How did you prepare to give your first bj?

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I'm meeting with a guy tomorrow to give him a blowjob, I've been nervous but anxious about it for a long time. A few times I've made a post on CL but chickened out once we were setting up the time and place. This time though in still a bit nervous I'm going to with it. I just want to know what did some of you did on your first time, how you got rid of your inhibitions and how it ended up. I'm really looking for some what to expect kind of thing. Thanks guys
 
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If your experience is anything like my first, you are going to feel very strange. I considered myself straight but really wanted to suck a cock. It did feel very strange undressing but sucking was fun.

Sure I was nervous (as you will be) but just try to relax and see how it goes. Be prepared for it to be fun but very strange. Push yourself to do it as I had to. I wanted to cancel but knew if I did that I would never do it.

Hope it goes well for you.
 

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If your experience is anything like my first, you are going to feel very strange. I considered myself straight but really wanted to suck a cock. It did feel very strange undressing but sucking was fun.

Sure I was nervous (as you will be) but just try to relax and see how it goes. Be prepared for it to be fun but very strange. Push yourself to do it as I had to. I wanted to cancel but knew if I did that I would never do it.

Hope it goes well for you.

That's exactly what's going through my head, how am I going to feel undressing to do something sexual with a man. I'm not attracted to men mentally or emotionally I didn't say physically because I guess since I may have a cock fetish being that is the only part of a mans anatomy that gets me hard. So I probably would be lying to myself to say I'm not attracted to a man physically since cocks do get me hard.


Also not that you've done it do you still consider yourself straight, gay or bi?
 
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Well that first time for me was eleven years ago. I think I was always curious and since then I have been with around eight other guys. I do consider myself as bi. Just hope that the guy is as understanding for you as for my first time. I was in a no-pressure situation so that made it a lot easier.
 

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Dont eat 3-4 hours prior. Happened to me. As my lips started to engulf the entirety of his cock, I puked out steak pieces, but luckily I managed to swallow them back. He didnt notice. I moved on. Do your research too. Sucking cock in what I call "lip-rubbing-" style is kinda sad. You gotta suck on it like it was a juicy pacifier from heaven.
 

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Well that first time for me was eleven years ago. I think I was always curious and since then I have been with around eight other guys. I do consider myself as bi. Just hope that the guy is as understanding for you as for my first time. I was in a no-pressure situation so that made it a lot easier.

That's how it is for me, the guy he's cool about it. I know he mostly wants head so of course he'd be cool but if I'm not feeling it he said he'd understand. So that and his cock that appeals to my fetish got me more into the idea of doing it.
 

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Dont eat 3-4 hours prior. Happened to me. As my lips started to engulf the entirety of his cock, I puked out steak pieces, but luckily I managed to swallow them back. He didnt notice. I moved on. Do your research too. Sucking cock in what I call "lip-rubbing-" style is kinda sad. You gotta suck on it like it was a juicy pacifier from heaven.

That's wise lol, but were you deepthroating him too though? I was planning to do that and sucking it like a pacifier like you said lol. I'm basically going to do what I'd like a girl to do to me. I just hope he pre-cums a lot that way I won't have to use as much spit.
 

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My first time I was with a guy we were j/o and he had a bottle of poppers, told me to inhale a little. I did, got a little light headed but wanted to suck his cock. I loved the experience.....made sucking his cock sooooo intense. You can get them at an adult store or love package. Hope you have as much fun as I did!!!!
 

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You probably need to make the guy aware, that you're a novice, and he needs not to place his hands on the top of your head and push your down onto his cock. That you need to go at your own speed. Some guys get really pro-active, and want their cocks down your throat immediately. That could be something that might put you off from sucking future cocks. He needs to let you explore your own potential.
 

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I would be interested to know how it went.

