How Come Women Don’t Like To Snapchat?

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Genuine question. As a gay guy that’s recently become curious about women sexually (maybe I’m bi) I was hoping to maybe chat and exchange pics on snapchat with some ladies,but on this and other forums the ladies I’ve spoke to don’t seem to like the idea of snapchat. On the other hand, guys have no problem showing off and sending pics. Is this just another difference between the sexes? Are men just more happy to send dick pics or are there some ladies out there that like showing off their bodies?
 

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There are plenty of women who like to Snapchat and show off.

I can’t speak for the other ladies here, I can only speak for myself. But I do know that a number of the ladies here are in happy monogamous relationships though and I just think many are too mature for that immature Snapchat shit.

Since acquiring a decent amount of self respect and knowing my self worth I’ve grown out of feeling like I need to send revealing pictures for attention. That’s not the type of attention I want. And even though I’m single, I have zero interest in dick pics or guys just sending me pics for a confidence boost.

I’m just not big on social media altogether anyway. And even if I’m texting a guy and he asks me for a revealing photo.... next.
 

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I hate Snapchat. I don’t talk to people to sext. I talk to people to get to know them. I don’t want the chat to disappear, I have a terrible memory. Chat to me on Snap on Monday, by Tuesday, I will have no idea who you are.

It’s cheap, pathetic and disposable. However, I do have Snap. It is used occasionally. But it is used for friends and stupid filters. Not random dick pics.
 

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Thanks for replies. Men are definitely different to women lol. (From my experience) obviously men think with their dicks mostly. Women are obviously more mature and looking for a different experience then just horny self gratification. I think for what I want (horny self gratification lol) I’ll stick to guys. :joy:
 
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There are plenty of women who like to Snapchat and show off.

I can’t speak for the other ladies here, I can only speak for myself. But I do know that a number of the ladies here are in happy monogamous relationships though and I just think many are too mature for that immature Snapchat shit.

Since acquiring a decent amount of self respect and knowing my self worth I’ve grown out of feeling like I need to send revealing pictures for attention. That’s not the type of attention I want. And even though I’m single, I have zero interest in dick pics or guys just sending me pics for a confidence boost.

I’m just not big on social media altogether anyway. And even if I’m texting a guy and he asks me for a revealing photo.... next.
It’s funny, I signed in today to delete my account. I agree with this sentiment - that posting/sharing images of yourself (and sending them to men/people we don’t know), is a really curious modern phenomena. Having spent a few months engaging in this way, really hasn’t added anything of value to my life, and this is on a site which has a lot more going on, than snapchat. I’m sure there are women who use snapchat in this way, but it depends on what their end game is. (I don’t think its likely to offer anything meaningful.)

Anyway, that’s it from me.
 

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Thanks for replies. Men are definitely different to women lol. (From my experience) obviously men think with their dicks mostly. Women are obviously more mature and looking for a different experience then just horny self gratification. I think for what I want (horny self gratification lol) I’ll stick to guys. :joy:
You can’t put all men and all women in a box. I know men who don’t do this. And I’m aware of women who do.

You do you, but don’t stereotype.
 

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Snapchat pics don’t disappear forever. I save them all the time. Mind you, they’re usually cute pics of my sister’s dog, but there’s no safety in sending pics through Snapchat.

Even when I have sent intimate pics to someone I “trust”, I’m pretty careful. I never show my face. And it’s been with someone I have a relationship with. Having done it in the past, I don’t know if I’d do it again, but I always say ‘never say never’. It’s just such a risky thing to do. Guys can be pretty vengeful. It’s certainly not something I’d do casually.
 

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Snapchat pics don’t disappear forever. I save them all the time. Mind you, they’re usually cute pics of my sister’s dog, but there’s no safety in sending pics through Snapchat.

Even when I have sent intimate pics to someone I “trust”, I’m pretty careful. I never show my face. And it’s been with someone I have a relationship with. Having done it in the past, I don’t know if I’d do it again, but I always say ‘never say never’. It’s just such a risky thing to do. Guys can be pretty vengeful. It’s certainly not something I’d do casually.
Yeah. All of this. Plus men are not treated the same way by society when nude photos crop up, unless they sent them to someone inappropriate.
 

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Yeah. All of this. Plus men are not treated the same way by society when nude photos crop up, unless they sent them to someone inappropriate.
Only once did a guy sending me a dick pic help me. He was stalking me online, threatening me, posted my real name and address, etc. and all the horrible things he was going to do to me when he found me.

Someone in the same forum knew him, and the site owner helped find him. He turned out to be a pastor in a church. He had vitiligo and the dick pic proved it was him. He lost his job, his marriage and he never bothered me again.
 

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Only once did a guy sending me a dick pic help me. He was stalking me online, threatening me, posted my real name and address, etc. and all the horrible things he was going to do to me when he found me.

Someone in the same forum knew him, and the site owner helped find him. He turned out to be a pastor in a church. He had vitiligo and the dick pic proved it was him. He lost his job, his marriage and he never bothered me again.
Holy cow! (No pun intended.) You've told this story before but it is still so shocking and creepy. I'm glad he got stopped. I'm grateful for your safety.
 

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Holy cow! (No pun intended.) You've told this story before but it is still so shocking and creepy. I'm glad he got stopped. I'm grateful for your safety.
I know. So gross. I was terrified. He was going to get the FBI on me, all kinds of weird threats. But coming to my house. That was the worst. I’m so much more careful now, I’m not listed anywhere now.
 

