How do girls take it in all the way? Cul-de-sac question too.

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  1. hackrolor

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    I'm above average but only slightly. I'm about 7inches and 6.8 in girth. I'd trade my girth for more length, but that's another issue.

    I bottom out on girls all the time. I'm only 5'6" so I date shorter girls so that might be why?

    But then again, I see some giant ass people like quercusone bottoming out a bunch of girls in videos that he barely even got that horny. Like no foreplay and he just went right into balls deep. :O :O :O

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    Also, I've heard something about a cul de sac. It's like past the cervix and if youre long enough to hit it, it will instigate a spontaneous orgasm from your girl. Anyone ever experience this?

    Pleasure spots - AskMen.com

    I know I've gotten past the cervix before, but nothing special just screaming from the pain......
     
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    Do you get ROCK hard? If you do, it can make it harder to take all of the inches. When a guy has a rubber dick and is 10 inches, its much easier to squeeze it down to more like 8 inches in order to get a hard poke on the other end of the vag.
     
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    There are a lot of variables involved with bottoming out.
    I am close to 6' tall, not that height makes a difference, and, for various reasons, a guy with 7 could bottom as often as I fully accept a guy with 9+. Sometimes just thinking about a great lover makes my body prepare to open up for him, even if accommodating his length or girth usually involves a lot of foreplay. Other times, my mind and body prefer the buildup to penetration and attempts to circumvent the foreplay means I'm not as deep as when aroused beyond the point of good sense. Occasionally, where I am in my cycle can also be an issue.

    There's no real rhyme or reason, but I know my body well enough to understand what we need to do for that extra bit of arousal. Or, can just enjoy him completely filling me up and working the cul-de-sac. Maybe just me, but even when there's some discomfort from the guy going deep, I still love the feeling and will keep riding/take it. :08:
     
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    Ive bottomed out in lots of women,,and theyve only ever had pain reactions to it,depending on how hard I was hitting it.Ive been told bending a woman over doggy style,drops the cervix so you can have more depth..But the spontaneous orgasm from it hasnt happen with me yet,,but sounds like fun..
     
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    You want to hear something weird and interesting that sort of relates to the topic?

    I had my gallbladder removed in April, and i was having a lot of swelling on my right flank area for years. I thought i was crazy until stretch marks started showing up on that side only. Then i found out i had a pretty sickly gallbladder and once it was removed i no longer have that swelling. It was pushing things out of place and now when i have sex in certain positions that used to cause me pain because the depth was too much...there was an immediate change in how much my reproductive organs could be pushed upward to make room for the length.

    So many things can vary from day to day in a womans body internally that could make the difference. Who knew something as weird as a gallbladder could?
     
  6. hackrolor

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    About how far is the cul de sac when a female is aroused, about how far is the cervix?

    I would say 5 for the cervix?

    But i'm seeing girls take 8, 9 inchers in pornos with a straight look on there face. How the FUCK does that happen?
     
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    I'm gonna be honest and say I got excited while reading this.
     
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    I think maybe they just have the depth for it.prob part of the reason they are in porn..Ive been told that just like men have varied penis length,women have varied depth of vagina.

    And it doesnt seem to be dependant on height of a woman either,cuz ive seen that Asian girl Kitty,who is like 5 feet all,take a 9 incher balls deep,and smile,lol.
     
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    The Kama Sutra suggests that just as there are different lengths of dick on different men, so too are there different depths of puss in different women. It actually goes down a list of different lengths and depths identified according to animals (big animals and small ones) and suggests the length and depth match up, with a note that if an imbalance is present, then it's better for his length to exceed her depth, so that at least ONE of them receives pleasure, whereas is her depth exceeds his length, then neither will.
     
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    That article made it sound exotic, or like it's something you have to try and achieve. It's not, it just happens during sex. Cul-de-sac sex isn't unusual with me at all. You don't have to have an extremely long penis to reach my cul-de-sac. I'm sure that you've had cul-de-sac sex and just never realized it.

    So not true!

    1. "Too deep" isn't a problem for men, it's the tightness of the vagina that matters when it comes to male enjoyment, not how long her vagina is.

    2. With me, I'm very happy when a guy isn't bottoming out and nearly bottoming out doesn't make sex better for me, so the idea that I'm not enjoying myself if a man isn't long enough to reach the end is absurd. Some of my best lovers had average sized penises and they got nowhere near bottoming out on me, which means we had a lot more freedom to enjoy more sexual positions, he never had to worry about fucking me too hard, and we could have sex for hours and hours without making me extremely sore deep inside.

