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the relationship with this guy is great but not perfect. we have a few issues that makes both of us sad and insecure about each other. in general it's the perfect relationship, we are the perfect couple, we get along really well with each other, we respect each other, we are never bored together and we have lot's of fun. sexually though things are not so perfect. we are together for about 2 moths now, we have never managed to have a full intercourse.
looks like that his penis is to wide for me, we have tried so many times, used different lubes, coconut oil, some sex toys and creams that would help me loosen up down there, i just can not take him, it hurts like hell. i feel so sad that i can not satisfy him in that way. he is too wide for me, actually he can barely fit to a normal condom he uses XL condoms. i am not an experienced bottom so my hole is quite tight and i have only managed to take half of his penis in me, that only for 2-3 minutes, it hurts so bad that i can not take it longer.
the problem is not only on me, he has a sexual problem too. he can not cum. we are together for about 2 months and i have never seen him ejaculating, no matter how long i suck and play with his dick, he just won't cum. ever. he has confessed to me that when he watches porn, he has no problem ejaculating, he can cum in like 10 to 15 minutes, but on the other hand when he is having sex with an actual person, he finds it really hard to cum. he said it's not because of me, it was the same situation throughout his entire sex life. he said that 90% of the times he had sex with a guy he wouldn't cum. on the other hand i don't have any issues on ejaculating, when i am with him even if we just kiss, or he gives me head or a hand job i can cum very easily. it's kinda frustrating trying to make your bf to cum but he won't.
as a relationship it's what i always wanted, i i can see myself being with this person for many years, we have talked about it, we both want to be together we don't want to end it, he has many feelings for me, he doesn't want to think about his life without me, we like each other a lot and we get along together very well, it's something you can't find very often in your life. i am worried though that eventually our bad sex life will ruin our relationship.
any ideas?
the relationship with this guy is great but not perfect. we have a few issues that makes both of us sad and insecure about each other. in general it's the perfect relationship, we are the perfect couple, we get along really well with each other, we respect each other, we are never bored together and we have lot's of fun. sexually though things are not so perfect. we are together for about 2 moths now, we have never managed to have a full intercourse.
looks like that his penis is to wide for me, we have tried so many times, used different lubes, coconut oil, some sex toys and creams that would help me loosen up down there, i just can not take him, it hurts like hell. i feel so sad that i can not satisfy him in that way. he is too wide for me, actually he can barely fit to a normal condom he uses XL condoms. i am not an experienced bottom so my hole is quite tight and i have only managed to take half of his penis in me, that only for 2-3 minutes, it hurts so bad that i can not take it longer.
the problem is not only on me, he has a sexual problem too. he can not cum. we are together for about 2 months and i have never seen him ejaculating, no matter how long i suck and play with his dick, he just won't cum. ever. he has confessed to me that when he watches porn, he has no problem ejaculating, he can cum in like 10 to 15 minutes, but on the other hand when he is having sex with an actual person, he finds it really hard to cum. he said it's not because of me, it was the same situation throughout his entire sex life. he said that 90% of the times he had sex with a guy he wouldn't cum. on the other hand i don't have any issues on ejaculating, when i am with him even if we just kiss, or he gives me head or a hand job i can cum very easily. it's kinda frustrating trying to make your bf to cum but he won't.
as a relationship it's what i always wanted, i i can see myself being with this person for many years, we have talked about it, we both want to be together we don't want to end it, he has many feelings for me, he doesn't want to think about his life without me, we like each other a lot and we get along together very well, it's something you can't find very often in your life. i am worried though that eventually our bad sex life will ruin our relationship.
any ideas?