How did your first m2m contact happen?

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Posted about this before.

Mine was my freshman year of college so I was 19. I was on Craigslist and talking to a guy my age who went to a different college down a few blocks (urban campus so we were close). He agreed to come over so I signed him into my dorm and took him up. We got naked and started to make out, just touching each other and getting comfortable since he was relatively inexperienced too. He knew I had no experience so it was going well. We made out for like half an hour before he asked if I wanted to suck his cock. I agreed, hesitant only because of nerves. But I took him in and started sucking him. He wasn't very big, his whole cock easily fit in my mouth and didn't even reach to the back. I was blowing him and it was interesting, though weird when I went to use my hand and he told me not to. I kept blowing him and he warned he was close so I stopped and jerked to get him the rest of the way. Then he offered to give me my first blowjob, which I eagerly accepted. His blowjob.....was less than stellar but I can't say much because I don't know how good mine was. He did stop for a bit and ate my ass, which felt amazing. Same deal, I warned him when I got close and he jerked me off to finish.
 

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Mine was in my late 30s and I was married, but I was getting fascinated by big cocks online. Started chatting online with guys. That led to some cam stuff. Eventually wanted to see and experience one for real. I was really envious of guys bigger than me... especially in girth.

Responded to an ad from a gay couple looking for a "straight " guy to show what M2M sex can be. We shared some back and forth correspondence with pictures. One had an impressive cock! I nervously accepted their invitation.

I went to their house for the evening and they gave me the complete experience! I was in great shape then.... been working out, tanning in a thong, well groomed pubes. They eagerly used me as their plaything for the evening.

They slowly undresses me, laid me on their bed, massaged, kissed and licked every sensitive spot. Eventually they got naked and laid on either side of me. My senses were on fire, but I was nervous as hell, too!

I will never forget putting hands on another man's cock. I felt his flaccid dick grow in my hands as I stroked him. It felt so heavy and thick! Meaty and massive compared to the feel of me stroking my thin one

In the end I was able to suck it and the other guy who was more average. I was blown by one of them... my first time anyone let me explode in their mouth, and he swallowed it all! He was deep throating me, too!

I was then fucked by the big guy. He pounded me intil he climaxed. Wore a rubber. I was sandwiched between him and the bed... his body slammed me hard as he fucked!

Felt so used... but I have wanted to experience and service big cocks ever since!
 

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Think I was about 21. Older straight married friend (32) came over to use my desktop computer to polish up a resume. Was early in the morning, so after setting him up on the computer I told him I was going to take a shower, left the bathroom door open. After some time he came in to pee....From the shower I looked at him peeing and asked him if he wanted to join me...he quickly undressed and did. I invited him to jerk me off, and he obliged. He seemed to know what he was doing, as I long suspected he had fooled around with one of his vgl high school buds.
Just re-read this and remembered that technically my first counter was actually also "show me yours/ ill show you mine" with my best bud in HS. Was a bit of a game of opening up to each other. That progressed to my egging him on to dare me to j/o in the neighborhood gym sauna while he stood watch at the door...watching for others and watching me. Took years for things to progress to more but it eventually did, and continues to a certain extent today.
 

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So I have been reading two different threads, one titled "how did your first m2m contact happen" and one titled "first time gay experiences"

I am posting this in both threads, but what is the difference, and I am asking that more than to point out any redundancy in threads...…….

Can you have m2m contact and not have a gay experience?

What makes an experience gay, the action or the mindset?

At what point would you call it gay?
 

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Couple years ago, met a guy on grinds. Told him I wasnt sure and wanted to try it out...
Anyway I went to his place and we jacked off together for a while before he stripped me down and sucked my chick for about an hour because he bet he could me cum with only his mouth ( I rarely get off from just head). He gave up and I didn't want to jump straight into sex we didn't.
 

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Can you have m2m contact and not have a gay experience?

What makes an experience gay, the action or the mindset?

At what point would you call it gay?

