How common do bisexual men find fem boys attractive?

[jmh1029]

Heyy, i am 20 years old, and i am a pretty feminine guy, gay as well. Average physique, not particularly super skinny, but i have a normal body, and soft facial features.

for some reason, most of the guys that have shown interest for me or have expressed to find me attractive, happen to be bisexual. Like they ALL have been bi or guys saying they were “straight” but found me cute. Funny story, one guy said he loved my hands and felt aroused when i softly scratched his skin with my nails (cause i wear them long). And i was like o_o ok?

so, do bisexual men commonly find feminine boys attractive? Because for my experience at least it would seem like it. So i thought this could be the perf place to ask this. Im just very curious.

PS: i also do crossdressing ocassionally. I believe alot of bi men like that too? Tell me if im wrong pls

 

[daftman]

I think it varies. I am bi, and like smooth bodies...and find myself more interested in trans too. Main point: for me, a smooth body is everything!

 

[Swordmonkey]

PS: i also do crossdressing ocassionally. I believe alot of bi men like that too? Tell me if im wrong pls

Both of these apply to me but I'm sure there are plenty of bi guys that it doesn't apply to.

 

[halcyondays]

The first two guys I fucked were effeminate bottoms. Cute as fuck and hot in bed. The first came after me and invited me to his room. The second was a college classmate I asked for a date. In public he dressed fem but crossdressed in private at home. He identified as female. The first didn't.

Yes I love fem boi twinks. When I bring a girl home and discover she has a cock it has never stopped me. No Crying Game moments for me, lol.

I can't speak for all bi men but I like smooth and youth but am not limited to fem twinks. I've been with many non-fem gay and bi men as well.

 

[deleted5199391]

I've been only once with a feminine guy. I knew he was gay and he knew I was bi. He liked me (not so much to say he loved me), but we were just friend.
I really like him as friend, so we often hang out.
One night, after dancing, partying and drinking all night, we brought home the girls that were with us and went at his place.
Suddenly I could feel anything from him. His scent, the body warmth, and I litterally felt like I was a wolf and he was something I wanted to take.
I asked if he wanted to have sex, and he said yes. He looked excited like me but on a opposite role. He made me do everything and was also a bit shaking.
I fucked him for long, tbh I can be proud of my performance lol.
We slept togheter and did again before lunch next day.
I never acted like that with masculine men.
We had just occasional sex sometimes but was very good.

 

[bigboaster]

Just from my anecdotal experience, it seems pretty common? Bi and pan guys tend to seem attracted to twinks, fembois or otherwise androgynous men fairly often, I've seen this in real life (and also in porn too tbh lol)

I think it comes down to a lot of bi guys being attracted to "feminine energy" in general (regardless of gender). I am certainly an outlier in this regard. I guess I lean more toward more masculine guys and very feminine girls. But I am not opposed to some studs (masculine lesbians) or fembois. It just depends on the person really.

 

[MoBiGuy]

For me, my attraction to fembois is that they do seem to have a more feminine energy to them. Plus they also seem to be more likely to be bottoms and I find that attractive. Also I have a lingerie fetish and think that fembois look a lot better in it than a more manly man. I haven't had sex with another man, but my favorite fantasy about it is to have a femboi wearing a garter belt and stockings on his back with his hard cock bouncing around while I am fucking him.

 

[johnweek1]

I like guys that are smooth and hung. Twinks are a super turn on. I am not into fem boys per say, but I like men with more effeminate appearances, not necessarily cross-dressing men or men that wear clothing outside of the gender norms. Although this is not an absolute. Some men with nail polish that is like dark purple, dark blue, or black can be hot af if they can rock the look.

More masculine, big/hairy men do not do it for me. Gimme more of the Orlando Blooms, Tom Cruises, Johnny Deps, and Timothee Chalamets. Not so much into more manly looking men like Chris Hemsworth, Chris Evans, Jason Momoa, or the Rock. I also prefer their personality to be more effeminate as well. Love me a hung, sweet, geeky boy.

To me, this an example of prime male hotness, both in appearance and personality:<3 Gabriel from Cobra Kai!

 

[dickthrobbing]

I have meet a few Fem guys but they are not my thing, now a TS that's whole different thing

 

[AndrewMarks]

I guess I'm the odd one out here. I love big masculine hairy guys. I've been with feminine men and it has sometimes been hot, but it's not what I look for.

 

[bi2]

I think it varies. I am bi, and like smooth bodies...and find myself more interested in trans too. Main point: for me, a smooth body is everything!

My first partner was an older, hairy, heavy-set bear, he enjoyed the fact that I was younger, smooth and feminine in appearance as he had gone through a bad seperation with his wife. The fact that he would want me to wear bikini bottoms and ankle bracelets further emphasized this. While he did condition me to be more feminine, I enjoy the role and always made sure I was smooth and clean for our encounters.

