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Something that struck me recently when browsing a few sites (A4A and Sniffies), it looks like 80% bottoms. For the first time today I felt a bit competitive, like I had to prove myself to stand out.

Anyone else feel this way. I'm pretty laid back, and not pushy in 'life', maybe why I rarely have a chance to play....
 
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One word! Vicious!

It’s a dog eat dog world out there for gay bottoms.

For every “1” top, there are 10 hungry bottoms out there competing for his cock. So, a top can be very picky! Some bottoms are even willing to go down the plastic surgery path to get implants, fat injections and fillers to get a bigger ass, all hoping to attract a top’s attention.

The situation is only going to get worse!. Very soon, not only do all gay bottoms expect to have a double 44D size ass, they have to be able to do splits at a drop of the top’s pants. And douche their asshole with infused essential mineral oil + activated water. And must be able to create a vacuum suction with their asshole that can hold up a bowling ball for 1 whole damn minute. The top ain’t fucking no loose ass lips.

Gone are the days where shooting a ping-pong ball out of your ass was an ancient art performed by very talented Asian twinks. Now, every other gay bottoms can fill in for a tennis ball machine.

I miss the good old days where gay bottoms win the top’s cock via trial by combat! Good times! A time where there were only 3 kind of tops, Alpha, Beta and Gamma. Now, I don’t even know if that’s a cis-top, a cissy-top or a muffin-top.

Sometimes, i’m almost in tears knowing that my old saggy ass could never compete with the younger bottoms with their killer body + modern cock sucking techniques.

That aside, don’t be discouraged that you can’t land yourself a top. 2021 is the year of the Ox, so grab the bull by the horns like you were holding a cock in each hand and put the odds back into your own hands. Master the Lesbian art of hot sizzling scissoring and you’ll free yourself from the need of a top. Why need a top when you can just scissor your way to Rome with a sea of bottoms?
 

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One word! Vicious!

It’s a dog eat dog world out there for gay bottoms.

For every “1” top, there are 10 hungry bottoms out there competing for his cock. So, a top can be very picky! Some bottoms are even willing to go down the plastic surgery path to get implants, fat injections and fillers to get a bigger ass, all hoping to attract a top’s attention.

The situation is only going to get worse!. Very soon, not only do all gay bottoms expect to have a double 44D size ass, they have to be able to do splits at a drop of the top’s pants. And douche their asshole with infused essential mineral oil + activated water. And must be able to create a vacuum suction with their asshole that can hold up a bowling ball for 1 whole damn minute. The top ain’t fucking no loose ass lips.

Gone are the days where shooting a ping-pong ball out of your ass was an ancient art performed by very talented Asian twinks. Now, every other gay bottoms can fill in for a tennis ball machine.

I miss the good old days where gay bottoms win the top’s cock via trial by combat! Good times! A time where there were only 3 kind of tops, Alpha, Beta and Gamma. Now, I don’t even know if that’s a cis-top, a cissy-top or a muffin-top.

Sometimes, i’m almost in tears knowing that my old saggy ass could never compete with the younger bottoms with their killer body + modern cock sucking techniques.

That aside, don’t be discouraged that you can’t land yourself a top. 2021 is the year of the Ox, so grab the bull by the horns like you were holding a cock in each hand and put the odds back into your own hands. Master the Lesbian art of hot sizzling scissoring and you’ll free yourself from the need of a top. Why need a top when you can just scissor your way to Rome with a sea of bottoms?

What?
 

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One word! Vicious!

It’s a dog eat dog world out there for gay bottoms.

For every “1” top, there are 10 hungry bottoms out there competing for his cock. So, a top can be very picky! Some bottoms are even willing to go down the plastic surgery path to get implants, fat injections and fillers to get a bigger ass, all hoping to attract a top’s attention.

The situation is only going to get worse!. Very soon, not only do all gay bottoms expect to have a double 44D size ass, they have to be able to do splits at a drop of the top’s pants. And douche their asshole with infused essential mineral oil + activated water. And must be able to create a vacuum suction with their asshole that can hold up a bowling ball for 1 whole damn minute. The top ain’t fucking no loose ass lips.

Gone are the days where shooting a ping-pong ball out of your ass was an ancient art performed by very talented Asian twinks. Now, every other gay bottoms can fill in for a tennis ball machine.

I miss the good old days where gay bottoms win the top’s cock via trial by combat! Good times! A time where there were only 3 kind of tops, Alpha, Beta and Gamma. Now, I don’t even know if that’s a cis-top, a cissy-top or a muffin-top.

Sometimes, i’m almost in tears knowing that my old saggy ass could never compete with the younger bottoms with their killer body + modern cock sucking techniques.

That aside, don’t be discouraged that you can’t land yourself a top. 2021 is the year of the Ox, so grab the bull by the horns like you were holding a cock in each hand and put the odds back into your own hands. Master the Lesbian art of hot sizzling scissoring and you’ll free yourself from the need of a top. Why need a top when you can just scissor your way to Rome with a sea of bottoms?
Like the way you think but yes bottoms are being squeezed out of the market by suction pumps and automated cock sucking devices so nowadays tops can get satisfaction at the click of a switch with no fear of picking up a turd scrape. And who wants to hang about while a bottom spends so much preparation time making sure their assholes are perfectly presented without a drop of sweat or fear of a fart not to mention buttocks smooth and soft and creamy every time with hopefully the top not even realising the true use of the orifice they are being invited to fuck. Personally I prefer spur of the moment fucking along with body sweat/perspiration and lust, using bodies to perform without complicated time consuming cock wilting waiting - when my plane comes in to land I want to hone right in on the landing strip and get in the hanger. If nothings on offer get naked, lie back and think of heaven as the electric purrs away giving perfect satisfaction every time
 

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I remember reading an article stating a study found that about a quarter of 500 gay men surveyed claimed to be tops, a quarter bottoms and about half were verse. They then asked the verse guys to recount recent sexual activity and found that only half of those were truly verse while the others only bottomed.