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I had snap when I had tinder. The boy toys love snap...but it was mostly to push dick pics and also to beg for lewds from me. I found these dudes only wanted to interact on there as jerk off fodder and never meet in person. They also wanted to snap every fucking day. It's annoying as fuck. Deleted snap real quick. Then I reloaded it and saw where dozens of dudes were still sending dick pics asking where I was. Soooooo many messages of the same garbage. Its impersonal and used for nudes. I dont care to see their nudes and I sure as hell dont send the nudes anymore to anyone so snap is useless to me.
 

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I know. So gross. I was terrified. He was going to get the FBI on me, all kinds of weird threats. But coming to my house. That was the worst. I’m so much more careful now, I’m not listed anywhere now.
When I was in my mid-20s and available for casual sex relationships, I tried dating apps for the first time. I made a really good match right away, so I was pretty enthisiastic about the medium. I had a process that I designed to keep myself safe.

Early on, this really charming, attractive dude found me, and I wanted to meet him, but he was kind of rushing me through my process, pressing me to meet quickly, and skip steps. I bent a little and agreed to meet right away, but I made THAT process more restrictive to make up for the skipped steps in the screening process.

My car was having transmission issues, so I didn't want to go into Westchester County. He wanted to take me to a really nice place in Yonkers or Heartsdale or someplace. I don't remember. I insisted on a nice place I knew in the Bronx. It was just as nice. Tablecloths. Great wine selection. Award winning food. A real brick oven you could see from the dining room. I could afford cab fare, I could walk the three miles, or I could catch a bus. But he kept insisting he wanted to drive me. I became suspicious that this was the real reason he kept picking places 10 and 15 miles away. He was trying to lure me into his car.

I had a lot of trouble getting a cab, so I began walking and looking for the bus. Halfway there, I flagged a cab and arrived at last. He had called repeatedly and said he wanted to come pick me up. I told him it was too soon to give him my address, or even let him know what route I'd be travelling. The last time he called asking to pick me up in his car I was getting into a cab. Four minutes later I arrived, but he wasn't there. I never heard from him again. I think if I had gotten into his car, nobody would have heard from me again either. Dudes are always dangerous until they aren't.
 

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When I was in my mid-20s and available for casual sex relationships, I tried datimg apps for the first time. I made a really good match right away, so I was pretty enthisiastic about the medium. I had a process that I designed to keep myself safe. Early on, this really charming, attractive dude found me, and I wanted to meet him, but he was kind of rushing me through my process, pressing me to meet quickly, and skip steps. I bent a little and agreed to meet right away, but I made THAT process more restrictive to make up for the skipped steps in the screening process. My car was having transmission issues, so I didn't want to go into Westchester County. He wanted to take mw to a really nice place in Yonkers or Heartsdale or someplace. I don't remember. I insisted on a nice place I knew in the Bronx. It was just as nice. Tablecloths. Great wine selection. Award winning food. A real brick oven you could see from the dining room. I could afford cab fare, I could walk the three miles, or I could catch a bus. But he kept insisting he wanted to drive me. I became suspicious that this was the real reason he kept picking places 10 and 15 miles away. He was trying to lure me into his car. I had a lot of trouble getting a cab, so I began walking and looking for the bus. Halfway there, I flagged a cab and arrived at last. He had called repeatedly and said he wanted to come pick me up. I told him it was too soon to give him my address, or even let him know what route I'd be travelling. The last time he called asking to pick me up in his car I was getting into a cab. Four minutes later I arrived, but he wasn't there. I never heard from him again. I think if I had gotten into his car, nobody would have heard from me again either. Dudes are always dangerous until they aren't.
Isn’t that the truth. I got in the car with a guy once after a party, he drove me out in the middle of nowhere. To this day I have no idea how I got out of that situation. I knew I was in danger, but somehow I talked my way out of it and he drove me back to the city.
 

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Isn’t that the truth. I got in the car with a guy once after a party, he drove me out in the middle of nowhere. To this day I have no idea how I got out of that situation. I knew I was in danger, but somehow I talked my way out of it and he drove me back to the city.

I had to physically kick a man out of my Chevy Blazer years ago. I'm seriously lucky he was about my weight, if he had been heavier than me I wouldn't have been able to push him out of the vehicle.

He was trying to hold me down and remove my clothes. We were supposed to just be smoking a joint. It was the first time we hung out together outside of where I worked. I made a mistake letting him in my car, obviously.

I socked him in the face, and as he was somewhat stunned I made a move for his door handle and shoved him onto the pavement and threw it in drive.

I never, Ever let an acquaintance in my vehicle again.

As for Snapchat, I just think it's stupid. I hear "Snapchat" and I think of people who aren't allowed to join here. Ya know?
 

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Isn’t that the truth. I got in the car with a guy once after a party, he drove me out in the middle of nowhere. To this day I have no idea how I got out of that situation. I knew I was in danger, but somehow I talked my way out of it and he drove me back to the city.
This is that stuff my mother warned me about. That's why she gave me the giant laundry pin. And that's why I didn't hesitate to use it when I was getting kidnapped. I don't know what I would have done if He had not stopped the car. That was when I was at my fattest, most out of shape. I do not know how I found the lungs to run all the way back to safety. I went right to work, and I do not know how I did that either.
 

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I have too many digital vices already. I don't need another where I'm pestered mercilessly for pics.

At some point I think you do outgrow some things. Thankfully, I never grew into Snapchat.

But I do have a cute pic that my daughter made of me with it! So I guess the pictures never really go away, do they?

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