    Doggy style shortens me and a lot of other women, but I think I've seen one or two who say they're the opposite. TheBoyfriend makes me most sore inside when he gets too enthusiastic in doggy style.
     
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    ;_;
     
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    Many good points. But in general, you should never compare porn with anything, it's like Wrestling, it's entertainment.
     
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    I agree with Petite on doggie style, it shortens the amount of penetration I can take. I find it rather painful, which is why I previously posted in the doggie over-rated thread that I agreed. It doesn't mean that I never enjoy doggie style I just have to be more prepared for it. Everyone is shaped differently men and women. My boyfriend is 7 inches and he always bottoms out in the beginning unless I have already had an orgasm, then he can press deep and not bottom out, however if we roll over and I sit straight up I think I can feel him bottoming out even when I'm fully aroused. Just like your penis is special to you, our vaginas are special to us. We are not all the same. What one women can take another cannot.

    And the cul-de-sac is underneath the cervix. If you stick your fingers in your girlfriend/wife and you feel her cervix, IF your fingers are long enough you can slide them under her cervix and back further than her cervix. I wouldn't recommend this unless she is aroused and at that time her vagina has softened and lengthened so her cervix should feel further back. Which could be more than you can reach, but it's just to give you an idea.
     
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    This is incorrect from a male perspective. A too short vagina can be uncomfortable and not as enjoyable during sex. There is definitely something to be said for the right "fit" in terms of penis-vagina intercourse and length falls right into that. If you have sex with a woman with a short vagina and only half of your dick fits inside, you just cant get that closeness and deep snug feeling you can where all or almost all can go in. yes, men have sensation and feeling all along the penis, not just the head/foreskin area. Tightness can be nice, but there are degrees to this is well, too tight can be just as bad as too loose.

    Whether it's the ability to completely relax during sex, location of the cervix, or just flat out a deeper pussy, from experience, the depth can vary amongst women. And absolutely the women that could take all or most of my nearly 8 inches of length were more pleasurable experiences. Probably because I like some of that slow, deep action where you just kind of be still and gently grind in missionary, this is not possible with a shallow vag and all you can basically do is the ole' in-out.
     
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    Really? How does it feel when you reach the end of the vagina? TheBoyfriend can't tell by how it feels on his penis, he can only tell by how I react when he does it, or I say, "Not so deep!"

    TheBoyfriend can't tell by feeling when he's bottomed out. He can't feel that he's reached the end. He tells me it all just feels tight in there. He'll ask me, "Is this too far? How about this?" and I'll tell him. He has to just remember how deep he can go and guess as well as he can.

    Part of the problem is that it isn't like he can't actually put his whole penis inside me, it just hurts when he does it! The vagina stretches, but at some limit that stretching is painful! And it gets bruised back there, or feels bruised and sore if he thrusts hard for a long time.

    And actually, he can go deeper if he goes slow, it's going fast that's the problem and causes the most pain and soreness. Slow and deep isn't a problem.
     
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    Uhhhh....I can tell. The tip of my penis hits something and it kind of hurts me a bit....not hurt but irritates. And if I've fucked a lot in the last few days, my penis is already irritated and sensitive. That's when I have to pull back.
     
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    Hasn't she complained or said, "Ouch!" before you've reached that far?

    He's not long enough to actually reach a "stop" back there, but I can't imagine how much that would hurt me! OUCH!
     
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    There IS a perfect fit - and when you have it, the penis fills up the whole vagina and when he explodes inside you, it is the most wonderful feeling - like (well this happened with my first husband so there was a lot of deep love) he's filling you up and overflowing with his love. Even a large (mine was 9"x7") can fit pretty comfortably for both, with enough pressure to know it's filled to the max, and even the back of the vagina/uterus doesn't hurt IF you go slow enough. Slow, can go deep. I am larger than average though......
     
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    I haven't found a perfect size. I've had lovers with different sizes and the best ones had different sized penises. It seems to matter a lot more if he has a lot of skill and if he's open minded and fun in bed.

    I was saying that I've had a few lovers whose penises didn't come close to bottoming out who were some of the absolute best lovers I've ever had. Maybe you're tastes are different, but I don't need to be filled to my total "depth" in order to have a fantastic sex life.
     
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    Well, he also happened to be a great lover and we explored the entire Kama Sutra together, long love-making sessions - he always saw I had orgasm/s and our sex life was an unbelievable experience and I didn't even realize how extraordinary it was since he was my first - which has pretty much spoiled me for everyone else......

    Yeah, the depth/size thing mattered to me - lost my virginity to him and 9"x7" was all I had for 10 years, so everything else sort of pales - but the thing that mattered most was the love. Sex without love doesn't do it for me, no matter *what* his size is.
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