How Did Your Penis Influence On Your Lifestyle?

[love2compare]

reading some posts of users like e.g. @CalifornianSTUD or @wallyj84 clearly expose some extremely different personalities and lifestyles. i can guess that many things in life - but also specifically their dicks - influence on such behavioral patterns and lifestyles.

i for one, my circumcised dick influenced on my lifestyle and dating behavior a lot. growing up in a time and place where literally no other dickhead was cut, made me proceed kind of cautious and not overly obsessed into hunting for sex dates as a younger man. in an urge of living in peace with nudity i later trained myself to feel at ease in public nude situations such as saunas or nude beaches and love to have overcome those old times. thankfully, the many good experiences and interactions have shown me there's nothing to worry about hehe....

in which ways did your penis influence on your lifestyle or personality?

 

[stretch8888]

When i was in high school and even my late teens i was very shy when it came to women, i had no shortage of very attractive female friends but sexually i lacked confidence, I'd been told it was big a few times but just assumed that was something that they were saying, it wasn't until i hooked up with a close friend in my early 20s who told me it was in fact big that it really sank in, another thing i always remembered was her saying how nice it was visually so much so that she didn't usually enjoy giving head however she'd ask to meet up just to blow me. Looking back that was sort of a point where i relaxed a little and things became easier, I've never really understood what it meant exactly but I've been told bluntly by a few women that my body language suggests i have a large cock

 

[LilJock]

I didn't answer the question; it didn't seem to apply. I've been obsessed about the small size of my cock most my life but I don't believe that's had much affect on my lifestyle. Certainly it's a big factor in my sexual thoughts and fantasies but that's about it. Admittedly, it has affected certain aspects of my sex life -- sex activities and positions, for instance -- but not the overall arch of things.

I'm hung like a chipmunk, super-small, especially soft. That may have held me back at first with girls but I soon got over that. In fact, except when in a relationship, I've led an extremely active sex life; I know very few guys who've had as many chicks as I have. Of course it's possible that being so obsessed with the size of my cock may have something to do with that. Luckily I've made up for a lack in size with looks and personality, and, strangely, most women -- even those who profess a preference for big cocks -- seem to find that enough. At least the ones that count, like my gorgeous wife.

 

[HorseHung40's]

Having a big dick has made me a very confident person. That confidence has spilled into other facets of my life.

 

[CalifornianSTUD]

My upbringing and my big dick definitely influenced my lifestyle. I think even if I had an average size or smaller dick my lifestyle would be almost as interesting. My experiences are similar to my dads according to his stories about his youth and based on what I witnessed growing up. So even tho my dick is huge I think it only enhances or increases my sexual experiences.

 

[halcyondays]

Once it got out that I was big it created opportunities to get naked and blown or laid or both. I decided to take advantage of most of those opportunities. People talk so I got a reputation as a "ladies man" which created more opportunities.

That said it was something my mother told me which changed my life way more than having a large penis.

After a girl for whom I had a huge crush rejected me I moped and brooded for several weeks swearing I'd never fall in love again or ask another girl out. Mom advised me that I should ask lots of girls out and not take rejection personally. You never know who's going to say yes if you don't ask. You might be surprised who says yes. And most who reject you won't forget that you asked.

Of course she was right. I started asking girls I hadn't crushed on even girls I didn't find that attractive. What's more I found myself talking to girls more and to more girls.

Imagine my surprise when one of the prettiest cheerleaders--the apex of the high school dating scene--said yes. That happened again in college.

Did I get shot down? Dozens of times. Did I let it bother me? No. Did it get me more dates? Yes. Did more women get naked with me? Yes.

Guys ask, ladies choose.

 

[headbang8]

Well, mine gets hard when I think about men. So I suppose you could say it influenced my lifestyle rather profoundly.

