How did gay porn change your life?

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About the time I was learning about rimming, I was in the local independant video store and thought I would check out the adult section- behind a curtain, in a smoko room/ kitchenette area. Previously it was always MF tapes, but there was a MMF tape that day and I took it to the counter with my card. The guy at the counter gave me a serious look and asked for my ID, and after looking at it for some time told me there were some others I might like. I must have shown interest because he passed me a key and the tape, telling me to see what else I liked in the room adjoining the smoko room.
There were many tapes, some cased and others with catalogue numbers only and as I looked through I found they were all gay videos. I picked out a few about rimming that looked interesting, feeling a mixture of shame and excitement as I took them to the counter. The guy casually mentioned one of them was very good, put the MMF tape aside and told me to have them back in two days...
 
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Gay porn made me look at things differently.Yep I found out different ways to fuck and get fucked which was fun, sucking cock was easy and rimming opened up new experiences. Even found I liked a few oddball things like cock rings, pierced nipples and jock straps - the joys of frotting in silky shorts.
The biggest thing I took away from thing porn is that it's not like real life, not like real sex and to expect sex sessions like some I've seen would be impossible, and often looks like they are spaced out of their minds in any case.
 

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When you are young and all the people around you are straight (as far as you know), it can feel like you are all alone and forced to carry this secret burden that could never be spoken about.

I posted earlier that porn can show how you fit in to the gay community, but more generally and probably more importantly it showed me that I wasn't the only one with these desires and gave me hope that there's a place for me in the world outside of the bubble that I had grown up in.
 

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Can not really say gay porn changed my life. I 1st realized by BI side well before porn of any kind was available to me. There was no internet yet (the 60's is when I started) and I did not even know there was porn out there, I guess I was pretty naïve. I can say that it reinforced my desires because I realized that I was not strange or unique.
 

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Gay porn and Cialis.. what a combination. Any guy who has used Cialis knows what it can do for you sexually. For me it made sensations in my penis out of the universe. So, coupled with gay porn, the result for me has been an addicted edger. The pleasure sensations are so great that I abstain from cumming at all costs and so intense that it is actually loss to cum, believe it or not. I rarely get off and that's not good. Very real though, and in a sense, can be very enjoyable.
 
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Gay porn and Cialis.. what a combination. Any guy who has used Cialis knows what it can do for you sexually. For me it made sensations in my penis out of the universe. So, coupled with gay porn, the result for me has been an addicted edger. The pleasure sensations are so great that I abstain from cumming at all costs and so intense that it is actually loss to cum, believe it or not. I rarely get off and that's not good. Very real though, and in a sense, can be very enjoyable.
Can you please type the name of the medic (the cialis) thanks
 

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I don't think I should post the medic's name on here, sorry. He is in the US anyway. Ask any doctor, if they think you qualify for Cialis, it's not hard to get.
Oh ok, didnt know it’s a secret :D
I have one already but i thought maybe a better brand could be better but yeah thanks anyway
 

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Oh ok, didnt know it’s a secret :D
I have one already but i thought maybe a better brand could be better but yeah thanks anyway
Oh man, sorry.. when you said the (medic) I thought you meant the Dr.'s name, lol. The pill itself is just the generic form of Cialis and it is called Tadalifil. I don't know the manufacturer, but I know my pharmacy has used several different generic brands and they all work well. Should not be hard to acquire.
 
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Hi guys

I am very curious to know about the experiences of other gay - and maybe also bisexual - how gay pornography have changed your life. In the meantime porn is everywhere, but in my youth and the early days after my coming out - in the 1980s - consisted of magazines that you bought and videos that you borrowed.

Of course there was also straight pornography, but I believe that for gay men the importance of porn was much bigger. I grew up in the Netherlands which at the time was probably the most gay friendly in Europe. Nevertheless it was hard to accept yourself as being gay. And gay pornography played an important role for that.

But it was not just a question of self-acceptance. From gay porn I learned how to have sex, it influenced the clothes I wore and the kind of life I led. I am curious to hear about the experiences of other gay and bisexual men.
Can’t say it did , I am 64 and knew at a young age I had an thing for boys long before finding porn
 
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Oh man, sorry.. when you said the (medic) I thought you meant the Dr.'s name, lol. The pill itself is just the generic form of Cialis and it is called Tadalifil. I don't know the manufacturer, but I know my pharmacy has used several different generic brands and they all work well. Should not be hard to acquire.
Thank you so much mate, appreciate it
 

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XY Magazine! I had every issue, even the recent ones. Too bad they never got their act together to really continue their mission. I thought it was a great resource, especially for the younger guys. The earlier issues were much better than the later ones, but definitely would have helped me if I was a teen at the time it came out.
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R.I.P. XY Magazine. Issue 28 will always have a special place in my heart. :heart:
 
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