How did you meet your partner?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by ekybottom, Jan 7, 2008.

  1. ekybottom

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    I'm interested in how the members of LPSG met their current partner and whether they knew if he had a big one prior to actually meeting him.

    I met my current partner 4 years ago right after I broke up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend told me on a Tuesday that he thought that we should see other people. A couple weeks prior to that, my boyfriends ex who we were friends with told us about this bartender who worked in a bar in a nearby city who he had been talking to who was extremely well hung, 10" reportedly. The next Saturday, I went to the bar at a nearby city to meet this particular bartender and went home with him after the bar closed. I measured him at 9.25" x 7" around. For several weekends after that, I would go to the bar, drink for free courtesy of the bartender and go home with him after closing. We dated for a couple of years and have now been together for 2 years as life partners.
     
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    I picked him up at a bar and went home with him and NEVER left.......that was 27 years ago!
     
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    I've sort of got two partners. One is a nice Jewish Dutch Orthodox boy (man, actually, who is now 48 years-old) whom I met at a gay sauna in Barçelona 12 years ago. He had "escaped" from his family in Amsterdam to live the sweet life in Spain. He introduced himself, told me up front he was a size queen, and had me laughing hysterically within 5 minutes. At first I wasn't attracted to him. He had a severe Mohawk, gold safety pins in his nipples and a tattoo-in-progress down his left shoulder of a giant green python. Sex happened a couple of hours later that same night when we left the sauna, went to his piso and stayed in bed for 3 days. We're still close, but primarily business partners. He remains the funniest, most entertaining person I know. The occasional sex is still good, too.

    My porteño squeeze and I met at a porn cinema in Buenos Aires. We've been together for 5 years. He still doesn't speak a word of English, which I'm sure has a great deal to do with the fact that we get along so well. He's now in his early 40's, is drop-dead gorgeous (veludo, varonil, guapisimo) has a dick that fit's comfortably in my mouth without me having to deep throat and gag when I go down on him. In addition to being incredibly sexy, he's gentle, kind, courteous, has impeccable manners, snores so loud the windows vibrate, and clings to me all night long like a Koala. He's bisexual like me and we occasionally hit the local sex clubs. He's the most passionate human being I've ever known. My favorite sleeping partner.
     
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    1) I met him here on LPSG! :biggrin1:

    2) I did know he had a big one, but that wasn't why I fell for him. There are lots and lots of guys with big cocks on LPSG. Artfulwilly won me over with words (of course, it did help a teensy bit that he had a big, gorgeous cock...) :wink: but there were still plenty of cocks in Colorado where I used to live. I didn't need to move to another country to find a good cock. I moved to Canada because I found the love of my life.
     
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    I met my GF when I was asked to model for a brochure advertising a large yacht for charter. She and I were suppose to act the part of a married couple enjoying a day on their multi-million dollar boat. We really hit it off right way and the photographer did an excellent job of capturing the chemistry between us. He said we really did look like we could afford the boat! LOL. The shoot lasted two days and on the second, I invited her out for dinner. That night we slept together at her hotel and the sex was just great. We have been an item for 2 years now and someday soon she may move to my adopted country. She told me about a year ago, that she thought I was hung that day on the boat when we did the swimsuit session. :wink:

    BTW- the yacht is very successful in the charter business in the Med and they are still using the same brochure. :smile:
     
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    I met Tawse, just briefly, when he was doing a flogging demonstration for a brand new leather club in the city where I lived.

    We had time for a handshake, and that was it. He was, however, a very charismatic and interesting person, so our mutual friend gave me his email address (he lived about 700 miles from me at that time.) We fell in love online, and I knew he was going to be my life partner before I ever saw him naked.

    So no, I didn't have a clue about his endowment before we were in love. By that time, it would not have mattered if it were 4" or 14". We are still deeply in love, almost 7 years later.
     
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    Was it the Eagle? On NY Ave? And come on DC, enquiring minds want to know - 4" or 14"?
     
  8. DC_DEEP

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    Ha, not even close. We met in Arkansas. I don't remember the last time I went to The Eagle. NY Ave has most likely changed dramatically since the last time you were there, what with the new convention center and all. I like the Baltimore Eagle better, anyway. Usually a better crowd.

    As for the 4 or 14... somewhere in between. If you want more specific info, you'll have to lick it for yourself.
     
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    I met my wife online too. She had NO Idea what so ever just how huge I was. She said it was me the person and the huge part of me was the "Perk" that went along with it.
     
