How did you meet your partner?

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Met my current buddy in a bar in Cancun...we both were vacationing...sort of weird in that we were both from Houston...he's 10 years younger than me...2 months after we first met, he moved in with me....our relationship is rather open and more of convenience and sexual needs than based on true love. We both need our own space. Except for me, all his friends are str8 and in their late 20's. I'm not sure that he likes any of my friends who all in their late 30's and early 40's. He also gives me a lot of flack about visiting this site and others. Yeah, I know, the writing is on the wall...THIS RELATIONSHIP IS DOOMED TO FAIL.
 
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My current gf and I met thru a friend at work but we were introduced at the gym. I had never seen her till that day. Also she didn't know about my size. She told me when she did though that she told a few of her friends:biggrin1:
 

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Met my current gf through a mutual (female) friend - my friend knew about my size, but didn't tell my gf. She left that as a surprise - when Jane first saw me naked she burst out laughing, which felt a bit strange, but she told me it was more in pleasure and shock than any attempt to belittle me!
 

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Then it weren't really a one night stand.

Met my wife in 1979; at a science fiction convention. Started talking and haven't really stopped. Knew I was big? Only after my pants came off. I didn't know I was "big" then. Saw some of the porno at the time and thought I was small.
 

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I met my wife in the High Sierras in 1972, she was standing near a stream in a meadow wearing hiking shorts and a red bandanna top. We were going to set up camp near a very small spring I had discovered as the stream water was contaminated by grazing cows. I invited her for dinner and she asked if she could bring her boyfriend, darn! We spent a good part of the summer camped nearby, we would bring in extra food to share with her and the boyfriend. I showed them a special, remote, unnamed lake where we went skinny dipping.

Two years later she came back to the wilderness with a friend and looked me up, she had married the boyfriend but was not happy and had been thinking about me, we fell in love immediately and have been together ever since. She later admitted that she had noticed when we were skinny dipping that I had a hard on, well she's a great looking woman and when I got hard I was embarrassed and got up to dive in the lake and she must have been watching me!
 

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We met in a chat room where everyone was discussing cookie recipes. He and I hit it off and started chatting almost every night. A year later he took some vacation time and flew out from the west coast to spend a week with me. Two months after returning to California he packed up everything (home, business, van, et cetera) and moved here to be my roommate. That lasted for about 9 months before we finally admitted to each other that we were deeply in love. That was 7 years ago.
 

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He was new at my gym here in NYC, young and very shy. He had just finished his army service in Germany and had only been back home for about a week. He was about 10 years my junior, an olive skinned Italian with a great tan, beautiful wavy black hair, a wonderful smile (including deep dimples) and bright, sparkling blue eyes. At the gym, he wore very short, bright red, workout shorts and a light blue undershirt with US ARMY on the front. His very, very hairy chest hair spilled out, and his muscular hairy legs and arms were very attention getting. I had seen him a couple of times before, but we had not met, only caught each others eyes and smiled or nodded hello a couple of times. Then one day I was looking for someone to spot me and he heard me asking around and offered to do it.

I never caught him in the locker room or showers, so I had not seen what he had, and to tell you the truth, size has never been a prerequisite in my book....the person is more important to me. But, he did have a nice bulge showing in those sexy red shorts of his... :biggrin: ....so, I have no complaints in that department!

We went for coffee or drinks a couple of times after gym, and then one night he asked me to dinner. He knew I was Southern and asked if I knew a place where they served Soul Food. I said, why not come to my place and I will fix you dinner....fried chicken, turnip greens, sweet potatoes and hot biscuits and cornbread. He accepted the invitation, we had a great evening learning about each other, and he stayed overnight...actually it was a weekend and he stayed until Monday morning! Now, 20+ years later, we are still together. We had a bit of a rough time these last few months, but that has been overcome, so...sorry guys....we are still together and you can't have him!
 

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I met Ed69 when he bought a motorcycle helmet from the store I was working at. We actually didn't start dating till two years after he purchased the helmet. We have been together for 16 and half years and it feels like five to me. I couldn't be happier.
 

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I met her on a bus. (Story at the link.)

We're still together more than two years later, so if it's not True Love (probably not!), it's at least good, convenient, sex.
 

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I met Tawse, just briefly, when he was doing a flogging demonstration for a brand new leather club in the city where I lived.

We had time for a handshake, and that was it. He was, however, a very charismatic and interesting person, so our mutual friend gave me his email address (he lived about 700 miles from me at that time.) We fell in love online, and I knew he was going to be my life partner before I ever saw him naked.

So no, I didn't have a clue about his endowment before we were in love. By that time, it would not have mattered if it were 4" or 14". We are still deeply in love, almost 7 years later.

That's beautiful, DC_DEEP. I never knew how you guys met, or that your connection was as deep as ours was before you ever "did the deed."

And I extend my sincere, joyful congratulations to the others who've posted that they met their soul mates online.

I am a true believer in the power of the internet to connect people and greatly increase your chances of finding the love of your life. To quote a friend of Artful's, when you really find The One, you finally understand why and how all others weren't it.
 

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She worked for the hockey team I was playing for.

She walked in, and I knew right away that I had to meet her. Her smile caught me, her personality kept me.
 

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I met all my ex-partners (eight in total, ranging from six months to almost ten years) in bars, except one. I met Alan at a friend's house and we hit it off really well.
 

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I met my partner at one of the gyms I used to take my clients to (Muscle System in San Francisco).

I had just that week decided to leave myself open to 'date' someone rather than just give my libido full rein like usual. He was watching me work and everytime I looked up, he would give me this beautiful smile.

When I left through the locker room, he was changing...took all my will power to keep my eyes above the waist.

As I walked out onto the street to go to lunch, I stopped myself and waited on the curb for him to walk out, invited him to join me for lunch. Which turned into a dinner invite...which turned into a very hot first night (Aussie accent, great sex, hot bod, and a really big, uncut, smooth as silk cock).

Took a couple years of backing-and-forthing but now I'm an Aussie citizen living in Perth and we celebrate our 15th anniversary in 2 weeks.
 

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Bath house

Met in the hall.

Went back to a room.

Talked for hours.

Together 13 years.

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