IMHO gay is love and emotional feelings - M2M is just fun friction! ;)
 

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Couple years ago, met a guy on grinds. Told him I wasnt sure and wanted to try it out...
Anyway I went to his place and we jacked off together for a while before he stripped me down and sucked my chick for about an hour because he bet he could me cum with only his mouth ( I rarely get off from just head). He gave up and I didn't want to jump straight into sex we didn't.
I had a similar experience once...but I was the head giver. As you, he said he rarely got off by just getting head...his gf would get tired and tell him "stick it in me already." Lol...
I sucked him for a good 1.5hrs...and he did get off by mouth only. ;) But I also encouraged him to try different positions...on the floor and the bed. Let him grab my head and fuck my mouth.
The next time, it only took about 45min...but that is more me enjoying the longevity. ;)
 

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Summer of freshman year of college, so 19, and unemployed and bored. Small section of personals in local paper with ad about a guy that wanted to meet other guys around my age so I responded. Turns out he worked in the next town over and we set a date to meet. He worked at a residential facility and had an apartment on the campus. I went to meet him one evening, I was very, very nervous. He was nice and we chatted for a while then he started rubbing my crotch. He definitely was leading and he had my pants off in a short time. All I remember was I was naked standing on his bed, he was kneeling in front of me giving me my first blow job. I was so nervous I came quickly and I was surprised he not only swallowed all of it but he kept licking my dick until he sucked every drop out. I freaked out a little and quickly got dressed and got out of there. He called (my home phone) and asked if I wanted to meet again and I declined. Despite that in retrospect it probably was what I expected since it was new to me - sex was new to me. Didn't stop me from experimenting in the future with much more pleasant outcomes which I have described on this website.
 

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Camped out with a friend in our teens. In the yard by his house.

Woke up to him jacking me off. Pretended to be sleeping, until that special moment and I ejaculated.

Kind of lost the mood by then, but I reached over and jerked him off until he shot his load.
He was a quick cummer, so it didn't take long.
 

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It was in my early 20's. I was still closeted and had not had any sexual contacts with anyone (male or female).

I finally worked up my courage to call up a local m2m massage parlour. I even called them from a pay phone.

I showed up, nervous as hell, and didn't know what to expect. After some chit chat with the guys, one of them showed me to a room and let me pick the guy. He asked me to undress but I kept my underwear on. The guy that I picked came in and dropped what looked like 2 condoms onto the floor. I wasn't sure if those were really condoms as it was dark, but I was a bit taken back by that. Like I said, I didn’t know what to expect, but fucking seemed too much for me. Anyway I asked him if he would go fully naked and he responded that will be extra tips and I agreed.

I laid face down onto the massage table and he started to massage my back. At some point, he told me that the massage oil would get onto my underwear so it’s better to take those off and I complied. He continued the massage on my ass and his hands repeatedly brushed my balls and eventually he just grabbed my cock. It was the first time someone touching me there sexually and I felt an “electric shock” to my head. I took that as fair game and grabbed his cock, another first for me. I remembered his cock felt so warm.

The mutual touching went on for some more and it was time for me to flip over. He climbed onto the massage table and sat on my chest. His ass was now in full view. I parted his cheeks to expose his hole and started playing with it with my fingers. He continued to jerk me off. It took a while as it’s the first time someone jerking me off and I eventually came.

I went back to the massage parlour for many times and had a lot of my firsts - first time sucking and getting sucked, getting rimmed, fingering and getting fingered, someone rubbing his cock on my hole, seeing someone cum... This went on for a few years and towards the end, one guy even sat down on my hard cock, my first time penetrated someone.

The place closed shortly after that due to property redevelopment.
 

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My first few sexual encounters were with guys. Well one guy back in high school.
The first couple of times was just skinny dipping in seeing each other‘s dicks get hard but eventually that led to watching porn together and jacking off on his parents Sofa. Which led to me spending the night at his house a lot on the weekends.

we both actively pursue drills in our town I would sit up at night talking about the girls we wanted to fuck. But ultimately we would just end up playing with each other‘s cocks and making a little bit.We both knew it felt a little gay to enjoy being naked with another guy but I know I justified it all with the fact that we mostly talked about girls before we hooked up together. I bl we both knew it felt a little gay to enjoy being naked with another guy but I know I justified it all with the fact that we mostly talked about girls before we hooked up together.
 

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Mine was college if you are asking when the first M2M sex happened. Otherwise it was well before then and was just innocent curiosity type of stuff. I can still remember that night when my room-mate and I were naked in bed together. We were both nervous as heck but do remember it well. There was a full moon that night and the light coming in from the window was enough for us to see each other.

The funny thing is that many of our friends tried to catch us 'in the act' over the course of that year but never did. Back in the early 1980s, we did not openly admit our sexuality as much as people do now. Oral only, we got each other off!
 

