How did gay porn change your life?

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I am very curious to know about the experiences of other gay - and maybe also bisexual - how gay pornography have changed your life. In the meantime porn is everywhere, but in my youth and the early days after my coming out - in the 1980s - consisted of magazines that you bought and videos that you borrowed.

Of course there was also straight pornography, but I believe that for gay men the importance of porn was much bigger. I grew up in the Netherlands which at the time was probably the most gay friendly in Europe. Nevertheless it was hard to accept yourself as being gay. And gay pornography played an important role for that.

But it was not just a question of self-acceptance. From gay porn I learned how to have sex, it influenced the clothes I wore and the kind of life I led. I am curious to hear about the experiences of other gay and bisexual men.
 
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Although I didn't live in the USA American magazines played an important role for me. There was Dutch gay magazine too, but they were rather sleazy, whereas the glossy American magazines reminded rather of Playboy or Penthouse. First I discovered Playgirl. It was a little bit a Playboy for women with pictures of sexy men, but of course I was very interesting for gay men!

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Then there was Blueboy. I remember that I read about it in the newspaper when it was founded first. A kind of Playboy magazine for gay men! I was very glad when I discovered that there was a magazine in the The Hague - the American Discount - that sold all kind of American magazines. Including Blueboy.

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The models in Blueboy were often boyish and rather young. Very soon my favourite magazine became Mandate.

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Something I learned from the gay magazines was what a jockstrap is. For guys who are grown in the USA it might be something normal, but in Europe at the time it was completely unknown. This is the very first photo of a man in a jockstrap that I had every seen. It looked so weird but it was so exciting! His cock is covered with textile, but on the back he has only got straps. And his asshole is completely visible. And then the combination with his sneakers and socks.

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I was every excited when I got my first ever jockstrap. Bike Nr. 10 and of course white! In Europe only gay men wore jockstraps, but it was part of a classic gay wardrobe! This is me in my first ever jockstrap!

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This is the Dutch actor Albert Mol. As far as I know he was the first open gay person in the Netherlands. He was very effeminate but at the same time funny. Probably gay men in the Netherlands owed a lot to him, but I think most wanted to be like him.

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However, there was another person who was very important for gay liberation in the Netherlands: the author Gerard Reve. When I was in high school he was considered one of the three great men in Dutch literature together with Harry Muhlisch and Willem Frederik Hermans. Reve had a very special kind of humor but he wrote very open about gay sex, very often with a sado-masochistic component. He was a bit weird, but when I see his old pictures he was quite a sexy man. Gerard_Reve_1969-crop.jpg
 

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I suspect the ease of seeing gay porn since the advent of the internet has positively affected society’s view of gay sex and gay men in general. If you describe gay sex to a straight person it can seem icky and gross. When you see two cute guys having fun, wrestling around and getting each other off, it’s much less weird and alienating.

I remember watching the sex scene in Brokeback Mountain in a movie theater where several people walked out. Even I, who had been having anal sex with guys for years, found it uncomfortable to watch. I think that’s what most straight people assume gay sex is like, i.e., painful and a bit shameful. Gay porn shows people that mansex can also be fun. And has encouraged a lot more curious guys to experiment by making it less scary.
 

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I remember watching gay porn the first time. It was these two guys going at it on a beach in the surf.

And I quickly realized that they had no idea what they were doing. It was probably gay for pay....LOL.
 

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Before consuming much gay porn, I didn't really see how I fitted into the gay community. It made coming to terms with my sexuality difficult.

In the general community, gay men are often portrayed as just a woman trapped in a man's body. While there is nothing wrong with being a man with a strong feminine energy, I strongly identified as male and was attracted to masculine men.

Gay porn gave me great comfort in knowing that there are lots of different kinds of gay men and that there were other gay men who were exactly like I was.
 

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The first gay porn I saw was a week after my first experience with a man- I didn't know much about gay sex and was suprised to see guys rimming in the video before fucking, why would you do that, wasn't it dirty, didn't it smell? Did it hurt?
I asked and half an hour later I was on the bed, legs spread while Stan gently washed my hole with a facecloth before showing me exactly why guys would do something like that- I was a puddle after 15 minutes and he kept it up for another 5 minutes before he popped my cock into his mouth. I came instantly, and after a while I realised he was slowly finger fucking my tight hole. I looked at him and he seemed to read my mind, telling me I was too tight to fuck today- but he would help me with that...
I guess the porn opened my mind to the possibilities that what I knew about wasn't everything, and I already wanted to know more.
 

