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Obviously, gay sex is a lot different than straight sex. Most straight people consider themselves no longer a virgin once they've had penetrative vaginal sex.
But for gay men who aren't into anal, but rather just oral sex, handjobs, rimming, body contact, etc - are they still considered "virgins"?
I ask this because I have only had anal sex once, despite hooking up with a total of 4 guys in my life. The other 2 were oral, one of them was really just some body contact while making out and jerking off, etc.
Last night someone asked me if I was a virgin. I said no, considering I did do anal once when I was 25 (almost 26). But my first sexual experience was at age 23 with a guy who gave me oral, so when I was asked how old I was when I first had sex, I said 23. Is this technically a "lie"?
But for gay men who aren't into anal, but rather just oral sex, handjobs, rimming, body contact, etc - are they still considered "virgins"?
I ask this because I have only had anal sex once, despite hooking up with a total of 4 guys in my life. The other 2 were oral, one of them was really just some body contact while making out and jerking off, etc.
Last night someone asked me if I was a virgin. I said no, considering I did do anal once when I was 25 (almost 26). But my first sexual experience was at age 23 with a guy who gave me oral, so when I was asked how old I was when I first had sex, I said 23. Is this technically a "lie"?