How Did Your Penis Influence On Your Lifestyle?

[love2compare]

reading some posts of users like e.g. @CalifornianSTUD or @wallyj84 clearly expose some extremely different personalities and lifestyles. i can guess that many things in life - but also specifically their dicks - influence on such behavioral patterns and lifestyles.

i for one, my circumcised dick influenced on my lifestyle and dating behavior a lot. growing up in a time and place where literally no other dickhead was cut, made me proceed kind of cautious and not overly obsessed into hunting for sex dates as a younger man. in an urge of living in peace with nudity i later trained myself to feel at ease in public nude situations such as saunas or nude beaches and love to have overcome those old times. thankfully, the many good experiences and interactions have shown me there's nothing to worry about hehe....

in which ways did your penis influence on your lifestyle or personality?

 

[stretch8888]

When i was in high school and even my late teens i was very shy when it came to women, i had no shortage of very attractive female friends but sexually i lacked confidence, I'd been told it was big a few times but just assumed that was something that they were saying, it wasn't until i hooked up with a close friend in my early 20s who told me it was in fact big that it really sank in, another thing i always remembered was her saying how nice it was visually so much so that she didn't usually enjoy giving head however she'd ask to meet up just to blow me. Looking back that was sort of a point where i relaxed a little and things became easier, I've never really understood what it meant exactly but I've been told bluntly by a few women that my body language suggests i have a large cock

 

[CalifornianSTUD]

My upbringing and my big dick definitely influenced my lifestyle. I think even if I had an average size or smaller dick my lifestyle would be almost as interesting. My experiences are similar to my dads according to his stories about his youth and based on what I witnessed growing up. So even tho my dick is huge I think it only enhances or increases my sexual experiences.

 

[marriedasian]

it simply didn't. for the longest time growing up, i had no idea my penis was "bigger" than average cause it wasn't like i was comparing my dick to other dicks all the time. even when girls starting touting how big my penis was, i simply ignored it as i knew girls would lie and just say whatever they want to stroke our egos. to be honest, my being asian had more impact on my lifestyle than anything.

now once i accepted that i was well-endowed down there, it still didn't change anything. your life doesn't get better simply because you have a bigger dick (or a dick at all). granted, it may help if you plan to do porn (however a big dick is useless on camera if it can't get hard on command for the acting role it needs to be in).

did women behave differently around me once they knew i was bigger? oh yes, they did. it was flattering at first but then it got old. trust me, it will get old. nobody can be that vain and once the excitement and fun settles, you'll find yourself wanting more in relationships with women whether it be an intimate relationship or just friends.

being that your dick doesn't play much of a role outside of sexual activities and peeing, i can't foresee it changing too much of anyone's lifestyle.

 

[wallyj84]

It has had a profound affect on my relationships and confidence.

 

[1543042]

It has had a profound affect on my relationships and confidence.

Why Wally? Because you are significantly above average, but not above 7"

 

[deleted1151614]

Well, after looking at it online: one person said online (female) that "He's too big, he doesn't understand", speaking about me in a chat with a bunch of other users

 

[wallyj84]

Why Wally? Because you are significantly above average, but not above 7"

I answered the question honestly and don't deserve this stupid trolling.

 

[1626381]

Met my would-be wife at 25. I was the first big guy she experienced and it turned out to be transformative for her. This led her to wanting to experience a “super sized” guy, which led to the opening up of our marriage, eventually for both of us. Needless to say, this has totally influenced my life, both in terms of the marriage specifically and just in general. It hasn’t all been smooth sailing, but on balance my dick has definitely added value—lol.

 

[blkcocktail]

Lifestyle influences...my penis has definitely caused some unwanted stress.

 

[1141702]

Lack of autonomy of my own genitals has made me depressed and suicidal somedays. I’m getting better though.

Informing people on needless infant circumcision And helping people through others choices has impacted my life a great deal.

 

[halcyondays]

Once it got out that I was big it created opportunities to get naked and blown or laid or both. I decided to take advantage of most of those opportunities. People talk so I got a reputation as a "ladies man" which created more opportunities.

That said it was something my mother told me which changed my life way more than having a large penis.

After a girl for whom I had a huge crush rejected me I moped and brooded for several weeks swearing I'd never fall in love again or ask another girl out. Mom advised me that I should ask lots of girls out and not take rejection personally. You never know who's going to say yes if you don't ask. You might be surprised who says yes. And most who reject you won't forget that you asked.

Of course she was right. I started asking girls I hadn't crushed on even girls I didn't find that attractive. What's more I found myself talking to girls more and to more girls.

Imagine my surprise when one of the prettiest cheerleaders--the apex of the high school dating scene--said yes. That happened again in college.

Did I get shot down? Dozens of times. Did I let it bother me? No. Did it get me more dates? Yes. Did more women get naked with me? Yes.

Guys ask, ladies choose.

 

[Serpentlike]

It gave me more confidence when I was a skinny nerd.

 

[wallyj84]

It seems like overall the hung studs have had a better lifestyle than a Smalls. Big surprise.

 

[rope9839]

It's certainly influenced my sex life. I've dated quite a bit and I don't know that I would have been nearly as forward in a lot of situations if I was built differently.

 

[headbang8]

Well, mine gets hard when I think about men. So I suppose you could say it influenced my lifestyle rather profoundly.

 

[curtdude]

mine was opposite of the first poster of this thread. Growing up in So. California I was the only one of my friends uncircumcised. I got teased some wondered what was wrong with my cock. my response was dudes you were born like this my parents just chose not to have my cock chopped up. when word got out I was uncut girls were curious about it I think some dated me just to experience a uncut cock. I had my circumcision done to fit in with everyone else I kinda wish I had not but can't go back now

 

[treetrunq]

yes, i got teased a bunch growing up and was super shy about showing it off, then i found this place, learned i was packing and am now a total gigalo lol

 

[Gj816]

Yeah I guess to a degree our penises do influence our lifestyles, whether we want to admit it or not.

When I realized that my dick was above average in length and girth it gave me a nice confidence boost. Changed the way I looked at life and how I interacted with others.

 

[1666291]

it increased my confidence, knowing fully well I will not need any supplements or other things to enhance my dick. I am also a masseur, which helps a lot, particularly if I choose to provide happy ending or not...I am not the conventional handsome type so I get overlooked but as soon as my dick and/or ass comes into play, the behavior changes and by then it is too late for that person.