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The first gay porn I saw was a week after my first experience with a man- I didn't know much about gay sex and was suprised to see guys rimming in the video before fucking, why would you do that, wasn't it dirty, didn't it smell? Did it hurt?
That sounds familiar to me! I remember to have seen a picture where a man sticks his tongue into an an other guys hole. I wish I could find that photo again! And of course it is hard to believe that men do it. But later when guys had rimmed my ass I realized how great it feels.

Later I met a very hot blond bisexual guy. He had a wife and children and a very sexy ass. I kissed his butt and licked his ass crack and his hole over and over again. It and it was exciting to turn him just with my tongue and his ass. Nobody had ever done that to him and he loved it!
 

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One of the things that I have certainly learned from gay porn was to use condoms to fuck. When AIDS came up it was advised, but it seemed very strange to me. Condoms were used by straight couple as anticonception. But it was through the gay porn videos that it was realized to be normal to put on a condom. It was normally not shown how they put on their cocks, but the fucking was safe.

Here is a great scene from a great scene where top Tom Chase fucks blond bottom Kevin Williams with a condom. So good to say that you can have safe sex and still get fucked!

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Or another favourite bottom of mine Brian Hansen getting fucked by Brad Patton.

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Johnny Rapid gets raped in prison. It looks a bit funny that the rapists put on condoms, but it is a good message for safe sex!

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Prison whore Johnny gets fucked by two cocks at once. But the nice rapist put on condoms!

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Another thing that I learned from gay porn is intimate shaving. Actually it was my first boy friend who had the idea to shave our balls and asses. At first it was a bit weird, but especially when you rim a hole it is so nice when it is completely smooth. One of the most popular bottoms was blond Danny Sommers. So hot when he shows his shaved fuck. At the time all gays that I knew when to the nudist beach so tan lines were uncommon. But I have to say that they look hot on Danny's butt!

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It is interesting that even hairy chested models like Steve Kelso took care that their butts and balls were shaved. And it looks hot!

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Such a wonderful look on Steve's hole! It was exciting that in Colt Magazine very masculine models spread their fuck holes!

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Another thing that I learned from gay porn is the idea of a threesome. You grow up with the idea that love and sex is something between two people: a man and a woman, and once you have accepted that you are gay also two men. But three men?!

If any director has convinced that there is nothing hotter than a threesome it would be Kristen Bjorn. I always had the feeling that two hot men was not enough for him. And since I have seen those videos I became one of my biggest phantasies to have threesome. I had a couple of them. Some were not that great but others were terrific. And I think it is one of the great things to be gay to have sex with more than one guy!

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As a kid I wasn't very much into trade marks. However, it was through gay porn that some names got a a special dimension. One of them was Timberland.
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They looked so masculine! But it was really through gay videos that I developed a fetish for them. It was so cool to see those muscular men who were naked but kept on wearing socks and Timberland boots. It was so exciting when I bought my first pair.

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Maybe even hotter was the combination with a WHITE jockstrap!

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It thought it was so cool to fuck with your boots on. Complete naked but still wearing socks and boots. I have done a couple of times and I was a great feeling. However normally the second fucking round was in bed without socks and boots.

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Although I have done a lot of stuff I have never done fisting. I am not that keen on most fisting videos either. But I have to say these photos look very hot. The fister keeps his cock in his white jockstrap and the fistee keeps on wearing his white sockes and Timberland boots.

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Really interesting topic. Thanks for sharing your experience. I too had some my earliest experience with gay porn in the mid 80’s looking at Playgirl. Then in the 90’s, the magazine XY. View attachment 109506101

XY Magazine! I had every issue, even the recent ones. Too bad they never got their act together to really continue their mission. I thought it was a great resource, especially for the younger guys. The earlier issues were much better than the later ones, but definitely would have helped me if I was a teen at the time it came out.