Correct. Of the five showers along the room my gym would have been better doing a cubicle either side of three open ones rather than five cubicles. It’s an all men OG “institution” in town - more of a gentlemen’s club than a gym. Everyone knows each other - so some of the legends who have been members for years jam the doors open to allow the conversation to continue with those outside. It faces two plunge pools - one an ice bath and the steam and saunas where all but the young new members are new. There’s also no door between that and the gym. I have never been in a gym with less of a gay vibe. But it’s good fun with all the old timers who all seem to have dozens of hilarious stories. The problem has been keeping it going with a younger crew - they are slowing joining up. Some of them are sons of the dads and all the young blokes once they get used to it say that, while on paper a men Only gym would not be on their list, the banter and friendship is so good the place becomes a favorite.
I suspect the decision to build in the gang shower was a reaction to the fear that the young-wouldn’t join. They are still not joining in huge numbers.
so a mistake all round. If you are correct that young blokes get used to it and enjoy it. It’s certainly good for body image and bonding with other men in friendship.
as I said, I have never experienced or witnessed anything remotely sexual. But the communal nudity is definitely a feature of the change- sauna-pool-shower area and part of the magic of the place.
and this I say as a man who is more than happy to “dabble” if something sexual is on offer. I actually prefer this gym because there is nothing sexual. The friendship and chat is more important to me.