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    I was down in Orlando for Gay Days at Disney and was in line for Space Mountain. He was a few people in front of me (~20?) and we kept on eyeing each other when we were in line. Well, I was with some friends, and wasn't really in the mood for cruising, but when I got off the ride there he was waiting for me at the exit at the end of the tunnel.

    Of course, the Atlanta Braves cap kinda gave me away that I was from Atlanta, or at least held this city close to my heart. He made a comment about Atlanta, and asked me if I wanted to go out to Pleasure Island that evening for some dancing.

    He was cute, so I said yes.

    Both of us were wearing pretty baggy shorts, so neither of us had much of an idea what was hanging between either of our legs. Found out that night he lived in Atlanta, and he found out that so did I.

    We exchanged phone numbers and went out for coffee at Panera Bread a few weeks later.

    We started to date, and both of us were complete gentlemen. It took both of us a while to be ready to make love to one-another, and I now know that he was feeling the same trepidation that I was at the time - fear as to how the other would react when the other found out about my (his) size.

    Suffice it to say, when we did decide to make love, which was several , several, months after we started to date (we did phone sex before actually doing "it") it was a surprise for us both.

    I wouldn't necessarily say it was a welcome surprise, but it was a surprise, and our first sexual encounter together was awkward, frightening, and interesting. I truly felt like I was 16 again making love for the very first time.

    That was Valentine's Day, 2001, my birthday, and we've been happily together ever since (and from a little before!)
     
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    Met him at Disneyworld eh? That's awesome. And now you two have a great place to go back to over the years for a romantic weekend to share good memories.

    Fankly, I can't think of a better way to initiate sex into a good relationship. That awkwardness and such is what really makes it memorable and bring smiles to both your faces years later. The same is true of my wife and I.
     
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    I met my current partner on the internet (Not here) on a website where guys like me can find guys like him (daddyhunt).

    We exchanged a few short messages, were on the phone within hours and met later that week.

    Our mutual attraction was so powerful and incredible and the vibe was so awesome all the way around that, even today, I feel incredibly blessed. He feels that his guardian angel brought us together as neither of us really used the site that we met on much.

    I do not believe in coincidence. I was drawn to this man by our similar energy. I did something uncharacteristic on one of the sites I belong to and it paid off bigtime. With a few keystrokes, emails and phone calls, we knew that we had been looking for each other all our lives.

    Once we locked embrace at the DCA airport, the two doubts I had (out of 10) vanished immediately. He nuzzles me close to his chest at night when I need it and he lets me love on him (be the cuddler) when he needs safety and security.

    He is a divorced dad (44, 6', 240) of two kids with a step-daughter as well. All his life he had (like me) searched for a mature man who would understand and welcome the commitment to parenthood and see it not as a challenge to his position in his partner's life, but rather, as a joy and treasure to be shared.

    I knew that there was one man out there who would be able to love me as I am unconditionally and I him. I have found that man.

    In the Matrix, the Oracle says: "Being the One is like being in love. No one can tell you you're in love. You just know it, through and through, balls to bones." He is the One.
     
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    All these nice stories.
     
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    Ditto! I met my (female) partner on LPSG also; she was aware of my size before we met simply from some of my postings before we were an 'item'. (We also had a few months of online interaction before we met in person.)


    LOVE the new pics, HB! :cool:
     
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    Having a think back every partner I've had I've met in the pub except my very first bf when I was 15.
     
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    You guys are hogging up all the luck. No wonder I never have any...:frown1:
     
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    I phoned him to come fix my air conditioning.
    When I saw his bill, is said, "I have to get one of these!" (an electrician) and I did! :arms:

    ....and we all lived happly ever after.
     
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    I took my dog gown to the beach and while walking the shore there reading a book.. Hellllooo I said went up a bit more came back and sat about 30 feet away watching the boats on the lake among other things, for a bit went up the the oais he followed me and had a quick line Water cold. sat and talked spent the afternoon together and then the night come to find out we grew up in the same town couple miles apart and same high school 10 years apart and a couple of my friends are his friends love at first sight
     
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    My boyfriend is the best friend of my ex husband's brother . .

    We'd known each other for years, but didn't really start talking until a year after my divorce, and realised we were perfect for each other.

    And I had no idea about his size previously . . just lucked out.
     
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    We met on line and at that point I was so cynical I figured it would be just another date that would probably turn out blazingly mediocre, but what the heck.

    When I saw him it was honestly love at first sight. I could see it in his face and I knew he could see it in mine.

    He's since told me that's exactly how he felt, too.
     
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