So basically as a top you have 50-75% chance of finding a hole that wants fucking, whereas a bottom has somewhere between 25-50% of finding a cock to fill theirs.
 
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I remember reading an article stating a study found that about a quarter of 500 gay men surveyed claimed to be tops, a quarter bottoms and about half were verse. They then asked the verse guys to recount recent sexual activity and found that only half of those were truly verse while the others only bottomed.

So basically as a top you have 50-75% chance of finding a hole that wants fucking, whereas a bottom has somewhere between 25-50% of finding a cock to fill theirs.
The problem with surveys is the answers are always given with the best intentions but often slanted towards the answers required. Plus there us a perception that if you're a top you're macho macho and so what guys doesnt like being thought of as macho?
 

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The problem with surveys is the answers are always given with the best intentions but often slanted towards the answers required. Plus there us a perception that if you're a top you're macho macho and so what guys doesnt like being thought of as macho?

I think that's why they asked the activities of the verse guys. It showed at least half of them were essentially bottoms. So assuming a large percentage of the top functioning verse guys and tops could be lying, the number of guys who actively top is closer to 25% or possibly less.
 

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I remember when I used to go to the adult bookstore most days. There were a group of regulars who would be there. For the most part, I am guessing only about 25% of them were into anal sex. Most of them were older (to very much older) married (to a woman) guys that considered themselves to be straight or bi. I think they were just looking for married couples (which were very rare) or somebody to suck.

They would get vicious when a hot guy would walk into the bookstore. It became a game. Everybody had their spots, most would pick a spot near one of the gloryhole booths. If the hot guy went into a booth, they would all fight over getting into the booth on the other side of the gloryhole. I've actually had guys who were 60 to 70 years old, push me out of the way so they could get into a booth. Once you got into the booth, they would stand outside the door, keep trying the door to see if you would unlock for them to join. Each time they would walk by, they would knock on the door, being annoying. They would try to peek through the door cracks or any holes in the walls. I've even caught them laying on the floor trying to look under the walls (the walls began about 4" off the floor).

Sometimes to just have a few minutes to myself, I would go into a booth that was empty on the other side. And a few seconds later, one of them would come into the other booth. I have had many of them grab my dick and/or balls, it didn't matter if I was naked or fully clothed. I had one guy do it 3 times in one day. I finally told him to leave me alone. 5 minutes later, he did it again. This time I grabbed his arm and pulled as hard as I could. His face hit the wall pretty hard and then I pushed his arm all the way down against the bottom of the gloryhole. I then bent over and told him to leave me the fuck alone or next time I would break his arm. He never bothered me again.

I was friendly to most of the regulars. But those few who were so obnoxious, I don't miss them at all.
 
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I go between San Diego and LA, sometimes into OP's territory. I'm mostly a top. All I'll say is that for the first two cities it often feels like there's 50 bottoms for each 1 top. Make sense? In OP's territory, it's mostly college aged kids wanting to get fucked.
 
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I remember when I used to go to the adult bookstore most days. There were a group of regulars who would be there. For the most part, I am guessing only about 25% of them were into anal sex. Most of them were older (to very much older) married (to a woman) guys that considered themselves to be straight or bi. I think they were just looking for married couples (which were very rare) or somebody to suck.

They would get vicious when a hot guy would walk into the bookstore. It became a game. Everybody had their spots, most would pick a spot near one of the gloryhole booths. If the hot guy went into a booth, they would all fight over getting into the booth on the other side of the gloryhole. I've actually had guys who were 60 to 70 years old, push me out of the way so they could get into a booth. Once you got into the booth, they would stand outside the door, keep trying the door to see if you would unlock for them to join. Each time they would walk by, they would knock on the door, being annoying. They would try to peek through the door cracks or any holes in the walls. I've even caught them laying on the floor trying to look under the walls (the walls began about 4" off the floor).

Sometimes to just have a few minutes to myself, I would go into a booth that was empty on the other side. And a few seconds later, one of them would come into the other booth. I have had many of them grab my dick and/or balls, it didn't matter if I was naked or fully clothed. I had one guy do it 3 times in one day. I finally told him to leave me alone. 5 minutes later, he did it again. This time I grabbed his arm and pulled as hard as I could. His face hit the wall pretty hard and then I pushed his arm all the way down against the bottom of the gloryhole. I then bent over and told him to leave me the fuck alone or next time I would break his arm. He never bothered me again.

I was friendly to most of the regulars. But those few who were so obnoxious, I don't miss them at all.

It's still like this, though maybe not as hectic since most places have removed the private booths. There's a local place where the owner/staff are friendly and permissive, but the booths are all open. Have only been there a few times, but it's a constant stream of bottoms parading around, waiting for someone to allow them to get on their knees. I've also been to other places in the past where they suck the energy out of the room with their lack of composure...
 

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It's still like this, though maybe not as hectic since most places have removed the private booths. There's a local place where the owner/staff are friendly and permissive, but the booths are all open. Have only been there a few times, but it's a constant stream of bottoms parading around, waiting for someone to allow them to get on their knees. I've also been to other places in the past where they suck the energy out of the room with their lack of composure...
UGH! I guess it is the same everywhere. :(