He was very much a strong dominant alpha male so naturally I found that attractive as much as he found me attractive.

 

[daftman]

As I have said elsewhere - were I single, which I am not a do not expect to be....I would head to Miami, shave the rest of my legs, pierce my nipples and enjoy!

 

[BigAl9]

Yes I am bisexual. I am not attracted to effeminate twinks. My choice is an atheletic or bear type with body hair. I might say the more the better. I am also drawn to men with average to larger than average endownment. I also prefer a man 30 or older.

 

[Hardright]

So I'm attracted to athletic, muscular, masculine men and feminine women. I like muscle girls too.

Not to be offensive, but effeminate men just don't do it for me. Now a hot, at least semi passable, "chick-with-a-dick"? Yeah, I could definitely go for that. It makes me feel a little cringe, and fetishist to say it like that though TBH.

 

[MIles Rockwell]

It's a matter of personal taste.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

i enjoy feminine guys more fun to be with than masculine --guys that try to act manly and all are to busy trying to hide the fact they are gay as to where a fem guy isnt---either way it goes i would want the guy i am with masculine or feminine to be who they are and dont change--

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

Heyy, i am 20 years old, and i am a pretty feminine guy, gay as well. Average physique, not particularly super skinny, but i have a normal body, and soft facial features.

for some reason, most of the guys that have shown interest for me or have expressed to find me attractive, happen to be bisexual. Like they ALL have been bi or guys saying they were “straight” but found me cute. Funny story, one guy said he loved my hands and felt aroused when i softly scratched his skin with my nails (cause i wear them long). And i was like o_o ok?

so, do bisexual men commonly find feminine boys attractive? Because for my experience at least it would seem like it. So i thought this could be the perf place to ask this. Im just very curious.

PS: i also do crossdressing ocassionally. I believe alot of bi men like that too? Tell me if im wrong pls

i dated a crossdresser for a year--- but he was a versatile guy and he wants to fuck a guy with his girl clothes on--i said ok--so we did it and i told him thats what a relationship is for is to love each other and make each other happy----sure it was wierd at first but grew to like the fact a man dressed as a woman was fucking me
i am totally gay and find nothing wrong with fem guys--my first actual boyfriend was nerdy and very feminine and he kept on saying how could i love him the way he is and i told him i love him for who he is and wouldnt change him for the world

but if you are wanting a gay man to love you and not a bisexual one--trust me theres guys out there gay and love feminine guys like you---if ever wanna chat pm me and we can chat openly there

 

[bi2]

i enjoy feminine guys more fun to be with than masculine --guys that try to act manly and all are to busy trying to hide the fact they are gay as to where a fem guy isnt---either way it goes i would want the guy i am with masculine or feminine to be who they are and dont change--

Loved your post.

Its interesting, outside of sex I am very masculine and straight acting. With my partner during sex however, I do become very feminine and girly, which he likes. Interestingly my partner does like to act very manly and hide the fact that he is bi. I have no issue with that what so ever. We come together only for sex, then go about our seperate lives afterwards.

For me personally, Im totally accepting of this and actually enjoy this. I like that he is aggresive, rough and asserts his dominance and control over me. To some extent it really is just role playing, in me channeling his inner alpha male side. We both enjoy our sex life and are consenting, so I think it is each to their own. Sure at times he pushes the boundaries with his strength and control over me, but I propagate that by being overtly feminine during sex with him.

Outside of sex though there isnt really much of contact or relationship but thats what we both want, however he is always polite, respectful and considerate in any communication we have. Definitely treats me as an equal, if anything he knows that I have the power in controlling the times we do hook up every few weeks when he has the urge, but almost always I enjoyed being fucked, so its rather pointless for me to abuse that control or to even consider it for that matter.

 

[jaybee0560]

I guess I'm the odd one out here. I love big masculine hairy guys. I've been with feminine men and it has sometimes been hot, but it's not what I look for.

Same here - bi, but what attracts me to a man is not what attracts me to a women .. Its not set in stone and i have been with a couple of femme lads .. but its not a turn on for me and I usually avoid. For women, I am only really attracted to particularly feminine/ slight women. Not attracted to xdressers in any way shape or form, I have no personal feeling about any of the above, it just doesn't flick my nipple nuts

 

[bigboaster]

Same here - bi, but what attracts me to a man is not what attracts me to a women .. Its not set in stone and i have been with a couple of femme lads .. but its not a turn on for me and I usually avoid. For women, I am only really attracted to particularly feminine/ slight women. Not attracted to xdressers in any way shape or form, I have no personal feeling about any of the above, it just doesn't flick my nipple nuts

Kinda same. I am not necessarily turned off by fem guys (or even tomboys) but my preference is absolutely more masculine guys and feminine girls.