You are right Christine. Really I was just trying to reroute the posts toward helpful criticism on my looks, because a bunch of people had decided to jump on my spelling .. meh
Two things going on here
If I said you were cute, I mean you are cute for your age. You are still very young looking and have potential to grow into a handsome man. Now to ask me what men mean when they call you cute...your guess is as good as mine. I can't even begin to explain what is inside a man's thought.
Second, using language such as "iz" sounds like you are talking to young teenage girls and not women. If you treat a woman like a little girl, you may just get told. I think that is what happened here. You are asking women a question, use adult language.