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I see you’re not suppose to talk about youth but that was just jerking each other.
I was 18 and with a longtime friend having a few beers and talking about sex, we parked in the woods and he lowered his jeans and pulled his out and began to slowly stroke. I became erect looking at his dick, I wanted to touch it. It was a good bit bigger than mine. His hand came over to my crotch and he was feeling mine thrilled my jeans. I pulled mine down and leaned close to him and stroked him just a few seconds before I just had to suck him. His seat back went down and it was really sticking up better. I could grip his and still had plenty of dick to suck on. His was also much thicker and I wondered if my girlfriend would enjoy his more than mine, I thought she would have to, it’s so big. I stayed on him for about 4 to 5 minutes before he was writhing and arching. By then I had my hand and mouth working in unison and he had quite a climax. Swallowed some and just let some run out on him. I wanted to continue sucking on him after he came and did for a few minutes till he pushed me back and went down on me. I don’t think I lasted a minute.
We started getting together every day we could. We kept is up in secret for years.
 

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It was between my freshman and sophomore years of college. Me and a couple friends had rented an apartment for the summer. One night me and one of my roommates went to the bars. We were fairly buzzed when we got back home and we decided to climb the fence to the pool and go skinny dipping. We swam around for awhile and while we were resting at the edge of the pool he pulled me up out of the water and started to suck my dick. We took turns sucking each other until we both came unfortunately i had to return to college shortly afterwards. I will never forget that night
 

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My first was early with my best friend, normally story, wanking looking at porn mags in the barn at first, then jacking each other. One day he ask me to suck his cock I couldn’t resist and from then it was on. Massive hormones were rolling, I then started jacking 3 brothers that lived near by eventually blowing all of them over time, they would give me a call and then go by and service them, couldn’t get enough.
 

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Young and at movies with girlfriend she loved stroking my cock. This time I didn't cum, so afte the movie ended I had to go to the restroom with a hard on to use a paper towel and wipe off all my pre cum. I thought I had locked the stall door, but anyway the stall door opened and the guy standing there said I watched your girl friend stroking your cock and noticed your never cum. I would gladly give your ballls the relief you need. I explained she is in the lobby, he asked me to stop by his house after her ride picked her up, he only.live a block away. I said ok. By the time we got to the lobby, she kissed me and said her ride is waiting, so I walked to his house with him. He went straight to my cpck when we got to his house, I was still semi hard. He dropped to his knees and tried to swallow my cock, he got about 1/2 before he gagged, he raided up and said I will gett it all before I am done. I finally undressed laid doem on his bed and got between my legs and wrnt back to sucking my cock. Hr did finally deepthroat my cock and the throat massage made me grab his hesd and start fucking his throat. I unloaded my load with my cock buried deep in his throat. When U let him up for air he gulped a big breath of air and went right back down to the hilt holding my cock in his throat. This was to first time I ever cum twice that quick. When he let my cock out of his throat I took the deep breath and said I told him I had never cum twice that quick. He just smiled and said he was thrre any time I needed relief. I laid there a few more minutes ge fondled and suckled my cock he said he could do this as long as I like, I told him it feels good. When I realized the time I said I needed to go, he then deepthroated my cock again, holding it for a few minutes and my cock started twitching. I laid back and enjoyed my cock deep on his throat, amd the throat massage he was very good at providng. This time it took longer than eitherr of the first 2 loads and it was a lot more intense. I grabbed his head and held it down on my cock for what seemed a while. He gasped again when I let him up, and smiled really big again. When I dressed and left I had been at hs house for more than 2 hours and I realized walking home about 1/2 mile I was the most relaxed I had ever been. Great day at the movies.
 

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I was a Junior in High School and my best friend and I had found some porn magazines (probably Hustler or Playboy) and one thing led to another and we started jerking off. After that it progressed to hand jobs and eventual 69s. My favorite was when we had gotten a key from one of the teachers and got into the swimming pool swam around and ended up in a hot and wet 69 right on the deck of the pool.
 

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I had been wanting to try something for a while. Finally I got up the nerve and scheduled an erotic massage session with a guy that also does 4 hand sessions with ladies. I took off my clothes and got on the table while he was fully clothed. As we talked I made it clear to him that I was curious and things went from there. This was still my favorite encounter of the few that I have had. He was hot and enjoyed my groping. I still kick myself that I didn’t finish him off. After I came I kind of froze up.