It was pretty fun, firstly his cock was like the cock of the guy in the video with the pornstar bobbi bliss. But... when I got to his apartment I was a little calm compared to how I was the night before. He wanted to start with kissing but, weirdly I'm repulsed by the thought of kissing a man so we took our clothes off and his cock was probably about 7 inches. I got on my knees while he stood up and started off with just jerking him off. Soon after I finally was ok enough to put it in my mouth and I started sucking him off his pulse in my mouth felt good. I lost track of time but when he came it was at least an ounce lol I didn't swallow it but I used it to keep blowing him until he went down. I was honestly hoping he could keep going after blowing a load as I've done that plenty of times with women. But that wasn't the case with him, I wasn't sure that I wanted to have another gay experience after the night so I stayed until he was ready for another round and I started again this time with him sitting down, I played with his balls A LOT more this time around and he just kept rubbing my head and then fucked my mouth when he was getting close to blowing his load.

All in all it was a lot of fun, but I'm not really interested in it anymore I really wanted to get that fantasy out of my system. He hopes I change my mind but I told him I'd think about it.
 

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You probably need to make the guy aware, that you're a novice, and he needs not to place his hands on the top of your head and push your down onto his cock. That you need to go at your own speed. Some guys get really pro-active, and want their cocks down your throat immediately. That could be something that might put you off from sucking future cocks. He needs to let you explore your own potential.

Yeah, we discussed it in a few emails so he knew before hand that I was a rookie, when I was sucking him off the first time he was pretty much hands off and basically let me explore his cock without any guidance. when we went the second time he was more assertive, so he had his hands rubbing my head and he even fucked my mouth when he was about to finish. I enjoyed the mouth fucking, I never experienced it from that perspective HA.

I kinda wonder if those two bj's makes me a cocksucker now? lol
 
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Yeah, we discussed it in a few emails so he knew before hand that I was a rookie, when I was sucking him off the first time he was pretty much hands off and basically let me explore his cock without any guidance. when we went the second time he was more assertive, so he had his hands rubbing my head and he even fucked my mouth when he was about to finish. I enjoyed the mouth fucking, I never experienced it from that perspective HA.

I kinda wonder if those two bj's makes me a cocksucker now? lol

Whats wrong with the title "cocksucker", its on par with duke of chatsworth and prince of monaco. Lol. Well congratulations. IIm so proud of you :3

By the way, you feeling not to suck cock again is just what I call "cock overdose". I get that alot. I promise : no more fucking. Then viola, the next day im on the road again driving towards a cock somewhere.
 
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I am glad it went okay and you had fun. Seems we are so similar because I really don't like kissing guys either. Your reaction afterwards, "I'm not really interested in it anymore," was exactly how I felt too.

That soon passed and I have now been with eight other guys since so you never know.
 

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Whats wrong with the title "cocksucker", its on par with duke of chatsworth and prince of monaco. Lol. Well congratulations. IIm so proud of you :3

By the way, you feeling not to suck cock again is just what I call "cock overdose". I get that alot. I promise : no more fucking. Then viola, the next day im on the road again driving towards a cock somewhere.

LOL, you don't mind the title since your gay I don't mind it while I'm balls deep on a guy's cock (that sounds hot lol) but I wouldn't want the title on an everyday basis.

To be honest, I have thought about doing it again because of the fun it was but I don't have that intense urge I had before.
 

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I am glad it went okay and you had fun. Seems we are so similar because I really don't like kissing guys either. Your reaction afterwards, "I'm not really interested in it anymore," was exactly how I felt too.

That soon passed and I have now been with eight other guys since so you never know.

Yeah and to be honest I find it extremely weird because kissing someone should be a lot less repulsive than putting your mouth on their genitals but if it wasn't my case then I wouldn't believe it was a possibility.

Lol I can see why because, it was fun the entire experience of it and all. But i can't see myself wanting to do it again, it was basically an itch I wanted to scratch. But hey who knows.
 

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No one would want to be called cock sucker. Its pretty normal to have that urge again. Cocks are the yummiest things on earth.

Lmao you're hilarious, I would say they're yummy but it was fun. But how could I really make a good judgement since it was only one right. Yes, I agree if something was fun was chances are you'd want to experience that fun again.