Sometimes when I go take a piss, my junk looks really small to me. I'm guessing this is me being 100% flaccid or having shrinkage. Other times it hangs nice and meaty however, like a pretty respectable size which I would feel comfortable with in a lockerroom, or having it buldge out of my boxers, etc. What causes these different changes in flaccid size? I've noticed that if I'm taking a shower, even if the water is not hot (as long as it's not freezing) it'll hang "meaty", but once I get out and put on my boxer-briefs, my dick almost forms to the same shape as the underwear (basically gets small and pressed against my balls). The weird thing is that althoguh it's still flaccid, it does not feel soft, it's almost like hard and retracted. It feels its softest where it's somewhere between that stage and "meaty". But back to the 100% flaccid thing--am I really just totally flaccid or am I getting shrinkage or what? Again, it's not very soft and floppy, it's kind of hard and somewhat uncomfortable feeling. Does this happen to anyone else (on a constant basis)? Or are you generally "floppy"/"meaty"/etc.? Is this exactly what seperates showers from growers?