"How can you even f*** with that thing?"

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Donk, Aug 2, 2004.

  1. Donk

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    This topic is kinda random, but I have just been thinking about it recently. Several times other guys who have learned about my size have asked me a question along the lines of "How can you even have sex with something that big?" Well, I have come to the conclusion that the real answer is "quite well, thanks."

    Aside from a few experiences with some girls who were unwilling and/or unable to take it, I honestly feel that my size (especially length) has a positive impact on vaginal intercourse. My longterm gf now has no problem taking me in, so I have had the chance to really pay attention to the things that a large penis makes possible--e.g., variety between long and short strokes, shifting back and forth during intercourse between different positions; positions like kneeling where there may be a few inches of penis still outside the vagina but there is still plenty inserted to give both of us great pleasure; the fact that in every position, at all times, I feel like her vagina is closed tightly around my flesh, stimulating all the surface area, etc. I guess it's a question of what you're used to because I really can't imagine how to have sex with a 5 or 6 inch penis. I wouldn't know what to do without the extra inches to play with. So I'm tempted to ask guys who have asked me how I can have sex with my penis how they can do it with their smaller ones.

    Thoughts?

    P.S. I intend no disrespect to our less-endowed brothers on this board, and, indeed, I hope you will set me straight about how you put your own endowments to great use.
     
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    alanjs128: Well first off, I'm a virgin and 7" erect... But... Probably going for the good spots in there. Like tries and get the g-spot...
     
  3. GottaBigOne

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    I guess I qualify as smaller then you Donk so I'll just say that I've had problems as well, but usually only with doggystyle. It sucks not being able to go all the way in like you see in pornos sometimes, but other than that my penis gives me no problem. I agree with you that it makes it easier sort of because you have the option of using longer strokes, but certain girls have had trouble getting my entire length in in any position so I've had the disadvantage of not being able to grind my pubic bone on her clit. You win some you lose some...
     
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    I've only rarely 'hit bottom' (once or twice) in all the times I've had sex. I forget what position we we in, but we just shifted a little and everything was OK.

    One past girlfriend really liked it hard, deep, and fast some times. I did some seriously hard pounding of my 7" dick into her pussy missionary style, with her legs wrapped around my waist and my hands under her bottom for even more leverage. When she was in the mood to get Fucked like that, I wondered if we would have any problems, but we never did.

    One position she never let me do was with her legs over my shoulders. She said it was too intense. Maybe she had a bad experience with deep thrusting that way, so she wouldn't take the chance with me.

    While I'd like to have an 8 to 10" dick, I do love that I am able to 'go deep' in just about any postiion, including missionary, doggie, and even woman-on-top pile-driving. ^_^

    LapDog2001
     
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    Violetkitty:
    yes, I've had a bad experience with that. It felt as if I was bruised from the inside. Usually it feels great, but if it goes in too far while in that position....
    Then again, I'm rather small down there.

    As for sex with a small penis (like, a 3-incher) I remember thinking "Is he in yet?" I could barely feel a thing. But I didn't want to make the guy feel bad, so I didn't say anything.
     
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    Donk,

    What you say tallies almost exactly with my views, though I my guess from your posts over the past few years would be that you have had much wider experience than me (even though at my age I will have had a lot more overall). ;)

    Another difference is that it so happens that I have never used all of my length, which may be surprisng as I can't match yours except on very rare occasions maybe. Also, I am always well aware that my girth can be a big factor.

    But yes, although it took me a long time to deal with the challenges, I love all the advantages of being very well hung, as you have so fully described them — the pressure, the friction, the variety of stroke and position, the amazing sensation of depth, the extent of surface area to stimulate and be stimulated — the whole shoot.
     
  7. GottaBigOne

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    I would just like to add that I love having sex using the current penis I possess. I wouldn't trade it for anything. Especially with my gf; we've been having sex for years so Its almost like she's perfectly molded to my cock.
     
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    GBO, I like the "current penis I possess"! Have there been others? :lol: :D :p
     
  9. jonb

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    He's Mr. Potato Cock.
     
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    Mugen:
    :lol:
     
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    HornyVeteranSJ:
    Sex is the same, except for a greater chance for females with average endowed partners to experience clitoral orgasms (hand-off)...whereas females with over endowed partners have a greater chance to experience vaginal oragams. The average endowed can insert his whole cock inside and stimulate the clit with the base of his cock or his pelvis. The biggest factor is girth...if a guy has an average sized cock with above average girth, it's possible for that guy to deal a girl both clitoral and vaginal (g-spot) orgasms.
     
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    DOCSAVAGE: i sertainly do plan to have with anyone here-i am trying ignor some rude members-so my comments will remain my own-until I can trust this board again.
     
  13. madame_zora

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    Awesome! I'm having fun imagining where to place the eyes, nose, and "mustache"!
     
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    michaelwith11: Hi....

    I agree with some of what has been posted, especially about never using my entire length and about girth being a factor. I'm one of the older guys here - in my 50's - and I've never been able to be "all the way in." On the other hand, I've been used to that since the proverbial Day One, and while I would be interested in knowing how that feels, it's not a practical issue for me.

    Also, a fair number of women have said "too big," which also comes with the territory, in my view. That's never fun, especially if the person is smart, interesting, and funny, but it's been part of my experience for a long time.

    All of the above said, I&#39;d still rather be large than not. When I run across a woman who likes big ones, she (generally) REALLY likes big ones. <smile>

    Michael
     
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    Agreed. Sort of makes spontaneous sex inconvenient when you have to spend so much time on foreplay to really get her relaxed and loosened up. Getting a quick nut is just not possible with some partners.
     
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    Hapi Papi:
    Thank you for not crushing his self-esteem. I&#39;m sure he was very much aware of what you were thinking (even if he was extremely self-confident or egotistic). A comment would have been confirmation.
     
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    Mugen: What would be wrong with confirmation of what he probably thought she was thinking?
     
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    Violetkitty:
    I&#39;m not that thoughtless. I pretended like I was having the time of my life.
     
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    Mugen: That&#39;s just placating something that&#39;s not even true...which is worse than telling him the truth...

    ...I&#39;d rather not be lied to, personally...
     
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    How big can most girls take in length and girth?

    I know my girth has caused lots of problems the few times I&#39;ve gotten that far with a girl, but even the girl (yeah only one, I&#39;m only 18 and haven&#39;t had much luck when it comes to fucking) who stretched enough to take me without much problem only took in about 8 inches, I had my fist around the base of my dick.

    Don&#39;t worry, I know about lot&#39;s of foreplay and lube and I don&#39;t aim to hurt anyone. I maybe only 18, but I&#39;m not stupid. :D
     
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