention at least from the gays that think that they can convert you or make the most of the gaynesss in you!
I think that mentioning your percentage helps others judge your expertise when answering questions!