 

[marriedasian]

it simply didn't. for the longest time growing up, i had no idea my penis was "bigger" than average cause it wasn't like i was comparing my dick to other dicks all the time. even when girls starting touting how big my penis was, i simply ignored it as i knew girls would lie and just say whatever they want to stroke our egos. to be honest, my being asian had more impact on my lifestyle than anything.

now once i accepted that i was well-endowed down there, it still didn't change anything. your life doesn't get better simply because you have a bigger dick (or a dick at all). granted, it may help if you plan to do porn (however a big dick is useless on camera if it can't get hard on command for the acting role it needs to be in).

did women behave differently around me once they knew i was bigger? oh yes, they did. it was flattering at first but then it got old. trust me, it will get old. nobody can be that vain and once the excitement and fun settles, you'll find yourself wanting more in relationships with women whether it be an intimate relationship or just friends.

being that your dick doesn't play much of a role outside of sexual activities and peeing, i can't foresee it changing too much of anyone's lifestyle.

 

[Serpentlike]

It gave me more confidence when I was a skinny nerd.

 

[1666291]

it increased my confidence, knowing fully well I will not need any supplements or other things to enhance my dick. I am also a masseur, which helps a lot, particularly if I choose to provide happy ending or not...I am not the conventional handsome type so I get overlooked but as soon as my dick and/or ass comes into play, the behavior changes and by then it is too late for that person.

 

[deleted508]

Being hung definitely aided my confidence and self esteem. First with the ladies, then carried over to everyday life. Also gave me the confidence to become a swinger.

 

[ohiorod]

I will fully admit that my size had a definite impact on my lifestyle at one point. I’m not proud of those years and I have definitely grown, matured, developed a code of moral values for myself and of course gotten older. I can’t disclose what I did due to my age at othe time, but suffice it to say that my dick got me anything I wanted at the time, including some costly gifts. In retrospect, I would label it a form of prostitution though cash was never received. I was a hot commodity and a piece of meat. I woke up as I entered the college level, earned everything I have and got, and more importantly because I was attending a Jesuit school, I learned to develop core values (not based on religion), that have guided my life from there on. I continue to be that person and continue to grow and contribute to this world. I have found my niche in life and still stand back in disbelief at who I allowed myself to be during those early years of my sexual awakening.

I will add that based on my own life experiences, I highly advocate for teens to be able to experiment sexually with their peers and not become fodder for adult gay men looking for some young fresh meat.

I was somewhat attacked once on LPSG once for sharing this story and I shut down myself from discussing it for about a year. The critics reminded me that no one made me do what I did, but I believe we have to recognize that the brain of teens is not always fully developed and not everyone has developed a sense of choice or an assessment of risk.

So my size and my attractiveness definitely had an impact on my life for awhile and I am so glad that I wrestled back that impact and took control of my life.

 

[1046769]

For me as I am very happy with my size, I had/have no issues with being nude in front of others in the appropriate circumstances, starting with school showers after sport and continuing to this day, including in saunas/spas.

 

[1626381]

Met my would-be wife at 25. I was the first big guy she experienced and it turned out to be transformative for her. This led her to wanting to experience a “super sized” guy, which led to the opening up of our marriage, eventually for both of us. Needless to say, this has totally influenced my life, both in terms of the marriage specifically and just in general. It hasn’t all been smooth sailing, but on balance my dick has definitely added value—lol.

 

[1141702]

Lack of autonomy of my own genitals has made me depressed and suicidal somedays. I’m getting better though.

Informing people on needless infant circumcision And helping people through others choices has impacted my life a great deal.

 

[rope9839]

It's certainly influenced my sex life. I've dated quite a bit and I don't know that I would have been nearly as forward in a lot of situations if I was built differently.

 

[curtdude]

mine was opposite of the first poster of this thread. Growing up in So. California I was the only one of my friends uncircumcised. I got teased some wondered what was wrong with my cock. my response was dudes you were born like this my parents just chose not to have my cock chopped up. when word got out I was uncut girls were curious about it I think some dated me just to experience a uncut cock. I had my circumcision done to fit in with everyone else I kinda wish I had not but can't go back now

 

[treetrunq]

yes, i got teased a bunch growing up and was super shy about showing it off, then i found this place, learned i was packing and am now a total gigalo lol

 

[Gj816]

Yeah I guess to a degree our penises do influence our lifestyles, whether we want to admit it or not.

When I realized that my dick was above average in length and girth it gave me a nice confidence boost. Changed the way I looked at life and how I interacted with others.

 

[craigsl25]

Yes, it has. I always thought I was small but in reality Im as average as it gets. This led to me always turning down many a girls in my younger life. I did not want to have them laugh at my dick